Do you go out in public as a woman?
If the answer is no, you’re not alone. Nearly 75% of my readers rarely or never leave the house en femme.
While going out en femme can be exciting and empowering, it’s not the only way to express your feminine side as a crossdresser or transgender woman.
Whether you choose to go out or keep it private, both options are valid!
This is an important topic, and I’d love to know what you think.
Where do YOU present yourself as a woman?
- Strictly in the privacy of your own home?
- At select places – like nightclubs, meetups, or conferences?
- Anywhere and everywhere as a full time woman?
Please take my poll and share your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I went shopping en femme the other day. After a bit I decided I would like a drink. I went into a restaurant that had a bar and sat down at said bar. It was in the middle of the afternoon and I was alone at the bar. There were only a couple of tables with folks eating, pretty much dead. I had my sunglasses on. There was a young college girl bartending. The first thing she said to me was “may I see your Id?”. I had thought getting carded was a possibility so I had concocted up a plan for that contingency. I would simply search for my Id and after not finding it I would state that I must have left it in my car. I would then venture out to get it never to return. However, instead of sticking to that contingency plan, I pulled out my Id and handed it to her. The picture is of this bearded dude with no hair on top. She eyed it, handed it back and asked me “what’ll ya have?” I ordered a draft IPA. A big one! She poured the ale and it was about half foam so she set it down and bolted to the kitchen. About 10 seconds later two other wait persons, a young man and another young woman rushed out of the kitchen and started eyeing me, especially the young man. I waived and said “hello” with a smile. A few seconds later the bartender emerged with the restaurant manager, a very attractive young woman, early thirties I’d say. She came over to me and asked for my Id. I handed it to her. She said “this looks nothing like you.” I assured her it was me. She started asking pointed questions, “what is your birth date? What is your address?”, etc. Finally she said ” let me see your eyes”. I took off my sunglasses and looked her in the eyes confidently. She asked “does this happen to you often?” I answered “this is the first time I have ever come into a bar” She said emphatically as she was still looking me in the eyes, “your beautiful” I sat my sunglasses down on the bar as my heart raced. She handed my Id back and allowed me to be served. The bartender, who had witnessed our discussion, brought me my ale and started gushing how excited she was and proud to have me there and how proud she was of me for being true to myself, having the courage to be there, etcetera, on and on. Since it was not busy we talked for quite some time. As I was leaving she asked me earnestly “Please come back and see us? You are welcome here anytime” I made a new friend that day. Meme the college student and bartender. Meme only knows me as Martina. This was an absolutely fantastic experience for me! I’m still hanging on the words of that gorgeous manager too, “Your beautiful”.
Hope all is well, xoxo!
I live as a heterosexual, Male. I have never entertained the idea of changing my sex, by surgical reassignment OR every wanted to live, full time as a female. IT IS WAY TOO MUCH W O R K .That is , the way I CD. AT 73 yo in October, I couldn’t prepare, execute and present every day to the world the way I do going out with my girlfriends. Many of them are ” full time ladies ” with upper surgeries and electrolysis for hair. Don’t think the Mrs. Would stick around for that either.
Love dressing up, since a little kid, out in public since the 1960’s En Femme.
Few pics of this 73 yo body. Tough to keep up with the young Foxes!!
Dr.T.J.
Hi TJ! You always look so nice! You look like any normal woman out doing her thing! Very passable IMHO. We’re the same age too! I’m like you, never thought about surgery or anything like that. But I do enjoy my retired life now living as much as I can as a female. I love it! Here I am the other day. Take care, hugs, Suzy
Oh Suzy, you know what I like to hear…I look good! Appreciate your compliments, Lady.
You always look like you’re having a good time!
Hope all others are having as much fun as we are!
T.J.
Have been cross dressing for years at home, in and out around the house. I’m happy my wife has accepted this and I even have the pleasure of her company when buying more clothes, she even suggests outfits for me.
I wear pants, skirts, tops, dresses, bras, panties, pantyhose and stockings, the whole nine yards. I go anywhere and everywhere “en femme”. I have been on hormone therapy for a little over 2 years and I’ve been living fulltime as a woman for nearly 3. I hid away from the world most of my life but no longer, I’m proud of who I am, where I’m at in life and the women I have become. Now I live my life outloud!!
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I’ve been experimenting with my feminine side for a couple of years now, but I never go out in public – I haven’t got my own clothes or makeup (honestly, I’ve never even applied my own), I don’t even have shoes. Sometimes I go months without even dressing up. Am I just messing around? Am I making a mockery of people who are really struggling or have had to endure hate because they’re brave enough to come out? It feels weird that I’m just asking these questions to a comment section of a blog… I just feel a little lost with myself lately.
I wear woman pants, women tops, wear my hair as women do.
I am 71, still have a part-time job and carry a purse were I go expect to church, it sat in my car.
Veronica
When it comes to how I present myself I guess I’m more, right now, an other. I have been on transgender medication long enough that I can no longer try to cover up as just a man. I wear overalls that give me a neutral appearance most times but that changes a little every day. I have always wanted to be identified as a woman but right now I’m just me somewhere in between. In time I hope my physical appearance will answer that question for me in time.