Are you afraid to step out as a woman for fear of not “passing?”
Instead of fixating on passing, my advice to crossdressers and transgender women has always been to try to “blend in” as a woman instead. (Read more on that topic here.)
But lately, I’ve been wondering… Is blending in REALLY the ultimate goal when presenting as female?
After all, why wear cute outfits, style your hair, or apply makeup if no one notices?
I think it’s a natural feminine desire to want to stand out and make a statement. Does your inner woman share this desire?
This is an interesting topic, and I’d love to hear your thoughts:
- Do you enjoy getting positive attention when presenting yourself as a woman?
- Or do you prefer to blend in and attract as little attention as possible?
Please take my poll and share your thoughts below!
Love,
Lucille
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Almost all the clothing I have and wear is feminine. I do wear mostly men’s shirts but those are flowery, loose and silk. I have this incredible underwear fetish, panties and camis and am planning on expanding my wardrobe. I wear womans jeans and pants all of the time and have recently taken to wearing shirts open so that my colorful camis show. I’ve discovered myself becoming much happier as I blossom. So here I go.
First off let me say I love it when I get the chance to go out en femme.
It is exciting and invigorating to get out in public as a woman. My ultimate goal has been to be as feminine as possible. When I go out I want to be accepted as just another woman going about her activities. It is so satisfying and rewarding to just blend in another woman in a sea of women be it shopping or in a restaurant.
On the other hand, as with all women, I want to stand out enough to be noticed and attract a little attention. Part of the enjoyment of being out en femme is knowing you are being ‘checked-out’ by other women and men.
When I am dressed up as a beautiful woman and I very good feeling & enjoy when I go to hotel for dinner with my friend.
I absolutely want to be noticed for my femme beauty. After all, that’s one of the fun things about being a lovely trans girl. I have always wanted to have the sophisticated attractiveness of a successful business woman, like Ivanka Trump. I don’t find her particularly attractive facially, but her apparel and shoes are a perfect example of feminine sophistication. this desire is the very essence of why I have always wanted to be a woman . . . the incredible power of attraction both men and women find in a lovely sophisticated woman. It excites all of my senses from the wonderful tingle of super sheer stockings on my freshly shaved legs to the mild pressure of my panties holding my masculine features in place as a smooth sleek representation of who I am inside.
I love the look and feel of a pale sheer foundation and blush that accents the smokey eyes I create with eye liner, mascara and shadow.
The art of the feminine mind, empluing the face, neck, hair and breasts as the canvas is beyond my ability to explain the incredible joy I experience both showing it off as well as preparing to be perceived as a true woman.
The sexual stimulation is what guides my desires to connect with other trans girls as well as cis women. I am totally enamored with the female form and emotional orientation. This is why I want to experience life as a woman as often as possible.
When I cannot be en femme . . . It’s all I think and dream of . . .
Hi,
Ilove to go out as a woman – it gives me freedom, I can just be the person I am.
I can’t blend in. I’m 6’4 in heels and 210lbs. That doesn’t mean though that I t to drag all the attention around. I just dress the way I want, and don’t care about what would others think.
Victoria,
Can’t tell your height from picture, but I would kill to look even half as good as you. Tall women are becoming more common than you think. I am 6’5″ when in heels and just enjoy trying to be the woman that I am. I would only give you a second glance because I would you look like a beautiful woman and nothing else.
I admire your courage, I feel the same, but Im a coward
When I dress, it is for me and not to show off to the world. Successfully blending makes me more comfortable and relaxed.
When I am dressed up as a beautiful woman, which I feel to be inwardly, I just love, and enjoy, being out in the public. It does take courage, but after all, you enjoy how you feel.