You’ve put a lot of effort into perfecting your feminine image – from outfits and makeup to practicing your voice and body movements.
But today, let’s pause the improvement talk and take a moment to appreciate the progress you’ve already made. Because, seriously, you’re amazing!
What’s your proudest accomplishment on your MTF journey so far?
It could be a major milestone like starting hormone therapy, coming out to a friend, or going out in public as a woman for the first time.
Or it could be a smaller victory, like buying your first lipstick or choosing your feminine name.
Even if you’re just starting out, there’s a lot to celebrate. Acknowledging your true self is a significant step forward!
So let’s hear it! What is your greatest transgender or crossdressing achievement?
Please share your story with us in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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My greatest achievement was coming out to my wife and convincing her of my love and commitment to her and the family. Getting her active support took some time but eventually managed it.
second achievement is convincing her and becoming a full time home maker gradually relieving her from the house work so that she can concentrate on her successful career
I was lucky in that I was able to play dress up as a child, most of my friends were girls who allowed me to wear their clothes and be one of crowd. At that age, it was all innocent play and our parents did not seem to find it strange. However, all good things end and I was stopped from being the girl I knew that I was.
It was sometime before I could be a girl again. One of my old friends recognised that I had changed; I was no longer the happy girl that she had known so long ago. With her help, I learned everything I needed to know to pass as a girl. Being only just eleven at the time I was not a woman yet.
The first time she took me out dressed as a girl was both terrifying and wonderful. Leaving her house and walking down the road was one of the scariest things I have ever done, but by the time we reached the bus stop, I felt more relaxed. None of the people we passed had looked twice at me, even though many of then knew me. We spent a wonderful day shopping for what was to be the start of my wardrobe.
The next day to remember was the day came home to find my favourite dress hanging on my wardrobe door. This was the worst day of my life, there is no easy way to tell your parents about your problem, but this has to be the worst. After what seemed to be an eternity my father told me to put my dress on and show him what I looked like wearing it. I took a lot of care getting my hair and makeup right before putting on my underwear and dress, it was only when I was sure that I looked as good as I had ever done that I went downstairs to the lounge. The next few weeks were bad, but I continued to be a girl at home and a boy at school. Eventually my parents accepted that I was a girl, although my father resisted for much longer than my mother did. From then on they supported me and help me become the woman I am today.
My comment is of support.
I applaud all of you ladies for your courage! I feel like a woman inside and always have, but I’m a massive man. I have a wonderful accepting girlfriend who I love and love to pick dresses, shoes, hand bags and go shopping with her. She loves my taste and wonders how I’m so good at coordinating outfits etc.
In recent days my daughter has come to me and said she would like to become a man and labeled herself as transgender. She is shocked at my understanding and appreciates it. I will continue to be feminine on the inside and continue to cheer on and support everyone on their quest for living how they feel inside. I think the Latin term is Fortis qui Tenacitatem. You will find acceptance because people are on a never ending quest to be themselves.
I wish everyone well on their journey.
Kate
Thanks for sharing your support, Kate!
I have been dabbling at crossdressing for several years. All of my purchases had been through the Sears catlog or other plain paper companies. The first time I went into a store shopping for myself in the ladies section was quite a thrill and helped me feel more seriuos and mature about who I was becoming. Lately I have been exploring feminization surgeries which seem to be much less expensive in countries such as India and Peru. I have contacted several places about surgeries starting with my breats as my BF would like them to be larger, although he has suggested that we make the break and I start living with him as a woman before doing any surgery.
Love
Georgii
My greatest achievement thus far is that I have lost weight and am now a size 12 compared to a size 16. I now have better selection of clothes and lingerie available in my new size. It has also given me a new level of confidence in the public eye.
Well, my greatest crossdressing moment hasn’t happened yet. But if were to say what has been my greatest crossdressing moments up to this point, is dressing up in drag for Halloween.
I have two special “moments”. The first was when I had the courage to open the hotel door and walk through it dressed as Joanne to be out in public as my feminine self for the first time. Scary but wonderful and the prelude to so many happy times following that first evening. The second, this year was to travel by air as Joanne. It really wasn’t even that scary! I am confident now in my femme self and it turned out to be a wonderful experience that I can’t wait to repeat. These may not seem such a big deal compared to some of the experiences shared on this blog and I admire and congratulate those who have been brave enough to take much bigger steps than I ever will. I am particularly in awe of those who’s actions have opened the doors for others like myself to allow our feminine natures to blossom with a little less fear and a lot more joy and understanding. Thank you all!
Joanne