Your name plays a big part in shaping your feminine identity.
Some names sound sweet and innocent, some are classic and regal, while others exude an exotic and mysterious vibe.
As a crossdresser or trans woman, you have the unique opportunity of choosing your own female name.
If you’re like most of my readers, there’s a story behind your chosen feminine name.
So, in this blog post, I’d love to hear about the special meaning behind your name.
Please leave a comment below, sharing your feminine name and the story of how and why you chose it for yourself.
I’m excited to hear the story!
Love,
Lucille
First I want to say that I think that your site is wonderful. I have learned a lot of new things that are really important in my life. I chose the name Andrea, first because of a GG lady that I met many years ago who I could talk to about anything, things that I couldn’t tell anyone, even my spouse. She was a very classy lady and a beautiful person who overcame a lot of adversity in her life. She never judged you by what you did or who you were, she accepted everybody for themselves. She gave me a lot of guidance with my feelings that I have had since I was young about why do I feel like I should have been born a woman.
I kept this to myself for a long time and I never followed up on changing my lifestyle. I learned a few years ago that my dear friend Andres passed away from cancer. So when I started dressing i decided to take her name in honor of her.
I thought that this would be a great way to honor a woman who helped influence me in my life. The last name I chose is Peters.My real middle name is Peter, so I thought that this went well with Andrea.
Thanks again for a wonderful site and keep up the great work you are doing for all of us gurls.
well I chose my name (now leagaly it is mine all the time)as its a very different spelling and is it has been told to me its a Welsh version so i liked it even more given that i am scottish irish english ect ect ect lol as for my middle name well my mom calls me a princess and my old name was hebrew for King now my middle name Sarah is Hebrew for princess and that is so me in a nutshell
well the name is similar to my ‘real’ name and I kind of like it.
Well Lucille,
I wanted a girly name, but not too far out there. Someone had named me Jenny a long time ago and I went by that for a long time. But for some reason it never felt right. Then one day, I met a young woman who had just graduated from an MBA school. We were with a group, she was with her soon to be husband and they were such a cute couple. I admired her. She was the type of very fem girl but also a down to earth, comfortable girl next door young woman I wished I had been able to be. Add to that, my wife had always like Mary as a name and it hit me. I’ve been Marybeth ever since. As a footnote, althought Mary is a name my wife likes, I can tell she is not crazy for it. I may have to change my name again and I don’t know how I will feel about that. But if we can find a name that my wife can really get behind, I’ll change it for her, even if its Bambi.
Lucille, it is so sweet of you to give us this opportunity to tell our stories. I was instantly tingly when I read about it. The Linn in my name is from a lady with whom I worked. She is the classiest, feminine, woman I know; her conservative yet sexy clothes with just the right accessory – pearls, maybe a braclet, just perfectly matched,feminine and sensual. Her makeup and lipgloss are always perfect for her complexion and clothes. Any man who sees her, or even better, speaks with her, is smitten. You can feel his sexual tention. Her close friends call her Linn. I’m her whenever I can dress and especially when meeting or close to men. The Amber comes from the gorgeous and incredibly professional porn star. She exudes sensualness without ever taking off her clothes. Her sexual ability to please a man, to see him achieve a total release, to be totally spent and exhausted is something I try and achieve when fulfilling my feminine role. Love to you Lucille. xo AmberLinn
For years I had no name at all, just another pretty face hiding from the world. Then I used the feminine spelling of my name, ‘Billie, but found that it really worked better when writing and led to confusion when I was in public. Besides, I wanted a name that said who I really was inside. So I searched my heart for a new name and tried new names Like I was trying on shoes before I found Karen Renee which just felt right to me. I’ve been Karen ever since. In a related thought, I remember the first time I ever went out in public and ordered a drink at a bar. I released that day that before that moment I had never spoken a word as a woman! Now I spoken many!
Hugs,
Karen
I picked the name Jennifer after the actress Jennifer Hind She is such a pretty girl and i wanted to be like her. it just seemed to fit.
Hi Lucille,
Well, choosing my name was actually something I did without really even thinking about it. My name, Sarah, has always been with me for some reason. Long before I even transitioned I had that name in the back of my mind and when I would meet a girl with the name Sarah, I sort of took more of an interest in her, knowing that it’s my name too. It’s really always been my name and so when the time was right, it wasn’t a question what my name would be…