Do you go out in public as a woman?
If the answer is no, you’re not alone. Nearly 75% of my readers rarely or never leave the house en femme.
While going out en femme can be exciting and empowering, it’s not the only way to express your feminine side as a crossdresser or transgender woman.
Whether you choose to go out or keep it private, both options are valid!
This is an important topic, and I’d love to know what you think.
Where do YOU present yourself as a woman?
- Strictly in the privacy of your own home?
- At select places – like nightclubs, meetups, or conferences?
- Anywhere and everywhere as a full time woman?
Please take my poll and share your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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i need to wear some girl dresses especially peter pan collar fitted neck because my neck is thin and I want to be prity to go outside my home
please help me
Going out is the best therapy I’ve gotten a lot of positive feedback on how I look and been treated as a was a lady it’s been building up my cofedence that I can pass as a woman
Hi Lucille, for me it’s a bit different, I have legally changed my name to Kari Nicole because that is who I am, if I had the funds I would go thru transition in a second but I don’t so I live with that part, but, I am A Woman and I live as A Woman! I never wear male clothing anymore although I rarely use more than mascara for daily makeup and rarely wear breast forms even though I would love to wear my forms daily. I carry my purse, wear heels if it suits me and my outfit so forth and so on.
I am working on both of my New Years resolutions, My Femme Voice and walking like a woman, I want it to feel uncomfortable if I walk like a male and that is getting there slowly, voice needs some work but I use your program and no I am not ready to put that to the test yet but I will when I am ready
Hi Lucille.For me it’s very hard to live as me, because l’m very much in contact with my parents and family. I live in my own house very close to them. I live and go out as Karen as much as l can,but someone from my family could call in at any time. My little sister Jane knows that l like to crossdress but not how l really feel.If my parents found out they would disown me and i,m not sure how Jane would feel. I have a part time job as Karen in a bar washing up which I love the freedom. My day time job l have to show my self as a male which although it’s highly paid l hate. I am Karen and hate my male self, but l also love my family. So l’m stuck not knowing what to do. I just want to be Karen completley all the time. Lots of love Karen xx
Hi Karen, I too struggled getting it out. My father used to call me gay and other hurtful things when I was younger so I never told him. I held it in for a good 10 years before I had a mental break down which lost me my job, my home everything.
When I started to speak to a counsellor at the “Men’s” refuge I was in (Yes, I became homeless because I couldn’t work due to my panic disorder that came from this) she helped me out so much.
At first I was just dressing at home and by myself, after sometime and help from my friend, I went to the doctor and told him.
I was worried at first, but he was fine with it and recommended me to a psychiatrist and from there I’m being referred to a Gender Identity Clinic.
I have been living full time as Beth since December 10th and have already changed my legal name.
I am also living in a mixed sheltered accommodation and when I told some of the girls who i really was, they didn’t believe me.
Everything is going great for me, I have somewhere that sees me for who I am.
And my father who disowned me for other reasons (financial since i couldn’t work, he was left with my rent to pay) is trying to get his head around it and according to my step-mum he feels guilty of the way he treated me back then.
So my advice to you is not to hold it in or hold yourself back from being you.
As long as you are happy, don’t give a crap what others think. They also might surprise you and want to help you.
Hope this helps you, and hope you can start to feel free, forever.
Beth <3 x
Like Mykayla my wife hates my dressing but I still dress as often as possible I don’t go out in public in my home town but last weekend I went on a trip. On the way home I drove enfemme in full makeup nails painted and wig it was exciting but scary at the same time. I hope to do it more often. I asked my wife one time why she disliked it so much and she said you do a better job with makeup than I do. I took that as a compliment.
I don’t really go out completely as a woman ever. I always ware at least one piece of woman’s clothes. It is usually a pair of jeans. I always ware a pair of pretty panties and most of the time a sports bra or bralette. I don’t have huge boobs but they are descent size and perky. But my wife is no longer comfortable with my fem side at all. I cut my hair shorter but still somewhat fem looking. I don’t ware makeup anymore really. She always makes comments on how I present myself and always negative ones. It makes me feel like my whole family hates me. I wish I could just be me. I hope my life will get better soon. My wife and son are everything to me. I guess I just have to be someone that I am not. Oh well whatever I guess that I don’t deserve to be happy.
At first, I was so self-conscious in public, even about having one of my finger nails painted. Now I forget that Im out in public wearing bright red nail polish not on my fingers and toes in sexy womens sandals. I realise now that the reason I am so comfortable now is that I am not fullfilling a role to satisfy the image and expectations family, friends, business colleagues, but exploring, developing and learning how to live as a woman. Its fantastic, and I have more wonderful experiences every day with women when shopping for clothes, or cosmetics, vitamins, or even kitchenware. They are so willing to help and offer their advice and they feel excited for me when I tell them ” Im transitioning to become a transgender woman”. One lady thought I was already a woman, and that was simply wearing tight jeans, and skin tight top showing off my Bcup breasts. I have a long way to go before I feel that my physical characteristics, especially face are more feminine than masculine, but Im amazed how women especially love to support the transition. Its an amazing feeling to be mentally free of the old persona that I was pretending to be for over 50 years and explore the new me, catching up on 50 years of female life in 5 years.
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