Have you ever felt like you looked more feminine or attractive when you were younger?
If so, you’re not alone – many crossdressers and trans women have shared the same feeling with me.
The good news? You can look beautiful and feminine at any age!
While we can’t stop the clock, there are simple things you can do to recapture that youthful glow.
In this post, I’ll share 7 easy tips to help you look younger and feel more confident on your feminization transformation journey.
1. Choose the Right Hairstyle
Hair has a huge impact on your appearance. Long hair is undoubtedly feminine, but remember that excessively long hair can accentuate signs of aging.
Consider these styles for a fresh, youthful look:
- Shoulder length hair: Universally flattering and youthful.
- Bangs: Cute, youthful, and great for concealing forehead wrinkles.
DO: Shoulder length hair
DO: Bangs
2. Embrace Your Sensual Side
While you shouldn’t dress like a 20 year old, you definitely want to avoid looking like a buttoned-up old lady.
Here are some ways to add a bit of youthful sex appeal to your look:
- Wear high heels and playful stockings.
- Choose clothing in sensual fabrics like lace, velvet, and fur.
- Show some skin (tastefully, of course).
Check out my previous article How to Dress Sexy at Any Age: 3 Crossdressing / MTF Fashion Tips to learn more.
3. Get Enough Sleep
We all need our beauty rest, and as you age, the effects of sleep deprivation become more apparent on your face.
Under-eye bags, dark circles, and lackluster skin can detract from a feminine look, so make sure to prioritize sleep.
4. Add Some Color to Your Wardrobe
If you tend to stick with black or neutral tones, consider incorporating some bright colors into your wardrobe.
Vibrant colors add a youthful energy and vitality to your appearance.
5. Whiten Your Teeth and Eyes
Your teeth can give away your age – over time, they often turn yellow or gray.
Whitening them can freshen up your whole face and make you look younger. Products like Crest White Strips are an easy and affordable way to brighten your smile.
The same idea applies to your eyes. Making the whites of your eyes look brighter can instantly lift your whole appearance.
LUMIFY Redness Reliever Eye Drops are a great option – they whiten your eyes without causing the rebound redness some other drops can.
6. Use the Right Skin Care Products
While most skin creams may not live up to their “miracle in a bottle” claims, there are specific ingredients that have demonstrated anti-aging benefits.
Combat wrinkles and firm your skin by using products containing ingredients such as:
- Retinoids
- Vitamin C
- Growth factors
- Peptides
- Hyaluronic acid
You can easily find affordable products with these ingredients at your local drugstore.
If you really want to take things up a notch, consider using an anti-aging skincare device. My favorite beauty devices include:
- Medicube Age-R Booster Pro
- Omnilux Contour Face LED Light Therapy Mask
- ZIIP HALO Nanocurrent and Microcurrent Facial Toning Device
7. Smile
Yes, it’s a cliché, but it’s true – a smile is the quickest way to enhance your appearance.
Smiling elevates your cheeks and functions like an instant facelift. Plus, it makes you look more pleasant and approachable when presenting yourself as a woman.
Beautiful at every age
Now for my favorite bonus tip: Look to stylish and attractive mature women for inspiration.
I know we have a lot of gorgeous, ageless beauties in this community, so I’d love to hear from YOU: What are your favorite tips for looking sexy and stylish at every age?
Even better, inspire us by sharing your photos below!
Love,
Lucille
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thank you for your tips i am still working onsome things with family, you will be hearing from me soom.
Kristin Scott Thomas turns 50 on May 24. She gets my “other” vote.
I think all these ladies look lovely because they are all comfortable with themselves and happy to be themselves. No woman likes to tell her age and I am no exception. and so, “over seventy” will do. I haven’t been out and about recently, but people always thought I was 10-15 years younger than my real age. Nature was kind to me,but I had to struggle over the years to learn a lot of things my younger sisters now learn from you all at once. From all of us, -Thank you. love. melanie
I am 56 and a person the other day thought I was 37!
He could not belive I was 56.
At 60 I don’t take pictures so much any more period; much to the chagrin of my family and friends. Consequently I show you me as a young woman. I will never be that thin again but I have lost weight and, maybe, I’m close to the way I want to be. Thanks for the tips though as every little but helps.
Great Capture ~ very nice
I’m 66+ and having fun dressing.
hugs+kisses
While most of these ladies always look great (Demi, Meg Ryan, Kim C, and Heather in particular), I will cast my vote for Michelle Pfeiffer. Catwoman for the leather look, but for pure sexiness, watch The Fabulous Baker Boys!
Toodles,
Tina
Yes, she is another one that should be on my list! There are soooooooooo many beautiful, HOT women over 40 – I couldn’t possibly include them all. But Michelle Pfeiffer is definitely cream of the crop.
I am 61 and try to dress as I feel a mature woman of my age would elegently I hope
Great suggestions as always, thanks. I Just shorten my hair and added color and I’m surprised the difference. I’m always surprised the comments and flirts this 59 yr old gets when out shopping.