Have you ever felt like you looked more feminine or attractive when you were younger?
If so, you’re not alone – many crossdressers and trans women have shared the same feeling with me.
The good news? You can look beautiful and feminine at any age!
While we can’t stop the clock, there are simple things you can do to recapture that youthful glow.
In this post, I’ll share 7 easy tips to help you look younger and feel more confident on your feminization transformation journey.
1. Choose the Right Hairstyle
Hair has a huge impact on your appearance. Long hair is undoubtedly feminine, but remember that excessively long hair can accentuate signs of aging.
Consider these styles for a fresh, youthful look:
- Shoulder length hair: Universally flattering and youthful.
- Bangs: Cute, youthful, and great for concealing forehead wrinkles.
DO: Shoulder length hair
DO: Bangs
2. Embrace Your Sensual Side
While you shouldn’t dress like a 20 year old, you definitely want to avoid looking like a buttoned-up old lady.
Here are some ways to add a bit of youthful sex appeal to your look:
- Wear high heels and playful stockings.
- Choose clothing in sensual fabrics like lace, velvet, and fur.
- Show some skin (tastefully, of course).
Check out my previous article How to Dress Sexy at Any Age: 3 Crossdressing / MTF Fashion Tips to learn more.
3. Get Enough Sleep
We all need our beauty rest, and as you age, the effects of sleep deprivation become more apparent on your face.
Under-eye bags, dark circles, and lackluster skin can detract from a feminine look, so make sure to prioritize sleep.
4. Add Some Color to Your Wardrobe
If you tend to stick with black or neutral tones, consider incorporating some bright colors into your wardrobe.
Vibrant colors add a youthful energy and vitality to your appearance.
5. Whiten Your Teeth and Eyes
Your teeth can give away your age – over time, they often turn yellow or gray.
Whitening them can freshen up your whole face and make you look younger. Products like Crest White Strips are an easy and affordable way to brighten your smile.
The same idea applies to your eyes. Making the whites of your eyes look brighter can instantly lift your whole appearance.
LUMIFY Redness Reliever Eye Drops are a great option – they whiten your eyes without causing the rebound redness some other drops can.
6. Use the Right Skin Care Products
While most skin creams may not live up to their “miracle in a bottle” claims, there are specific ingredients that have demonstrated anti-aging benefits.
Combat wrinkles and firm your skin by using products containing ingredients such as:
- Retinoids
- Vitamin C
- Growth factors
- Peptides
- Hyaluronic acid
You can easily find affordable products with these ingredients at your local drugstore.
If you really want to take things up a notch, consider using an anti-aging skincare device. My favorite beauty devices include:
- Medicube Age-R Booster Pro
- Omnilux Contour Face LED Light Therapy Mask
- ZIIP HALO Nanocurrent and Microcurrent Facial Toning Device
7. Smile
Yes, it’s a cliché, but it’s true – a smile is the quickest way to enhance your appearance.
Smiling elevates your cheeks and functions like an instant facelift. Plus, it makes you look more pleasant and approachable when presenting yourself as a woman.
Beautiful at every age
Now for my favorite bonus tip: Look to stylish and attractive mature women for inspiration.
I know we have a lot of gorgeous, ageless beauties in this community, so I’d love to hear from YOU: What are your favorite tips for looking sexy and stylish at every age?
Even better, inspire us by sharing your photos below!
Love,
Lucille
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i believe….as we all ‘age’ in years
we get ‘smarter’ in our minds.
our hearts always ‘feel’ young…seeking the fountain of youth
smart dressing will get 2nd looks!
ineer or outer “beauty” is in the mind of the beholder!
THANK GOD…for compasionate genetic gals…
Lou…
Thank you Lucill For youer Tips, on The Femme Photos. You Were Right A Good is A Huge Confidence Booster Be a Women.I Am 66 in june 67
Looking real good – and I LOVE your shoes!!!
Dear Lucille,
That’s a great article. All of your points are very important and if we can follow them, it will be most helpful. I have been blessed with a youthful appearance, and although I’m 78, most people don’t believe it. Thanks again for your helpful advice.
Would you believe I’m 57?
allie
Nope! Cute shoes, BTW!
I would give anything to be as gorgeous as Sarah Palin.
I am in my early 40’s and tall (6′ 1″) and slim build.
Back when I was in my 20’s I used to look like Suzanne Somers when I dressed up and I hope to get to the point of passing again.
These women are a great inspiration and I’m greatful for your tips, Lucille.
Lots of love,….
Rachel
My hair has thinned out at my age of almost 63 but is still rather full. Treating it has become difficult in that I can not do what I did with my hair 20 years ago or so. I use a special shampoo and conditioner and although wash it every other day use very little shampoo and from the Galvanic Spa System which may or may not have helped regrow my hair but I am still faithful to it.
My favorite is CHER. I don’t know how she does it!
I have a very elaborate tanning system which I am proud of and use a tanning lamp every morning up to an hour so I am tan all the time. I do wear bright colors and dressing well can never stop for one who perseveres, I know. As for aging this must be hard for anyone and especially for transwomen and I am among them. Smiling is something I could work on but as my lifestyle is getting better I do smile more and with the rigorous cleaning my teeth get they are white all the time and also because I avoid anything which may stain them like coffee or tea or chocolate or blueberries. I also sport high-heeled footwear and am well known for this but am constantly having something done with them through a zapatero.
Wow, I would have voted for Tanya. This is very nice representation of tgwomen and how well they withstand the forces of time and entropy. The classy women age in camera eye and it is harder to compare. Thanks Lucille for advice,
🙂 Hugs jeri