Being a woman has so many great things to offer. From dressing up and hanging out with friends to expressing emotions freely, there’s a lot to love.
If you’re a crossdresser or a transgender woman, I’m sure you also find femininity and everything that goes with it pretty appealing.
So, I’d like to know, what do you love most about being a woman or expressing your feminine side?
Take my poll and share your thoughts in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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The best thing I love most about being a women is that I feel alive when I am enfemme. I get to be the person that I want to be and it is wonderful. I love the feeling of freedom.
I ventured out for the first time in public recently and it was a very positive and exhilarating experience. Thanks to help from Lucile and others for providing me with what I needed to do this.
Christine
There are so many things… I LOVE dressing up, shopping, even going out, although the last is a little bit at a time.
I’ve always had more girl friends than guys. I was often treated as ‘one of the girls’, although I had different thinking as to why, for a long time.
I have different frames of mind between male and femme, although the gap is narrowing. One of the strangest but more welcome things is quite interesting.
I have a neurological disorder, with various cycles of tics. I can be having one type of tics, and when I switch modes, the cycle or type of tics change as well. Don’t know how or why, but it is an interesting phenomenon.
Plainly put though, I LOVE being a girl! 🙂
Tracy
Do you want it in alphabetical order or chronological order???
To be a woman is not on the dress, on the makeup, or the wig it’s a feeling inside of you its like a seed that blooms and starts with the frustration of watching beautiful dresses shoes and accessories that you just see in stores at the mall and trying to fit into one and you don’t , that might end the way you see that dress but your inner is trying badly to get out of that cocoon that is or has been your prison and that it puts you in a very hard decision, and the worse part is either you lose your love ones or you stay alone with people exactly with the same condition trying to get out but you can’tat the end you have to invest a lot of pain, sorrow and money to be with the same feeling who’s the man that is going to look at me? being a woman you have power, the power of decision when you are pasable and you look great but when you just want to do it for fun well XLARGE IS THE ANSWER but for me a woman is RESPECT we need to have it from the people who see us not just dress go to a bar and get this drunk guy on the side of this page from Lucille there are a lot of ways to educate the woman we have inside girls we need to be better women and not lose respect we are women and we need to have respect
Lucille
You have given all of us such a wonderful place to talk. As I write this I’m enjoying a new dress a bought today. Just love a nice below knee with a back zip. Just seems so feminine. Love my time as Donna. The times in fem grow longer every month and the male side is slowly going away. As Donna I feel so natural and complete. The way I’m supposed to be.
All my Love : Donna
This was a very hard question to answer for me. I like the clothes and the make-up aspect but only to see myself in female form. Not in a narcissistic way, but as part of me. I truly have two genders. I am successful as a male and some people tell me I am good looking, but that is not enough to make me happy. I have very feminine traits and I love to express myself freely as a female. I don’t think I would have the courage to transition though even if I didn’t have other commitments. I dress so that I am not an embarrassment to women and certainly not trampy. Women are very important to me. I never have had a close male relative that I bonded with. Was that my fault or theirs, who knows? I am just not comfortable being around men, although I have been in the military and did well. I have worked dangerous jobs and didn’t wimp out. I even flatter myself that I was better than most men at those jobs. However, I never enjoyed most male pursuits like hunting, shooting and sports, even though I qualified as an expert marksman with a .22, M-14 and M-16 and played football in school. I guess like a lot of us, I’m just the odd “person” out. LOL
You and I have many things in common! Military, enjoy being w girls versus guys, don’t do sports or hunting and even though I am a handsome guy I really am a beautiful woman when dressed. I dress like an everyday girl sometimes but very much enjoy wearing a beautiful dress and heels.
Holly, I’m sorry to not have responded to you earlier. I must have missed the notification that you had. Its great to know that others feel the way I do. Thank you for your comment it meant the world to me. And, yes, I like being just “one of the girls” but I also enjoy getting dressed for a semi-formal or formal occasion too. I guess not being able to dress like that in our teens and young adult life has left a void which we like to fill at times. I would give anything to wear a hooped formal gown to a ball, but that is not likely to happen.
Dear Lucille, my burning desire goal to be a woman is numbered 1-3, first of all I wanted to have my real breasts as its packed in my bra presently like every other woman and a vagina which I’m currently struggling for. 2. I want to wear a complete women clothes, lingerie and make up. 3. I want to be treated by men as a girl.
Hi Jennifer,
Think positive thoughts and live with the passion of becoming that special woman that you truly are.
All good things become to those whom wish & think positive happy thoughts.
I enjoy being able to relax and not have to “compete” with men socially. There’s so much machismo and head-butting, and it doesn’t suit me. Have you ever seen two men in a store about to cross paths, who at a distance unconsciously note one another’s body language, tense up, raise their shoulders, and even, without realizing it, get in each other’s way more? It drives me crazy.
I’ve gone shopping while consciously relaxing my body and walk so as to project less tension and aggression, this while in completely masculine style (I can’t even vaguely pass as yet). The results are amazing. Men, even while they see me as a male, smile, relax, and even get out of my path in the aisles and APOLOGIZE to me. When I’m not playing these games, they take it as a sign that they don’t have to do so either, and we each have a better day!
Being an older Queen (68) I love the admiration received from younger women and more importantly, men. Especially the ‘closet queens” who are green with envy yet profess to be unaffected by witnessing cross-dressing in public.
Never liked doing head trips on anyone but it does remind me of when I too was once green with;,,,,,, and would run straight home to take care of business asking myself “will I’ll ever be able to face my fears.”
I love, also, that I am not as aggressive at the whee and amazed at how I will often yield to a male driver with; not hand and arm gestures but with only finger movements so they can see the polished nails and jewelry.
LOVE having doors opened or held open and the men with a flirting gleam in their eye, smiling politely in the hopes that, hey, anything can happen, just from a held door.
Was asked once if I would ever stop crossdressing or change. I can’t do anything about stopping it and what ever on earth would I change or exchange it for? If I’m to have a vise in life I’ll keep my skirts and heels rather than be a hobo or a wife beater, an addict or a molester? No way! Lingerie, high heels and big hair. That’s me!
Lucille thank you for the opportunity to get on my soap box.
Love Dorothy in AZ