Are you afraid to step out as a woman for fear of not “passing?”
Instead of fixating on passing, my advice to crossdressers and transgender women has always been to try to “blend in” as a woman instead. (Read more on that topic here.)
But lately, I’ve been wondering… Is blending in REALLY the ultimate goal when presenting as female?
After all, why wear cute outfits, style your hair, or apply makeup if no one notices?
I think it’s a natural feminine desire to want to stand out and make a statement. Does your inner woman share this desire?
This is an interesting topic, and I’d love to hear your thoughts:
- Do you enjoy getting positive attention when presenting yourself as a woman?
- Or do you prefer to blend in and attract as little attention as possible?
Please take my poll and share your thoughts below!
Love,
Lucille
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My first goal was to blend in… When I’ve reached that goal -I was succesfully 🙂 – and my self-confidence in being me was ok I’ve started with sometimes ”stand out” experiments like cisgender women do.
After all I’m a woman…;-)
Yo pretendo pasar despercibida por la calle, pero adoro cuando los hombres se fijan en mi y me dicen lo guapa que estoy.
I pretend to be lost in the street, but I love when men notice me and tell me how beautiful I am.
I am afraid to to dress up as a woman I have no one to call to be my friend and help me I don’t know what I should do I have been fitting this for many years I just wish I had someone that dress up like a woman that could help me out I just don’t know what to do
I generally end up standing out somewhat.
I like to blend in most of the time but when I’m dressed in something sexy with a glamorous makeover I do like to stand out. It’s always nice to get compliments
I think that my interweman needs to blend in ,I have ultimate goals like going to the beach and getting the wonderful tan with my biki on and taking long walk with a dress on so I think lending in for me and my goals[it will keep me positive on what for me as a weman.
I stand out becase I dress and make-up as a woman rather than a drag Queen.. thats why I always mingle in well in new circmstances.
I don’t really feel like I can ever go out in full fem. I guess I’m just a closet fem as I spend all my time I’m not out and about in my favorite ladies comfy clothes. While the thought of being able to wear a bra out of the house is wonderfully freeing and exciting, finally not having to hide my true self, it is also horrifying to think about the backlash of reaction I would face from anyone I work with or know. So to answer the polled question a little better, I prefer to stay in and not blend in or stand out right now.