Want to know the secret to becoming a sexy woman?
Here’s what it’s NOT:
- Wearing super short skirts and stripper heels
- Putting on huge breast forms
- Pouting your lips and sticking your butt out
True sexiness is a state of mind!
There are lots of small things you can do to boost your feminine sex appeal – without crossing the line from sexy to slutty.
Here are 4 must-try tips:
1. Wear Red
Color is a huge part of the impression you make on people. Each color has a meaning that is communicated on a subconscious level.
Without a doubt, RED is the sexiest color of all!
Red is associated with passion, desire, and love – so wear red to increase your feminine sex appeal. Even a few touches of red (like a red bag or heels) will put you in touch with your sensuous side.
2. Try a Sexy Workout
A fit, toned body is undeniably sexy. But that doesn’t mean you need to spend hours on a boring treadmill.
Instead, why not try a “sexy workout?”
Belly dancing, pole dancing, or cardio striptease will help you burn calories while channeling your inner seductress. These workouts will also help you achieve more feminine and fluid body movements.
Here are some sexy workouts to try:
- Luscious: The Bellydance Workout for Beginners
- Carmen Electra’s Aerobic Striptease
- Pussycat Dolls Workout
3. Wear Sexy Lingerie
It’s hard NOT to feel sexy in a pretty bra and panties.
Even if you don’t plan to show off your underwear, wearing sexy lingerie under your clothes will make you feel more seductive and confident.
You should also get rid of any lingerie that doesn’t add to your sex appeal. This includes anything that’s worn out or that doesn’t fit properly. If it doesn’t make you feel hot, don’t keep it!
4. Make Seductive Eye Contact
The way you make eye contact communicates your level of confidence, femininity, and sex appeal.
It’s important to make eye contact, but at the same time, you don’t want to overdo it.
Here are 3 seductive eye contact skills to practice:
- Look people in the eye, but break contact every 5 seconds or so. Staring too intensely can creep people out.
- Try the triangle technique. When you are listening to somebody, look at one eye for 5 seconds, then the other eye for 5 seconds, and finally the mouth for 5 seconds. Continue rotating your gaze in this pattern.
- Look from the side. To appear more flirtatious, try a sideways glance instead of looking at somebody straight on. Do this while smiling and raising the eyebrows slightly.
What makes YOU look and feel your sexiest?
I’d love to hear your thoughts on this hot topic, so be sure to leave a comment below!
Love,
Lucille
transformation tips?
Hello everyone my name is Chuck can I have been cross-dressing on and off since I was a teenager. It started out as just a way of sexual gratification and I only did it at home and had to hide it in the closet I was married for 34 years and divorced a few years ago and I’m still the best friends with my ex-wife. My kids are grown and gone and they have successful careers to my wife supported me throughout my military career of 20 years and Beyond. I am totally into women, but over the years I have built up quite a collection of women’s clothes and used to sneak around but now that I’m living alone my closet is split between half women’s and half men’s clothes. Over the years I have developed my own style of clothes and the look I have decided on is basic casual dresses and skirts and wrinkle-free polyesters and synthetic blend material. Over the years I have tried several brands of bras and panties and have found comfort wearing Bali t-shirt bras and silicone breast forms from Jo-Ann’s Fabrics. I wear a bra and panties daily and own over 15 bras of various styles and colors. I’m comfortable dressed as a man or a woman. I am totally in touch with my feminine side, but because I live in a small community where everyone knows my family, I choose to dress feminine and go shopping and trying on clothes out of the local area. I’m a very private person and don’t use social media. I have a few friends and co-workers that knows that I crossdress and because of my personality I am accepted by them. I wear a bra and panties daily and occasionally wear a little eye makeup to feel a little sexier. I have found a hair stylist and she and I are developing a hairstyle that I can wear which is kind of feminine and masculine and versatile. I am 6’1,225, and wear a 40c bali, I am clean shaved from the waist down and found it hard to find shoes to fit, size 12-13, but pay less has them and reasonably priced. I am sharing my comments as a genuine person of the crossdressing lifestyle and open to your feedback. Thanks enjoy life and be comfortable who you are!!
Charlene,
Loved all your facts. I identify with you. I am retired and now enjoy the freedom of dressing like I feel I need to. I started hormone treatment but it is slow and not much breast development. Best wishes, MaryEllen
Ive been wanting to try crossdressi ng but im nervous.
I feel very gurl-like when I am applying makeup especially lipstick and when I am wearing a bra or corset. I have recently had success in using lip plumpers to expand my narrow lips…no Angelie Jolie!!!! but the lip width has doubled., I will continue with this.
I wear bras every day under my dull male clothes. It is so easy to slip in some falsies and then WOW i love my breasts..Have been treating them with Breast Actives and have gone up a cup size in two month
luv and hugs to all you gurls out there
CELIA
My lingerie and heels together with my breastforms and neatly tucked away scrotum and make-up especially lipstick and long nails…
I’m a leopard print girl. Shoes, purse, undergarments you name it. Cute polka dots are another fav of mine. Most of what I wear portrays a soft feminine side with just a hint of sexy.
One thing that makes me feel confident is exercising and trying to soften and relax my gestures and my face. I feel as though I am becoming stronger while relaxing and showing my emotions more. I just started wearing bras and I love having the extra strap and support. Finally making sure that I am clean shaven and have no body hair. This is probably the most difficult thing. Little by little I am having laser treatments. It’s working but it is taking so long.
nothing wearing matching bra and panty sets that also match the dress or skirt and blouse that i am wearing at the time. that makes me so sexy that i never want it to end, but also found that when i match my panties to my nighty i get the same feeling.
I have a friend looking to make the transition and needing help buying clothing, I’m trying to research what kinds of sexy dress styles would be best for him to start with… he wants silky, lacey, mini skirt sexy, I just need to know what styles and cuts would look best as he isnt ready to try things on at the stores yet.
I just started dressing and exploring this. I’m in class right now, and I’m wearing a pair of purple with black lace panties, and gray knee high socks. I bought a cheap pair of black ballet flats to go with the socks, and they’re so cute! (I’m not wearing the flats in class, but when I get home I will). I know heels look sexy, but I like cute flats with cute socks.