There’s more to speaking as a woman than just feminizing your voice. The words you use (and how you use them) are equally important!
It doesn’t matter how good you look or how “passable” your female voice might be… If you have masculine speaking habits, you’re going to send mixed messages to people.
Here are the main differences between masculine and feminine communication styles:
- Men tend to be more direct and “task-oriented” in their communication. They use their words for the purpose of achieving results.
- Women tend to be more “circular” and detail-oriented in their communication. They use their words for the purpose of forming relationships.
So, what’s the secret to achieving a distinctly feminine style of speech?
In this blog post on transgender voice tips, I share 3 ways to successfully speak as a woman. Read on to learn more!
1. Feminize Your Vocabulary
Men and women have very different vocabularies, so it’s critical to incorporate feminine words into your speech. Here are some key distinctions:
- Women tend to use more descriptive adjectives. A woman wouldn’t tell you about the “pink dress” she just bought. She’d tell you about the “adorable fuchsia Diane Von Furstenberg wrap dress” she just maxed out her credit card on.
- Men and women often use different words for the same thing. For example, a guy might call the lower abdomen the “gut, whereas a woman would be more likely to call it the “tummy.”
To expand your feminine vocabulary, listen to women in real life, on TV, and in movies. Read women’s magazines. Look and listen for words you don’t use and incorporate a few new words or descriptive phrases into your vocabulary each week.
2. Talk More
Studies show that women speak three times as much as men. While this obviously isn’t a universal truth, it’s something to consider.
Are you one of those people who answers questions with one word? If so, practice expanding on your answers. Include more details and/or how you feel about the situation. (Yes, talk about your feelings, girlfriend!)
Of course, this does NOT mean you should drone on and on about yourself. Women are also typically good listeners, so make sure you listen as much as you speak.
3. Ask More Questions
Finally, since women use their words to form relationships, they tend to ask more questions. Men tend to tell rather than ask. If a man asks a question, it’s to get down to the point.
Practice asking more questions the next time you have a conversation with somebody. Not only is this more feminine, it makes the other person feel validated because you’re showing interest in them.
Want to learn more about the differences between masculine and feminine communication? Check out the video below to dive deeper into this topic.
Let’s discuss…
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts and if you agree with my observations.
How important is feminine communication to you? Do you struggle with this or have you mastered the art of girl talk?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I tend do both ways when I’m around female’s I listen to what they have say n try care so I’m not being rude or in hurry but when around guy’s I tend to know how they talk or feel bout thing’s unless they get aggressive or negative feedback than walk off leave well enough alone
what about hypnosis for the voice
will it work along with feeling more feminine and acting it
you should speak that way
Wilma, hypnosis for feminization is only an adjunct to voice training, the one problem I have noted over many years in the TV/TS community is the tendency for the T-girls I have known to adopt a few mannerisms, speech habits, a feminine walk and posture, and attempt to ‘pass’ in public on the strength of consciously acting in a feminine manner. being feminine must be second nature, not something practiced, or induced by hypnotic trance. I have tried hypnosis for a variety of purposes over the years, with varying results. hypnosis doesn’t work for everyone, and requires regular sessions as the suggestions tend to fade with time. being truly feminine comes from within, hypnotherapy may induce a temporary sense of being female, to be truly passable will take some effort to produce a credible female persona.
Yours in transformation, Donnielle.
It’s been a slow transformation as I am a male submissive/slave and about a year ago I started to become femmy as its all in the brain change and I have been studying your site (love your tips) off and on but I would like to learn more how to talk more like a women, as the change in me has been gradual, I have always have been somewhat transsexual as I was born in between my two sisters. It makes me feel good to start the process for real as I didn’t know it, as when I became a sub /slave that this would happen to me as it’s right in my wheel house..I feel good about the changes in me but after I told her she was not to happy about it but we will work it out! When I explained it was out of my control she began to understand more so there is hope!
No i have’nt master the talking as a woman i’am working on it.I would like for someone to come over to my house and teach me how to talk as a woman.
I have been looking for more info on transsexuals and transgender women
Diana you look great to me wished I looked that good not mention your smile it’s charming is that a wig or your real hair
Tell me Diana were you male and now female if so you look teriffic
no, lucille, I have not mistressed the art of girl talk; to begin with; when I was attempting to garner information on being a woman, my poor browser didn’t get that what I wanted was tips to act like a woman and kept giving me all these sites about being a lady and how to capture a man. I was so frustrated that I put inappropiate langauge in the search box question place and the poor browser then would bring me variations of my slanderous langauge. Finally I changed syntax and asked for “passing” as a women, and gee whiz- it worked. But I was at your site last nite and it all went in one ear and out the other-so i bookmarked your page. Now all is happy and I feel bad about bad mouthing my browser-it was doing the best the simple son of a monkey could. Thank you for your consideration-love and peace be yours.
Anthony
iam nervous and ifeel pain in my chest but iwill change one day.
idon’t to be male.ifeel better when the time iware a cloth of gi
rls.i also want to
change my body completely.