Do you think it’s important to “pass” as a woman? Many crossdressers and transgender women wrestle with this question.
Is passing really something worth striving for?
I’ve shared my thoughts on this topic in this blog post. (Spoiler: I don’t think it matters!)
But now, I want to hear from you:
Do you care about passing as a woman, or are you proud to embrace your identity as a confident and classy crossdresser or transgender woman?
Take my “Passing Poll” and share your thoughts in the comments!
Love,
Lucille
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I am a transgender woman whether I like it or not. I am also pretty despite my age whether I like it or not!
I like to try to pass as a woman and sometimes I get some good looks when I dress up as a woman!
I think that I pass at 44…..yeah not bad for a trans-woman….17+ years
Hi Ms. Jessica!
I think you look very lovely for a 44 year old; just a number…
well i try to pass as much as possible but im in a very strict femdom relzgionship so it doesnt bother me to be in jeans and have my thong showing. c cup breasts from hdrbals horomones and pumping thick nipples my wife likes to see me in tight girly jeans with very loose spaghetti strap top on over a bright pink balconette bra so my nipple rings are on display most of time with bells that jingle as i walk. i have bright pink brazilian cut thong high above tbe low rise jeans.
Hey Shelia!
I can only “fantasize” about how you look!
I don’t see a problem showing off your thong for interesting looks…
If the wife likes it keep shooting for the moon and beyond!
Cheers!
Tommy G
I hate to say this but this seems more of a fetish than anything else.
I think you are right it does sound like a Fetish. Ringing bells hmmm?
Love just been out and about as a woman shopping ,going out . I find people are much nicer to me as Nicole and the choices are much better .Much rather wear a nice dress,heels and makeup to go out than wear drab
Is this really you or is it the app though?
I think early in my experimental stage of wearing wigs, breast forms and press on nails. Getting everything just right and passing was so important because getting outed was embarrassing and fearful. The more into my transition, the less concern I have. Passing is great, but being comfortable with who you are is better. I am me and that is the way it is.
Hi how did people react the first time you told them you wanted to be a woman?
Hi Divan! Because I was always on the feminine side, my family was abusive. Early in my life when I tried to talk to friends, they shut me out. When I was older, I had suppressed for so long that anxiety, depression was causing much emotional stress, my body started to have many health issues and by the time I started to tell people that I was close to, I ended up in the hospital. So they were very compassionate to me. Since then, I’ve told only a few people and they seem understandable. The others that I’ve seen, I don’t think i have to explain to them. If they ask, I will explain. Mostly, they ignore the elephant in the room so to say. I come to think that if they can’t handle it, that’s the way they are. Not my problem.
Dear Lucille,
To be a passable woman, I have found after a life-long path to femininity, one of the first things we girls must learn is to be kind and loving to everyone. Admittedly, I worked for some time to become a caring and empathetic female. However, now that I am here, it has paid such beautiful dividends. Now, I have dear friends who seek me out as they enjoy how I treat them with love and care.
Passing has become second nature to me. I now frequent the shops I love and am always welcomed and accepted. How warm a feeling it gives me to find that my dear friends love to introduce me to others as one of their favorite people.
Makeup, pretty clothing, heels, all are just a part of me now as I just adore being one of the girls, no one special, just a part of their lives.
Yes, it took me some time to come to the realization that a soft, caring and attentive woman is someone everyone admires.
Thank you, Lucille, for the guidance and common sense you teach us all.
My Love, Elizabeth
Hi, and ty i enjoyed everyones comments. I myself try to pass. I am a transgender female on hormones for 5 years. i live my life female. for the most part i do pass. i have my days. most cis gen females treat me as a equal. there have been times i got laughed at or people of both sexes have said things or been not to acepting. and at times i get hit on by all sexes. still i just go and be me and try to look my best when i go out in public. tho living in a small town where pretty much everyone knows each other. at least half or so know. but still i go and be me.