Have you ever felt like it might be too late to begin crossdressing or embark on your male to female transition?
If so, I’m here to tell you that it’s never too late to pursue your feminine dreams!
Regardless of your age or circumstances, there’s no better time than NOW to fully embrace your inner woman.
In this blog post, we’ll explore 7 reasons why it’s not too late for your MTF transformation or transition. Let’s get started!
1. There Are More Positive Transgender Role Models Than Ever Before
In today’s world, there are more positive trans role models than ever before.
From Janet Mock, transgender author and advocate, to Danica Roem, the first transgender woman to win a state seat, now is the perfect time join these role models in raising awareness.
2. With Age Comes Wisdom and Experience
While we might all wish to be forever young, age brings with it valuable wisdom and experience.
Your male to female journey can benefit greatly from the insights and knowledge that come with time.
3. 50 is the New 30 and 70 is the New 50
Despite our youth-obsessed society, there are many fabulous female icons in their 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s, and beyond who prove that age is only a number.
Candis Cayne, Alexandra Billings, Tracey Norman, and many other trans celebrities prove that beauty and femininity have no expiration date.
4. You Care Less About What Others Think
As you grow older, you tend to care less about other people’s opinions. And that is a beautiful thing!
Spending less time worrying about what people think of you can definitely enhance your MTF journey.
5. These Pioneers Prove it’s Never Too Late to Reinvent Yourself
Countless late bloomers have achieved remarkable success by starting over later in life. Here are examples of transgender women who reinvented themselves after age 50:
- Rachel Levine, who serves as the 17th Assistant Secretary for Health for the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, began her transition when she was 54.
- Jennifer Pritzker, notable for being the first transgender billionaire, came out as transgender at age 63.
- Caitlyn Jenner, American media personality and former Olympic gold medal-winning athlete, came out as transgender at the age of 65.
6. It’s Better to Dare Than Have Regrets
When you reflect on your life one day, would you rather look back on a life that was lived to the fullest, even if it ruffled a few feathers, or be filled with regrets?
The choice to embrace your true self is yours to make TODAY.
7. There are More Resources Than Ever Before
Today, there is a wealth of resources available, including transgender and crossdressing support groups, websites, books, and specialized products and procedures.
These resources can go a long way in supporting your feminine transformation or transition.
In conclusion
I hope this post has convinced you that it’s never too late for your MTF transformation or transition. Now is the perfect time to pursue your feminine dreams, whatever they may be.
I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic, so please share your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
When I finally accepted that my gender issues were not imagined nor a fetish and not going away. I contemplated whether or not I could continue to sneak, deny and maintain my secrets, as I had done my whole life, for the rest of my life. Sooner or later the truth will be revealed. Perhaps taking control of our future is better than having the past catch up to us. At 59, I sought psychological and medical help. It was a bit embarrassing, a bit worrisome and at times I wondered if I was doing the right thing. But storms pass and I’m still here with no regrets.
Hi Morgan, every time I see you here you get prettier & prettier… I am in therapy considering my transition at 75yo
Having just turned 60,it is interesting to see that the 50-60 age group is the group is more likely to transition. To be perfectly honest, I really would like to transition, but the current environment is putting me off. I have been crossdressing for 40+ years & find it a useful release. In a funny way, I find my mental health improves(!).In the meantime, I guess transitioning would have to be delayed until there is improvements in the environment.
I liked this line from my psychologist during my gender therapy. He explained that for us to decide what has to enable these difficult decisions is to realize the pain of remaining the same HAS to be greater than the pain of changing. That rang true and has guided me ever since. Transitioning for me has been about sacrifice and reward, then liberated to live authentically ♀️
Yo todavía sufro día con día el no atreverme a salir al mundo como lo que realmente soy internamente.
Tengo 65 años, mi pareja sabe mi condición pero no me apoya, ya dejé de hablar de eso con ella pues solo provoca peleas.
No tenemos relaciones sexuales porque ella NO quiere, a veces dormimos en la misma cama pero alejados, evitamos tocarnos.
Esto no es vida, nosotras tenemos un alma sencible, alma de mujer y al menos a mí, me duele mucho esto que me pasa, me dan muchísimas ganas de llorar y no lo puedo hacer.
Esto es un infierno que ojalá acabe pronto, sé que estoy en mi ocaso pero aún asi, me gustaría lograr mi sueño de ser mujer, si alguien tiene algún consejo, se lo agradecería mucho.
Besos de su amiga Julia.
Hello Julia,
Up to age 17 I was a happy go lucky guy. Then I went into the military. I went to Corpsman School and wound up in Vietnam with the 5th Marines. They were afraid of nothing, and this is why so many of them died on the battle field. I spent two tours putting Marines back together and I was doing a good job. Then I and the LT were captured. I spent 8 month and 2 days as a POW, before we escaped. I won’t go into the bad thing that happened, but because I started hating the world and every one in it.
All those years all I dreamed about was me as a beautiful girl. And then my dream become real. When I dress I am that girl, and even though I’m 82 years I’ll be that girl for many more years to come. I don’t have to have a doctor change me to a beautiful girl, because I’m already one. I feel you Julia. We’ve bot had a lot of pain but we made it this far and many Years from now when I’m 101 years old, we’ll have a drink a laugh about our past.
Love,
Veronica
Hola Julia, gracias por contarnos lo que vives y, creo que habemos muchas que pasamos por lo mismo. Te saludo con gusto y si quieres intercambiar experiencias, cin gusto a i me ancanatarñia hacerlo. un beso.
Hello everyone, New oh so very new to this and in all honesty not sure what I am doing, however I oddly have a good supporting system via my grown children.
So glad I found this place. Can some of you help and point me in the right direction. So much to learn, but mostly is the fear of looking silly. I don’t want to look masculine, never have. Now I’ve decided to embrace this. How do I become the beautiful woman I want to be.
It’s heartbreaking that so many of us weren’t able to find the courage or the means to transition until later in life. For so many years trying our best to adhere to the societal gender stereotype and enduring fears and anguish. All these years I had been isolated not only physically but psychologically because I couldn’t fit in or share my thoughts without risking ridicule. So many of us in our 50’s, 60’s and 70’s have endured this plight alone. If not now, then when?
Thank u Morgan , I’ll be really careful , hopefully I’ll get some money saved and do this the right way so I won’t have health issues with my transformation, u too Morgan be careful , health always comes first , I hope u doing well
Yes you are right , I’m one of them , I always want to be a woman , I sometimes feel cheated in life , I’m going on 55 and still trying to be a woman , it’s not easy , I been taking Swanson B.O. and bountiful breasts when I can afford it , I started out late but I hope I can persue being a woman , I want to look pretty and feel like a woman
Jennavnef, please beware of taking B.O. I was taking that when I had a blood clot (pulmonary embolism) that permanently damaged my lungs. I informed the doctor and they told me that B.O. had nothing to do with the blood clot. But the reason for the clot was undetermined. I have other health issues so it could have been some other reason or a combination of things. Nevertheless, I came close to dying. When you do it on your own, you’re taking a big risk. If you’re serious about feminization, seek a doctor’s supervision. The results you can achieve are better also. I know some are pressed for money, I am too. But again I’ll say, if not now, then when?
I am 71 and want so much to be “gurl” and have breast,
I know at my age I cant do the whole sex change but I am encouraged that other gurls are living their life as the have wanted to for so long.
as my email indicates I have wanted to feel pretty and feminine since I was 13, or earlier>
God bless you!
Well, beautiful ladies, it’s now my time. In two weeks I will turn 73. I’m in the second year of my transition, and God willing, will be totally complete by late spring. I have never felt freer nor happier in my entire life. The sense of freedom that one gets from finally being their true self is…well, intoxicating.
You see, I’ve worn many hats in my life trying to convince the world that I was a male. from being a veteran in the army to law enforcement. You know – macho stuff. And hating every single minute. From alcohol and drugs to attempted suicide: Anything to stop the incredible pain.
I am now totally free to be who I always was. A woman. In mind. In soul. And finally in body. Thank you God for showing me the way to true salvation. Amen.
P.S. Ladies, whoever and wherever you are, it’s never too late to be true to thyself. Carpe diem. Blessings to all. XOXOX
P.P.S. Lucille, a word of thanks from my heart for your support, help and insight in guiding us all to our place in the sun.
That’s groovy.