Your mannerisms and body language are a big part of your female image. In fact, they count for over 50% of the impression you make on people!
If you’re a crossdresser or transgender woman, you might be looking for ways to improve your MTF feminine mannerisms.
The good news is that improving your body language and mannerisms can be achieved by mastering a few simple dos and don’ts.
In this blog post, I share 5 dos and don’ts for developing attractive, feminine mannerisms and body language. Read on to learn more!
1. DO Work The S-curve
Curves are a classic feminine feature. Beyond a bubbly booty and ample bosom, you can use your posture to enhance the curves of your body. Create an S-curve by putting your weight on one leg and pushing your hip out.
Contrast this to a more masculine posture where the weight is evenly distributed between both legs. This creates a more square and angular silhouette.
Here are some tips for working the S-curve:
- DO keep your weight on one side of your body instead of centered.
- DON’T exaggerate this posture. It should look natural.
- DO work the s-curve when you’re seated by crossing your legs or sitting with your weight on one hip.
2. DON’T Take Up Too Much Space
A wide, open body position is considered a “power pose.” That’s why you often see men spread their legs and lean forward at the shoulders. They’re essentially puffing themselves up to look larger than they are.
On the other hand, a more closed position will make you look more feminine and elegant. It also makes you appear physically smaller.
You already know that a lady keeps her knees together. But beyond that, you should keep your elbows in and avoid taking up too much space with your limbs. (By keeping your feet tucked close to your chair, for example.)
Here are some additional tips:
- DON’T slouch in an attempt to appear shorter or smaller.
- DO stand and sit with lifted posture. Think “tall” instead of “wide” with your body posture.
3. DO Mind Your Gestures
Gestures are an important part of body language. Women tend to be more expressive with their gestures than men. Next time you’re out, notice the way women use their hands and bodies to express ideas when they talk.
To master fluid, feminine gestures:
- DON’T make jerky or clumsy movements. Keep your elbows tucked in and don’t move too quickly. Practice making slow, smooth movements in front of a mirror.
- DON’T overdo your gestures. Observe women to get an idea of the correct balance.
- DON’T fidget. Avoid nervous movements like twirling your hair, shaking your leg, or tapping your fingers.
4. DON’T Forget Your Facial Expressions
The expressions you make say as much as the words that come out of your mouth. If you’re feeling nervous, it’s easy for this to be reflected on your face. On the other hand, a pleasant facial expression puts people at ease and helps you get the respect and acceptance you deserve.
Tips to keep in mind:
- DON’T wear a stoic expression. What feels “neutral” to you may come across as grumpy to others. (AKA “resting bitch face.”)
- DO put on a pleasant face. Keep the corners of your mouth turned up slightly. This also serves as a natural facelift!
5. DO Make Alluring Eye Contact
Eye contact is a major way to gauge a person’s personality. People who don’t make eye contact appear insecure or as if they’re hiding something. People who look you in the eye appear confident and sincere.
Here’s how to use eye contact to make a feminine impression:
- DON’T avoid people’s eyes. Be proud of who you are and look people in the eye.
- DO make eye contact and hold it for a second or two. (But not too long unless you want people to think you are trying to seduce or intimidate them!)
In conclusion
MTF feminine mannerisms are a fascinating topic and these dos and don’ts are only the tip of the iceberg. To go even deeper, be sure to check out my list of 27 MTF Body Language Mistakes to Avoid for a Flawless Feminine Image.
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts…
What other differences in mannerisms and body language have you noticed between men and women? Do you have any other tips to pass along?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I have the sitting and the walking down but I have a bad back so I look hunched when stand sometimes but if I try too stand up straight I look rigid… The s curve while standing I’ve been doing pretty much forever its more comfy of stance for me… I noticed that when women crouch their knees and calves are pressed together but their thighs aren’t my friends say my ass is more girl like when I crouch like this, my boyfriend and girlfriend(I’m pan and poli) also notice the same if you apply it to bending over which I see girls do this when they’re seducing people. Also having a strong core and flexibility helps balance and movement and running and squats naturally improve your legs and ass feminine wise if you keep it light.
Another great article and I don’t think you can overplay the importance of posture and body language. Women are oh so different in that every move they make seems so fluid. One of my first purchases as Diane was a video on deportment and from there I started observing women a bit more closely. A few close to me know Diane and they are quite good at reminding me when I lose concentration. I feel fairly confident that I can walk like a woman as well as sit down and rise like a woman. Just love these articles, keep them coming.
Great posture; very feminine!
Hi Lucille, Another great article as always. In my experiences, you ring the bell on it all. However I had one situation where this attractive guy asked me to be more “tom-boy” like, said it turned him on. Who would have guessed? Fortunately, I didn’t have to act ‘stupid’ for very long. He was too demanding of me and I broke it off very soon after meeting him.
Great advice. Could also add that deepening that lumbar curve on lower back is also very feminine and good for posture too. Easy to lose that when sitting extended periods on front of the computer.
Hi Lucille honey Goodness Girlfriend I feel great I have a question to the other girls though I hate my male persona and men in general it might be weird to some of you I never knew a dad or a male for that matter all I had were women to bond with on top of that my mom was severely abused before she left my dad he kicked her down the stairs pregnant great guy huh! I’m sure their are other horror stories worse the miracles of PTSD WW2 purple heart hero he was came home I don’t even get his benefits they went to his next victim women are my real hero’s anyway Love MJ
I note many time when woman put hers hands on hers hips, mosy of the time her fingers poited to theirr back instead off her lelley like man
Thank you, that sitting advice was very helpful to me, and keeping a half smile on all the time is a great idea,
Hi Billie Your I joined your opinions also.
Thank you
Goodness Billie you look great honey maybe next year I’ll get into a bikini and maybe even get wet LoL Love MJ
this ,topic is very important, thank you miss