You’ve put a lot of effort into perfecting your feminine image – from outfits and makeup to practicing your voice and body movements.
But today, let’s pause the improvement talk and take a moment to appreciate the progress you’ve already made. Because, seriously, you’re amazing!
What’s your proudest accomplishment on your MTF journey so far?
It could be a major milestone like starting hormone therapy, coming out to a friend, or going out in public as a woman for the first time.
Or it could be a smaller victory, like buying your first lipstick or choosing your feminine name.
Even if you’re just starting out, there’s a lot to celebrate. Acknowledging your true self is a significant step forward!
So let’s hear it! What is your greatest transgender or crossdressing achievement?
Please share your story with us in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Going full time – what an awesome experience!
sounds benign, and not to exciting, but …
Picking up the phone and calling to find a gender therapist.
This continues to be my greatest achievement to date! She has helped me to learn so much about myself, so much more than just how I identify with myself.
I seriously believe she has been able to save my life.
My greatest achievement was the result of something I didn’t expect. Betrayal!!!
A few weeks ago I wrote on this blog that I had tweezed my eyebrows and that when a female “friend” confronted me about it I confided that I was planning to transition. She said that she wasn’t surprised and wished me luck. I told her this “in confidence”.
Here’s where I was betrayed because she let it be known to many people. These were people (some but not all) that I would have eventually told but in my own way and in my own time. So now that the word was out, I had to face family and friends and explain my plans. The news was met with support from some and shock and/or resentment from others. But after shedding many tears I came away feeling stronger and more empowered to continue. I have since found a therapist and I am learning so much about myself as I move along on my journey. I am now feeling comfortable wearing panties at all times, sleeping in sheer nighties, shaving my legs and armpits and wearing light eye makeup when going out at night. As I move forward, I am happier than I ever dreamed possible.
I Went to a club meeting, for which I am the only cross dresser, in the group. All the other members know that I cross dress and encouraged me to attend dressed. The meeting is at a coffee shop in a popular hangout neighborhood, and, I was nervous as all get out. I got out of my car, wearing a pair of new heels, walking to the front of the coffee shop, I fell. A young man came over to help me
It has been sometimes painful, but worth it. I shave my legs and underarms twice a week, silky skin is positively divine. I started Lucille’s flat to femme program about a year or so ago and finally fill my B cup soft bras. I only wear soft cup so my breasts can feel everything! Wow. My little girls have become more sensitive along the way. I did use silk epilady for about a year also so my hair has thinned appreciably. I pierced my ears and wear little diamond studs. I am using clear nail polish occasionally also. So, some new clients may first call me ‘mam’. I feel warm and smile softly, not really acknowledging. It is never mentioned again. I will now slowly look at hints of daytime makeup. There really is a pretty lady inside me and she relishes in her chances to just be. Oh, ladies slim fit jeans are a must daily with satin panties beneath, a lace cami beneath a shirt, sometimes man tailored blouses let me button feeling good.
Yikes, I never posted with you, Lucille, before. Thank you a thousand times for being there and helping me be more of the lady I really am.
Lea
I wore a bra and pantries and hose to work.
I had also put on a dab of mascara.
felt great..
No one noticed
my other great achievement into my transformation
and blossoming into a beautiful girl is my first satin nightie
when I tried it on with my high heels I became a princess
I could not wait to film myself in full femme and I feel great
and I feel more like an girl everyday and i’m proud of it.
Frankie smales
girl in training
Several years ago I was full madeup with nails and false eyelashes for an outing with some female friends. They suggested after dinner we go to a club to dance. I didnt realize it would be a straight club fully of guys and my jaw dropped after entering. I was so scared and nervous. We took a table and had drinks and over time at least 6 different guys hit on me and asked for a dance. I obliged and grew so confident and excited that I was passing as a real girl and behaving so. Even used the womens bathroom without anyone noticing or saying anything. The night was a complete success and only confirmed how much I adore being debbie