Who doesn’t want to look like a sexy, hot woman? The trick, of course, is to avoid crossing that fine line from sexy to slutty.
If you are a crossdresser or transgender woman who wants to look sexy AND classy, you’ve come to the right place.
First, let’s define what won’t necessarily make you sexy:
- Wearing super short skirts and stripper heels
- Putting on huge breast forms
- Pouting your lips and sticking your butt out
True sexiness is a lot more subtle. In this blog post, I share 5 easy things you can do to enhance your feminine sex appeal – without overdoing it.
1. Don’t Bare It All
When it comes to dressing sexy, the #1 rule to keep in mind is: Leave something to the imagination.
Rather than baring it all, try showing off just one area of your body at a time.
- For example, you could flaunt your legs in a shorter skirt or dress, while keeping your arms and chest covered with a higher neckline or long sleeves.
- Or, you might choose to reveal your décolletage with a lower-cut top, but then balance it out with a longer skirt or trousers.
By highlighting just one area of your body, you create a sexy yet sophisticated look that is sure to turn heads.
2. Wear Red
Color is a huge part of the impression you make on people. Each color has a meaning that is communicated on a subconscious level.
If you’re looking to up your feminine sex appeal, there’s one color you should be reaching for – RED.
This bold hue is synonymous with passion, desire, and love, making it the perfect color to wear to ignite your sensual side.
Incorporating even a few touches of red, such as a statement bag or a pair of heels, can work wonders for enhancing your feminine allure.
3. Define Your Waistline
One way to accentuate your figure without showing too much skin is by defining your waistline. This technique not only flatters your shape but also creates a sexy hourglass silhouette.
Achieving this look is simple – try wearing a belt over a dress or tucking in a top at the waist.
Another excellent option for defining your waist is a wrap dress, which cinches in at the waistline and flatters your curves.
For more tips on how to create that sexy hourglass shape, be sure to check out my blog post on How to Get a More Feminine Figure (Male to Female): Top 5 MTF Tips.
4. Try a Sexy Workout
Achieving a fit, toned body through regular exercise is undoubtedly a great way to feel sexy. However, why not take it one step further and try a workout that also enhances your sex appeal?
Belly dancing, pole dancing, or cardio striptease are all excellent options that not only burn calories but also allow you to channel your inner seductress.
These workouts also help develop more feminine and fluid body movements, an essential part of an overall attractive feminine appearance.
Try the Sensual Dance Tutorial For Beginners in Heels workout above and get started today!
5. Wear Sexy Lingerie
It’s hard NOT to feel sexy in a pretty bra and panties.
Even if you don’t plan to show off your underwear, wearing sexy lingerie under your clothes (whether it’s male or female attire) will make you feel more seductive and confident.
You should also get rid of any lingerie that doesn’t add to your sex appeal. This includes anything that’s worn out or that doesn’t fit properly. If it doesn’t make you feel hot, don’t keep it!
For more on how to look your best in lingerie, check out my blog post on Crossdressing / Transgender Lingerie: How to Look Hot in Female Lingerie.
What are your favorite ways to look sexy and classy?
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. What are your favorite ways to look both sexy and classy? Please leave a comment below!
Love,
Lucille
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hi I was hoping for some advise. I am a bisexual male that loves looking at my ass and dressing up in ladies lingerie. I would like to get a bigger butt and a more feminine shaped one. any advise shortcuts. I don’t exersize been wearing a clincher and its working butttt when it comes out then the fat pours out again. LOL I want just for mu ass to look beautifull and curvy nice soft and big. please help what can I do
oh and are there perhaps any supplement I can take that will not disturb my male parts, bits and performance, I still love having sex with woman. I want my lower body and but to be perfect shapely and curvy with a big butt
Lucille!
I get so excited when I see your letters! Your words of encouragement, suggestions of self-improvement and guidance helps to comfort me! If we could only have the opportunity to become Caitlyn as well as the FAVORABLE media surroundings! I love how our lives have become public, generally speaking, but we all have individual experiences and lives that will continue to hold us back. I hate to say that because I DONT WANT to live a lie!!!
Thanks for your tips. I will try and leave my comments later
Thanks Lucille, for your 4 “sexy” tips. I’ve never worn red, always seems too attention-grabbing and I’m always trying to not get extra attention and just blend in with other women in the busy city downtowns.
I’ve been jogging early morning in public as a woman for years now. Tight capri-length yoga pants, pink socks, very clingy tank top over bra with a nice tight-fitting white fleece jacket (shows tank and bra straps nicely for all to see), pony tail up high in scrunchy and sunglasses. I’ve felt sexy when I wear a dark thong under very light powder-blue or off-white tight yoga capris.
I guess I feel most sexy when I’m in a very nice, classic-elegant blouse with pencil skirt, hose, flats, and sweater-scarf in a high-end hotel lounge or restaurant, and my waiter standing over me is looking right down my low-cut scoop-neck top at my breasts/cleavage – and YES, wearing very sexy lingerie under my classic exterior feels wonderfully sexy in my mind.
A lovely post – not sure about feeling sexy but I feel absolutely fabulous event when I wear luxurious lingerie under a well fitted pencil skirt and a fitted blouse + 3″ heels.
The best look of sexy that I can describe without going overboard is actually very simple. My first example is not of me and not someone who looks like a model. It is a plus size woman that I see on occasion. She wears a blouse or top that fits close but not tight bringing attention to her breast. A pencil skirt to mid calf and a bit of a heel. The heels and skirt cause her to walk slowly and just enough shift in her hips from side to side to give her a proud and sexy look as she walks and she catches the eye od about everyone she passes.
My idea and one I try to emulate is a low cut t-shirt that exposes the top of my breast and a skirt that runs as long as mid calf but with a split to one side maybe 1 to 2 inches above my knee and my waist cinched to better accentuate my hips. This allows me to show a little flesh but leave the rest to the imagination. I find that what someone imagines make me more appealing as a woman than attempting to show moreof myself.
At my age, 60’s+ l will be happy to look like a woman, if l
can accomplish that, l will be made.
l haven’t exactly got the best looking face, they’re better
looking legs on bar stools than mine(but at least l can still walk). lf l can get acceptance for what l am, l will be made.
But one thing that is important, no matter young or old, is to
have dignity & integrity(decency & respect).
It’s so funny to me in retrospect: When I was little, I wanted to wear some red clothes, but was told in no uncertain terms that boys didn’t wear red.-at least not at that time and in that location. Red was a color for girls. I guess maybe they were right. I enjoy wearing red now, and that doesn’t make me a girl; it’s because I already have a feminine delight in the interplay of bright colors I am drawn to wearing red (or pink or peach).
With a quick hug and a peck on the cheek to all my new girlfriends,
Sylvia