Did you know you only have 7 seconds to make a first impression?
If you want to start crossdressing or presenting yourself as a woman, making a strong first impression is key!
In this blog post, I’ll share 7 easy ways to ensure you leave a feminine first impression that lasts. Let’s dive in!
1. Know What You Want to Project
Start by figuring out what image you want to project:
- Do you aim to blend in as an everyday girl?
- Or do you prefer to stand out as a gender-bending fashion diva?
- Do you want to be recognized for your style and sophistication?
- Or do you simply want people to notice your great legs? 🙂
Knowing your desired image helps you align your appearance and attitude with your goals.
2. Be Aware of Your Body Language
Body language is critical to first impressions. You never want to look nervous, shy, or on the opposite end of the spectrum, arrogant.
Instead, project the image of a classy, confident lady deserving of respect.
For more on this topic, check out these 27 MTF Body Language Mistakes to Avoid for a Flawless Feminine Image.
3. Wear The Right Color
Did you know that 50% of all non-verbal messages come from color? It’s true!
The colors you wear have a strong impact on how people perceive you, especially when presenting as a woman.
In this blog post, I share the meanings of different colors so you can choose shades that flatter you and boost your confidence.
4. Check your Grooming Habits
Physical attractiveness often boils down to self-care – grooming, neat hair, and stylish clothes.
Luckily, your presentation is within your control! Don’t underestimate the power of good grooming – it can make or break a first impression.
Here are 5 feminine grooming habits to incorporate into your routine.
5. Mind your Shapewear
The shape of your body powerfully broadcasts your gender expression in an instant. To appear as feminine as possible, consider investing in quality shapewear, such as:
- High-quality breast forms
- A waist cincher or corset
- Hip and butt padding
Shapewear helps create the right body proportions and feminine curves.
6. Dress for the Occasion
Have you ever found yourself overdressed or underdressed for a particular occasion? Not only do you feel awkward, but you stick out like a sore thumb!
Ensure a positive first impression by dressing appropriately for the occasion and adhering to local style norms.
7. Accessorize for Impact
Accessories can make or break an outfit and your first impression.
A high-quality handbag or beautiful shoes can elevate your look, while scuffed shoes or mismatched accessories can do the opposite.
Add the right touches, such as beautiful jewelry or a flattering pair of sunglasses, to enhance your feminine appearance.
What impression do YOU want to make?
There’s a lot to be said about this topic, but I’ve highlighted the most important areas you should consider.
Now I’d like to hear from you!
What’s the first impression that YOU want to make? Do you have any tips to add to this list?
I’d love to hear from you, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Another great article – For me it’s all about body language in the first instance. Having spent years watching deportment videos as well as observing how women move I feel like I’m getting there. I spend 30 minutes a day (when I’m Diane) in front of my wardrobe mirrors and watch and study my every move with a critical eye – sounds tedious I know but worth it to me.
Hi Lucille
Very informative article, I think of my self as a classy and elegant woman in my opinion is very important the manners and the selection of the clothes and colors .
Love Joanna ♡ xoxo
Joanna, those dresses are to die for, I’m just green with envy. LOL. They are beautiful.
Much love
Tina D. H.
Thank you Tina!! xo
Interesting tips, Lucille, and if the first meeting is crucial, and we must be more consistent with the female figure, no hair, panty hose or unpainted broken slippers.
And the vocabulary is important.Therefore that although the monkey dressed in silk is cute.
Happy Day of Love and Friendship Girls 2016
Hi Lucille
I always think of my self as a classy and elegant woman and that isThe way i want to live the rest of my life when I make full transition, good manners and present ourselves with dignity in my opinion is the most important thing for the transgerder woman as always very helpful article thanks. Love Joanna ❤
Hi, I am very much interested to increase the size of my buttock.
Can anyone suggest the most effective way or the supplements.
Hi
Lie down on your belly and try to raise your straight legs one by one. 30 times each leg in 1 set. 2 or 3 sets a day. It really helps.
Squats and deadlifts with as much weight as you can lift. Free hand squats work but they take much longer to do and to work. Be careful what you wish for, my bum is the size of a truck.
All The Best,
Katty-Anne
People often address me as a woman—Ma’am—even when I’m dressed as a man, possibly because I’m only 5 foot 4 inches in height. However, they quickly apologize as soon as I open my mouth, so I guess that is what I should work on…
proper accessories to accent clothes does the trick for me.
Scarfs, gloves, tinted/sunglasses, not gaudy, too-high heels,
shoes that march, do it for me w/ Women and T-GIRLS.
IT’S true! that first impression will put you on equal footing, so to speak, especially when leading up to intimacy with either.
Hi as one of my sister has already written your tips are only for younger generation what about older crossdresser Though for new genration lot many new tachinch have come and lot many assosery are available in our younger years these things were not there at least now if we are guided we can full fill our desire thanks