Who doesn’t want to look like a sexy, hot woman? The trick, of course, is to avoid crossing that fine line from sexy to slutty.
If you are a crossdresser or transgender woman who wants to look sexy AND classy, you’ve come to the right place.
First, let’s define what won’t necessarily make you sexy:
- Wearing super short skirts and stripper heels
- Putting on huge breast forms
- Pouting your lips and sticking your butt out
True sexiness is a lot more subtle. In this blog post, I share 5 easy things you can do to enhance your feminine sex appeal – without overdoing it.
1. Don’t Bare It All
When it comes to dressing sexy, the #1 rule to keep in mind is: Leave something to the imagination.
Rather than baring it all, try showing off just one area of your body at a time.
- For example, you could flaunt your legs in a shorter skirt or dress, while keeping your arms and chest covered with a higher neckline or long sleeves.
- Or, you might choose to reveal your décolletage with a lower-cut top, but then balance it out with a longer skirt or trousers.
By highlighting just one area of your body, you create a sexy yet sophisticated look that is sure to turn heads.
2. Wear Red
Color is a huge part of the impression you make on people. Each color has a meaning that is communicated on a subconscious level.
If you’re looking to up your feminine sex appeal, there’s one color you should be reaching for – RED.
This bold hue is synonymous with passion, desire, and love, making it the perfect color to wear to ignite your sensual side.
Incorporating even a few touches of red, such as a statement bag or a pair of heels, can work wonders for enhancing your feminine allure.
3. Define Your Waistline
One way to accentuate your figure without showing too much skin is by defining your waistline. This technique not only flatters your shape but also creates a sexy hourglass silhouette.
Achieving this look is simple – try wearing a belt over a dress or tucking in a top at the waist.
Another excellent option for defining your waist is a wrap dress, which cinches in at the waistline and flatters your curves.
For more tips on how to create that sexy hourglass shape, be sure to check out my blog post on How to Get a More Feminine Figure (Male to Female): Top 5 MTF Tips.
4. Try a Sexy Workout
Achieving a fit, toned body through regular exercise is undoubtedly a great way to feel sexy. However, why not take it one step further and try a workout that also enhances your sex appeal?
Belly dancing, pole dancing, or cardio striptease are all excellent options that not only burn calories but also allow you to channel your inner seductress.
These workouts also help develop more feminine and fluid body movements, an essential part of an overall attractive feminine appearance.
Try the Sensual Dance Tutorial For Beginners in Heels workout above and get started today!
5. Wear Sexy Lingerie
It’s hard NOT to feel sexy in a pretty bra and panties.
Even if you don’t plan to show off your underwear, wearing sexy lingerie under your clothes (whether it’s male or female attire) will make you feel more seductive and confident.
You should also get rid of any lingerie that doesn’t add to your sex appeal. This includes anything that’s worn out or that doesn’t fit properly. If it doesn’t make you feel hot, don’t keep it!
For more on how to look your best in lingerie, check out my blog post on Crossdressing / Transgender Lingerie: How to Look Hot in Female Lingerie.
What are your favorite ways to look sexy and classy?
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. What are your favorite ways to look both sexy and classy? Please leave a comment below!
Love,
Lucille
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A red silk dress can work wonders. I have to admit that I feel very sexy and feminine whenever I wear the dress you see in my photo!
Several years ago I attended a lecture given by a fashion consultant. She told her largely female audience that if they wanted to attract attention to any part of their body in order to show off their best attribute, that they should wear red but to avoid wearing red if they did not want people to be drawn to look at certain parts of their body.
Red can get people all hot and bothered. It can quicken the pulse and increase ones breathing rate. Red can be a turn on or a turn off. Besides saying, “Look at me!” red can send the message, “Watch out for me!”
Great lips/mouth? Red lipstick. Big feet? Red shoes will expose that. Lovely waist? Red belt attracts attention. Unfortunately, a red dress can make one look fatter (just as a black dress can make one look thinner). But, if you are self-confident and carry yourself well, red is a great color.
I meant to add, my secret for feeling feminine but not slutty is to combine modesty with sexiness. If I wear a revealing top I will always wear a longer skirt … and if I wear a shorter skirt I’ll choose a top with a higher neckline and / or longer sleeves. I try and buy dresses that follow this rule. With trousers it’s sexy tops a go go !!
This is my second summer living 24/7. Last year I tended to wear feminine trousers and tops, more because of my own self confidence. This year I have started wearing dresses and skirts and I feel fab – and very grown up! Usually I don’t wear tights and I adore the feel of wearing just pants and a bra underneath. Being pre-surgery, dresses are more comfy than trousers but it’s still irritating to have to conceal my ‘bits’. One day I shan’t have to worry about that I hope!
What makes me FEEL and LOOK sexy? Well, hopefully the same thing! LOL. But they can be two different things. Could be clothes,could be peoples’ reception of little ‘ole me. Depends.
Funny as it seems, when I am least happy with my ‘finished product’ is when I get the most compliments. So apparently, it isn’t how good or bad I think I look. It’s actually others opinions. And the compliments I get are what can set me reeling.
When people are friendly is when I feel most sexy. And of course compliments never hurt! To be accepted and flattered, sometimes one in the same, is the most uplifting and exhilerating feeling of all for a gal like me.
In terms of clothes, a nice, shapely dress, maybe an A-line or empire waist, makes me feel the sexiest. Also, when I have a good hair day and my lisptick comes out just right makes me feel the best! As always, a cute and sexy pair of shoes put the icing the cake. So as always, it’s never one thing that puts me over the edge. Usually, it’s the alignment of my stars. LOL.
Ciao
The thing i love about summer ??? is i live just outside the city and i love to put on something low cut most of the time red!!!! (i was not allways in a wheelchair was abel to walk with my wife at one point of time) Iam in a wheelchair and i will roll down to my other garage and while sitting in my wheelchair i will be trying to fill my garden tractor with gas ill see a few cars going by wondering if they should stop to give me a hand my long hair wig will be blowing in the wind and i have the best looking legs a guy or even gail could ever want must because i cant use them any more when my wife was alive we would have so much fun geting dressed up she would darn near rip off here bra when she would get out of work right in the parking lot sometimes befor she would even get into her car had a nick name of Debi Do cuz that what she would do but her turn on would seeing me wear one like 99.99% of the time so back to me filling my tractor i would make sure my bra strap will slip down my arm and my breast would all most be bearing all!!!! and they are so real looking i belive in buying the best that these cars going by will just about go off the road but the great thing is when i get that done and get up on my tractor (garden type) these same cars would come by within minutes and check me out iam 6 foot 2 inches (139#) 36 C and short shorts and breast a bounceing mowing my lawn ( 5 acres) hair long brown and sommetimes even my Dolly shoes on do i ever get the looks and the honks of the car horns and waves is mostly from the women driving by the guys just a staring at me so ladys thank you for the honks and waves Ladys you know who you are so stop by and who knows might be i can meet that special lady like my lttel Debi Do would do loved to rip that bra off and go as far as tapeing her girlfriends down. And to geting mine to pop out like a fine glass of wine i miss her so much wish there was a place to go for to meet that gal that wants to be that guy but wants to be with that guy that wants to be that gal so watch out the next time you see this gal??? filling that tank with gas thank you Randi.
Lucille you are fantastic everything you create is fantastic
but on the latest femme sexy advert it says that it is full of affirmations but there aren’t any on the mp3????
It is so exciting when you produce a new mp3
let’s have more and more
Thomas
Hi I feel sexy when in a short skirt and my toes painted. I love my tops to show some cleavage. And shoes are always a turn on when they have a min of 2 1/2 heel. I very seldom do the sluty look I am a little old for that at 58 but I have been out for dinner and shopping and passed as a full lady. I just have a bit of a problem with food I love to cook and eat like most people but its real hard to keep a size 8 / 9 but so far I have done pertty good with a 36 B chest I feel I am doing will. Thanks .. jilliann
at my age I can still be somewhat sexy but I love to dress and look my best when going out, not slutty but fem and about as sexy as a 70 year old can look , which is not all that bad, just being me and what I am makes me feel good all over
I am 70 also and I feel the same way