Being a girl comes with some pretty great perks… high heels, lipstick, lingerie, and let’s not forget – BRAS!
Bras offer endless options for expressing your femininity. And that’s where things can get tricky! With so many sizes and styles to choose from, it’s easy to go wrong.
Do you know what to do and what NOT to do when it comes to bras for crossdressers and MTF trans women? Here are 6 do’s and don’ts of wearing a bra!
1. DO Wear The Right Size
Did you know that there’s an 80% chance you’re wearing the wrong size bra? A bra that doesn’t fit right is uncomfortable and unflattering – and who needs that?
Bra sizing is complicated, so I suggest getting professionally fitted if at all possible. (Many shops are happy to provide this service to their transgender and crossdresser clientele.)
If you prefer to do it yourself, check out my previous article on how to find your MTF bra size.
2. DON’T Let Back Bulge Ruin Your Look
One of the dreaded side effects of wearing a bra is back bulge. This is especially common if you carry extra weight in your upper body. Here are 3 tips for minimizing back bulge:
- Wear a larger band size. A band that’s too tight will cause bulging, so go up a size. For example, from a size 42 to a size 44 band.
- Look for a bra with extra stretch. Bras made with smooth, stretchy fabrics don’t dig in as much as stiffer bras.
- Try a longline bra. Longline bras have a wider band that extends down the torso to help eliminate back bulge.
3. DO Choose The Right Style
While choosing the right bra size is important, so too is the style. The options are nearly endless! Some of the style details to consider include:
- Padded vs. unpadded
- Underwire vs. wireless
- Cut of the bra cups (low cut, full cut, balconette, etc.)
- Front clasp vs. back clasp
- Straps (strapless, racerback, convertible, etc.)
- Fabric (cotton, satin, lace, etc.)
- Color
Which style is best depends on what you’ll be wearing, as well as your natural breast shape and body type.
For a breakdown of suitable styles, see my article on the Top 7 Bra Styles Every Crossdresser and MTF Transgender Woman Should Own.
4. DON’T Be Boring
While you should definitely own some basic bras, why stop there?
Bras offer endless options for expressing your style, so have fun and experiment with different colors, fabrics, and trimmings! (Just be careful what you wear them with as frilly details can show through clothes.)
5. DON’T Ruin Your Bra In The Wash
Bras are delicate objects, so they need to be properly cared for. You shouldn’t simply toss your bra in the wash with the rest of your clothes. Here are some tips to ensure that your bra stays in good shape for as long as possible:
- Hand wash your bra if possible. This is the best way to extend the life of your bra.
- Use a bra wash bag. This keeps the hooks from snagging and prevents your bra from getting tangled in the washing machine.
- Air dry your bra. Bras should never be put in the dryer, so hang them to dry instead.
6. DO Replace Your Bra When It’s Time
You take care of your bra, it should last a good while. However, keep in mind that bras do have a limited life span. (Expect an average of 6-12 months if you wear it regularly.)
Here are signs that your bra needs to be replaced:
- The bra straps are stretched out.
- The bra no longer fits as well as it used to.
- The bra has lost its shape.
- The bra feels uncomfortable.
Bras! We just can’t get enough
Now that we’ve got the dos and don’ts worked out, the only thing left to do is enjoy your beautiful bra… And maybe go out and buy some new ones!
Since a girl can never have too many bras, I’d love to know…
How many bras do you own? Are you a basic one-bra kinda gal? Or do you have a bra to match your every mood?
Take my poll and tell me about your favorite bra below!
Love,
Lucille
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I like to wear bras. I need a strapless to complete my clothing. I have one breastplate and two breast forms. My size is 46D or 48D depending on the brand and which breast I use. It ain’t easy for me when I buy bras, so I just have a few. With my breatplate I amable to go braless if I want to, but it tore under my left arm so I have to repair it. I tried several times to buy on Torrid online but they always end cancelling my order and they couldn’t solve the problem for me so I ceased trying. It is the only US store where I have that problem. I still wonder why.
Brune j’aime beaucoup porter des bas talons à la maison et soutien gorge quan je sors
I’m admitting it, I was one of the average 80 percent females who wore the wrong bra size. Thanks Lucille for this article.
I’m happy the article was helpful, Cynthia!
I try to have a variety of bras, that give me different looks, depending on the top I wear.
bonjour,
je porte régulièrement un soutient gorge pendant les vacances , et le weekend .que je fasse les courses ou bien a la maison , je les prend sans armature .
The right bra can also accentuate your breasts
Heh heh…
I started my bra explorings with an exercise bra. I loved the compression and mild rounded shape it gave my chest (like an “all-day” hug)
My pink fog phase had me picking up numerous bras…clearly the wrong sizes (with a huge hit of dopamine each time.) I have figured out my proper sizing since then.
I try to underdress every day, which includes bra, of course.
I am wearing a padded pushup 38D I am using silicone bra inserts as well
I love wearing a Bra so much, and the feminizing feeling of putting one on.
i wear Bali wirefree Bras usually..
i like this style on you,does it come in different colors,you go girly