You’ve put a lot of effort into perfecting your feminine image – from outfits and makeup to practicing your voice and body movements.
But today, let’s pause the improvement talk and take a moment to appreciate the progress you’ve already made. Because, seriously, you’re amazing!
What’s your proudest accomplishment on your MTF journey so far?
It could be a major milestone like starting hormone therapy, coming out to a friend, or going out in public as a woman for the first time.
Or it could be a smaller victory, like buying your first lipstick or choosing your feminine name.
Even if you’re just starting out, there’s a lot to celebrate. Acknowledging your true self is a significant step forward!
So let’s hear it! What is your greatest transgender or crossdressing achievement?
Please share your story with us in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Realizing and coming to terms with the fact that I am a woman and not the monster that I often feel like in the inside is the greatest accomplishment for me.
I know that I have a very long way to go on my journey, but to just accept and let my own femininity grow and blossom has had a profound effect on my own self esteem, self worth, and self image.
Now; like the butterfly bursting from the chrysalis, I can hardly wait to take flight and show everyone just how beautiful and graceful I really am.
Dear Lucille. I’m transgender for many years, although I only know it since one and a half year. It’s a big statement for my self to know, what I am and who I am. A very important moment in my live happend just a couple of months ago, when I went out to visit my neighbour, as Henriette off course. My neighbour she knows about my personal things and we had a nice chat. After half an hour another neighbour came in for a visit. I wanted to leaf, but my neighbour said, no stay here, sit down. It’just the way it is. Well the three of us had a nice chat and it felt really good. Also afterwards, when I see the other neighbour it is still good and no problems. It makes live relaxed. Lucille thanks for your nice help. Greetings Henriette.
my greatest t,g achievement is becoming a member of one of the greatest meet up groups here in new york city and becoming their official photographer.and of course getting dressed ,putting on my lingerie and a pretty outfit and going to our thursday meetings and going there riding in the subway surrounded my thousands of people as i sit in my seat and no one even bothers to stare at me ,i am a a middle aged woman just doing her thing.thank you lucille for including me in your thoughts love phylisanne.
My greatest transgender achievements have been in leading workshops at transgender conferences and having attendees come up to me afterwards and tell me that the workshops helped them in some way. Yes, I love to blend in with other ladies in the world at large, but I’m of an age where I obtain greater pleasure in paying forward to younger trans people.
Going shopping at a high end mall in with a couple of friends. I’ve been driving en femme for a long time but never had the guts to go shopping. Last week I pushed my fears aside and stepped out into the big wide world as Emma. Now I can’t put her back in the box. She’s felt freedom and I can only move forward from here.
Going to the pub on my own and having my photo taken in the bar.
I would have to say that dressing and being who I truley am in front of other girls..genetic girls. Was what I needed. I am and was accepted as just one of the girls. And I also think that when I shop for fem items in stores in person dressed fem or not has helped me. I didn’t just jump right in. But more eased into it. Take your time girls and it will be more and more natural to you, Then sooner than later your a girlie girl..with no going back.
Ther have been so many milestones along my journey and so many to go as I have decided to complete my transformation. Like so many of us loosing the weight attaining the confidence to go out in public, etc have been huge but the what I thought would be one of my greatest challenges was made easy by my friends.
Coming out to my best friend of 30 years who only knew me as “Chuck” was monumental. I anticipated shock and some rejection before he could accept me but instead he embraced me. I was so nervous and shaking the night I told him he said “he was so relieved that this is all it was” the way I was acting leading up to that moment he thought I “had to tell him I had cancer or something” . Now to tell the family……..