Want to know the secret to becoming a sexy woman?
Here’s what it’s NOT:
- Wearing super short skirts and stripper heels
- Putting on huge breast forms
- Pouting your lips and sticking your butt out
True sexiness is a state of mind!
There are lots of small things you can do to boost your feminine sex appeal – without crossing the line from sexy to slutty.
Here are 4 must-try tips:
1. Wear red
Color is a huge part of the impression you make on people. Each color has a meaning that is communicated on a subconscious level.
Without a doubt, RED is the sexiest color of all!
Red is associated with passion, desire, and love – so wear red to increase your feminine sex appeal. Even a few touches of red (like a red bag or heels) will put you in touch with your sensuous side.
2. Try a sexy workout
A fit, toned body is undeniably sexy. But that doesn’t mean you need to spend hours on a boring treadmill.
Instead, why not try a “sexy workout?”
Belly dancing, pole dancing, or cardio striptease will help you burn calories while channeling your inner seductress. These workouts will also help you achieve more feminine and fluid body movements.
Here are some sexy workouts to try:
3. Wear sexy lingerie
It’s hard NOT to feel sexy in a pretty bra and panties.
Even if you don’t plan to show off your underwear, wearing sexy lingerie under your clothes will make you feel more seductive and confident.
You should also get rid of any lingerie that doesn’t add to your sex appeal. This includes anything that’s worn out or that doesn’t fit properly. If it doesn’t make you feel hot, don’t keep it!
4. Make seductive eye contact
The way you make eye contact communicates your level of confidence, femininity, and sex appeal.
It’s important to make eye contact, but at the same time, you don’t want to overdo it.
Here are 3 seductive eye contact skills to practice:
- Look people in the eye, but break contact every 5 seconds or so. Staring too intensely can creep people out.
- Try the triangle technique. When you are listening to somebody, look at one eye for 5 seconds, then the other eye for 5 seconds, and finally the mouth for 5 seconds. Continue rotating your gaze in this pattern.
- Look from the side. To appear more flirtatious, try a sideways glance instead of looking at somebody straight on. Do this while smiling and raising the eyebrows slightly.
What makes YOU look and feel your sexiest?
I’d love to hear your thoughts on this hot topic, so be sure to leave a comment below!
Love,
Lucille
Ever since my engagement last October, different types and styles of chemises have been my focus of late. This is an increase in tempo as I have mastered dressing smart and tastefully sexy for the corporate work environment while dressing sexy hot for dating and leisure through the years of my transition.
I have been a fully developed, non op (no plans for SRS) transgendered woman for the past eight years who finally met the love of her life and now finds fulfillment being sensual as possible when alone with my fiancé. On the night my sweetie came over to take me to dinner and propose, I was ready for him when we got back to my house and wore a short, see through Morgan Taylor Lace Chemise in black with nothing else except high heeled evening slides and perfume to continue the romantic evening and consummate the engagement. My new future husband was literally speechless when I walked in the living room. Body hugging, transparent chemises really bring out the best of my acquired figure of 34D-27-36, plus are a romance multiplier as well as making me feel really girly! Small size usually works while the matching g-string and bikini panties I usually don’t bother with but will wear occasionally.
For me, the ultimate feel of being sexy is during passionate romance, so I dress accordingly for the occasion. My evening wear for our upcoming wedding night in May includes lace top thigh-highs, a lace chemise and robe, a lace g-string, a lace veil, and high heel evening slides with all items in white; these were all purchased within a month of being given my engagement ring. Can you tell I’m really excited
about my honey and I spending our lives together?
Wearing a sexy push up bra and panties make me feel so sexy and feminine. I love my new femme name lisa. I am not yet full time as a women but hope to be soon. Lisa.
Wearing a sexy push up bra and panties makes me feel so femme. I love my new femme name lisa. Hope to be living full time time soon. Lisa.
I started belly dancing classes before I came out full time. These classes have given me posture, confidence and great socialisation skills as female. I can highly recommend it.
Hi Michelle honey if I ever get out of male mode which I’m stuck in now I may try it at home before I’m still a little on the shy side I hope I get over that my confidence is still a little low my life turned a little upside down when my wife passed away due to illness and I’m not quite over that yet I’m trying to move forward but for now I’m stuck at my non understanding sisters but thanks for the tip and the encouragement Love M.J.
I feel my best while shopping and getting help with sizeing for the best looking dresses and bras at a womens only clothing store. The saleslady treats me just like I am a lady that wants to look her best. I love the new lady I have become with your help.
walking in high heels, wear stockings, pantyhose, and all types of hosiery, love thongs, paint my nails in red, and I love my new name : Ninna , makes me feel very feminine
Wearing red does make me feel sexy. Whenever I see a classy, beautiful, confident woman she’s always wearing something red. Lipstick and nail polish are my favorite thing to wear in red. I am becoming the classy woman I’ve always aspired to be. And when I fix my red lipstick I truly feel like the woman I was meant to be a and have become.
Hi Lucille
Your are right girl wearing red does make you look and feel sexy. I never thought about that before. Yes I can feel so sexy when I wear my skirt with a nice underwear like a thong or panties. But just wearing a nice sun dress can make me feel beautiful in a nice hot summer day outside. Not to mention what girl like myself does not love to wear her pretty bikini. My number one goal when I dress up is too make myself look sexy, how can anyone that dresses up not feel that way everyday. I love being a girl and I hope and wish someday I can feel like one pretty sexy women in this world when I walk down the street with my man holding my hand.
Hi Lucille.I hope you’re fine.
Thank you for your free video for Top 10 Male To Female Tips,they’ll be very useful as I go out in public alot now and love it.I do make eye contact while out and smile,too,which I feel is important,and I often find a warm smile is received.:-)Red is one of my favourite colours that I feel very sexy wearing.I have a black and red dress which I love going out wearing and that makes me feel very sexy and sensual.Getting a sexy workout video is a brilliant idea and something I will definitely buy with having a love for dancing!I love wearing lingerie which I own plenty of in various colours,it does make me feel so intensely sexy and amazing!
Love and hugs,Debs :-* XXXXXX