Do you think it’s important to “pass” as a woman? This is something a lot of crossdressers and transgender women think about.
Is passing really a goal worth pursuing?
I’ve shared my thoughts on whether or not I think passing matters in this blog post. (Spoiler alert: It doesn’t.)
But now, I’m curious to know what YOU think:
Do you care about passing as a woman? Or are you proud to be seen as the classy crossdresser or transgender woman that you are?
Please take my “Passing Poll” and share your thoughts below!
Love,
Lucille
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At first, passing didn’t matter, but as time has passed and HRT and SRS have had their effect, passing is more important. Plus, I’m short. I almost never get misgendered any longer and feel safer when I’m out in public as a result. It’s not the ultimate importance, but it’s more important than at one time. I was once more open about being trans, but now I don’t mention it unless it comes up and someone asks me directly if I am.
Here we go again. Just what does passable mean? Being a woman means a great many things and not every woman aspires to have completed the “Great List of Women”. Is it to be able to walk thru a crowd and have no-one notice? Is it to be able to sing as a female and fool everyone. Is it to be a Royal…possessed of literature and be well poised? I think that to possess as many traits as you can and be a loving gentile person, to be helpful to others, be able to dress sensibly for an occassion, and to at least bear sympathy for others…well those are the marks of a “passable woman”. Beauty and to be able to perform killer make-up is not one of the humanities. Be all you can be……a woman.
I love to dress up and wear all my girly stuff I love wearing heels but the more I do it the more I want to stay as Abigail but u can’t cuz my family won’t understand so I will lose very thing I have worked for
I love to dress up and wear all my girly stuff I love wearing heels but the more I do it the more I want to stay as Abigail but u can’t cuz my family won’t understand so I will lose very thing I have worked forb
Being passable is very important and I strive to do that everyday. I am a large woman ( tall ) so it’s difficult for me to pass. However, i’ve been at this a long time and if people judge me on my appearance and don’t like it, fuck em.
I enjoy being feminine you might I am more feminine than
feminine and yes I do the best I can to look like how I
feel feminine, and the fact that I am 5′ 6″ does help a
lot.
Alicia, I totally agree with Samantha….You are gorgeous, girl! Passing, never worry now days, did decades ago. At 73 (October) I used to worry in the 1960’s,in my 20’s.
Time and practice reduced that worry. Even my wife says when we are out together, if I am dressed I totally ACT LIKE A WOMAN! THAT’S KINDA THE WHOLE POINT!
Love your look, Alicia.You are adorable.
ENJOY BEING YOU….T.J.
Very Pretty!!
You look beautiful
Nbeing tall for a woman, Alicia, helps in this day and age… U and I r close.. 5,6 to my 5 7″”. U look great, also. Toodles
You look gorgeous and no one would ever know you were not born a chick. You are so pretty xx
I always like when I pass and it happens most of the time but I could care less if they read me. I’m proud to be who I am and that is a crossdresser
you look great
If it wasn’t important to me to be passable I wouldn’t bother. I try to not leave a stone unturned and even have gone through some voice training.
Love you all
Dianne
Given the limits I have I’m happy enough to just be me. If I pass, great. But if not I’m still me and still happy.
I would love to be able to pass as a woman all the time, but I also find it very sexy and erotic when I am out an seen as a crossdresser. Sometimes it is more to just do it, and knowing others see me, but not know who I am. The secret of not being found out. But at the same time though I like to shop for women’s clothing and have others assist me and actually have their opinions on what I am trying on. That I have found very exciting and to know women actually like to help me in my choices. Was fearful at first, but now, I enjoy it.
Dina