It’s amazing how much our names shape our identities. Some names feel like a perfect fit from the start, while others never quite resonate with us.
However, crossdressers and transgender women have the unique opportunity to choose their own feminine names.
Every great MTF name has a story behind it, and I’d love to hear YOURS.
How did you choose your feminine name?
Please tell us your story in the comments below, and if you can, share a photo too. It’s always lovely to put a face to a name!
Love,
Lucille
My fem name is a combination of:
1. The first name of my best friend’s (from high school) wife – Dara
2. My mother’s middle name – Marie.
Omg how I chose my FEM name I worked with two women amber and Maria both woman knew I am and always will be a Cross dresser so I sat down one morning having coffee and still in my nightgown and as asked my self what girl name should I call myself then as I was going to say hello to Maria on my cell phone it hit me why not ambermaria the more I thought of it as I was trying to see what dress to wear that night I said girl that is a pretty name and very femmine so when I told them both they said they omg yes I that sounds so femmine so that’s my girl’s name and I’m so so happy to be ambermaria can’t wait to finally be ambermaria full time oh my 2 girl friends are encouraging me to go all the way which I know it has to be and how I’d love to meet some other girls like me to be girlfriends and have girl times shopping or. What ever she would love to do I’m from long island New York and girls. Around me Love to know
U chose Claire because I wanted something that, to me, sounds A bit sassy and a bit ckassy. Like some other comments, I liked the name
My male name is Philippe. Some years ago I visited Aegypt, going down the river Nil. There I saw and visited the most beautiful island on that river, named Philae…
It was always there in my Mind
My middle name is Sam so I dropped my first name and Sam is short for Samantha.. works for me
Hi Lucille, although I changed my femme name after my wife and I were divorced – just made sense to establish a clean break – my first femme name was Belinda.
Why Belinda?
After a promotion at work, I was assigned my first PA. Her name was Linda and she was the most complete example of the person I longed to be.
Linda was a beautiful girl, with blonde hair. She looked so ‘natural’ and used minimal makeup. She wore my favorite perfume, had a great figure and wore clothes that accentuated her gorgeous, feminine figure. Linda had great fashion sense too and knew hiw to accessorise with jewellery and the right shoes or boots.
Linda, to me was feminine perfection, I wished I could be her, to ‘be linda’. That is why the femme name I chose for myself was ‘Belinda’!
Katie xx
I don’t remember why I chose Paula.
I just liked the name