Want to present more confidently as your female self?
Having the right tools can make all the difference in your MTF transformation.
While some supplies are obvious, there are other items you may not have considered. These can make a big impact in helping you look and feel more feminine!
In this blog post, I share 10 must-have essentials for your male to female transformation journey.
1. Breast Forms
Breasts are arguably the most feminine part of a woman’s body.
If you don’t possess your own natural curves, then investing in a pair of breast forms is a must for any crossdresser or transgender woman. (Of course, you’ll also need a cute bra to put them in!)
2. Color Corrector
Dealing with a visible beard shadow can be a major challenge in putting your best face forward.
Although it may be tempting to camouflage it with thick concealer, the result never appears natural.
Instead, invest in a pink or red color corrector to help neutralize the tone of your beard shadow. This enables you to use less makeup and achieve a more natural and feminine appearance.
(Note: Check out The Makeup Magic Program for expert tips on concealing a beard shadow, using makeup to feminize your face, and so much more!)
3. Body Shaper
A body shaper is a versatile garment that offers multiple benefits, including waist trimming, belly flattening, and overall shape smoothing.
Body shapers come in a variety of styles. Opt for a brief style to wear under shorter skirts and a thigh-length style for pants and longer skirts.
To feminize your lower body, look for a body shaper with hip and butt padding to create the illusion of curves.
4. Perfume
The right perfume can make you feel irresistibly feminine!
The secret is to choose a fragrance that matches the qualities you want to express. Here are some simple guidelines:
- Go for floral scents if you want to express your romantic side.
- Choose oriental or woody scents if you want to bring out your inner seductress.
For more on this topic, be sure to check out my article on MTF Feminization Tips: How to Choose the Perfect Perfume.
5. Black Pantyhose Or Tights
While bare legs may be fashionable, there’s nothing quite like the sophisticated appeal of hosiery. Classic black pantyhose or tights, in particular, are a style must-have.
When opting for pantyhose, choose the sheerest hose available and stick to jet black. Avoid shades like gray-black or brown-black.
Alternatively, you can go for opaque tights for a more casual and youthful look.
6. Lipstick
Studies show that a woman’s lips are considered the most attractive part of her body, particularly when accentuated with lipstick.
It goes without saying that lipstick is an essential item that will instantly make you look more feminine and attractive.
7. Classic Pumps
Shoes say more about you than any other accessory. When it comes to making a statement, you can’t go wrong with a timeless pair of black pumps.
Classic black pumps exude sexiness, femininity, and work well with many types of clothes.
8. Moisturizer
Due to higher testosterone levels, males tend to have rougher skin compared to women.
That’s why it’s essential to incorporate a daily facial moisturizer into your routine, whether you’re presenting as your feminine self or not.
By using moisturizer regularly, you can achieve smoother-looking skin and enhance the application and longevity of your makeup.
9. Little Black Dress
The little black dress is a wardrobe staple every crossdresser and transgender woman should own. A simple black dress in a flattering length can go from day to night and will never go out of style.
10. Attitude
Lastly, the key to it all is your attitude – and it’s absolutely crucial!
The way people treat you often reflects how you expect to be treated. So, embrace your femininity and radiate fabulousness with confidence. You deserve nothing less, girlfriend!
Now I’d like to hear from YOU!
What must-have items are in your transformation toolbox? Please share with me in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
P.S. If you liked this article, you’ll love my FREE 3-part Male to Female Transformation Mini Course.
Hi ladies! Just wanted to share with you my day out shopping today! I now live almost 24/7 now as a woman. Luckily, I’m pretty small and fit in well when I am out. And wearing a mask is no biggie! Here is what I wore today. I told the sales ladies I was on my lunch break! They helped me with different dresses to wear and then I stopped at Victoria Secrets where they did bra fitting for me! So much fun! Just be confident and feminine and everything works out. By the way, I’m 74, and loving life! Hugs, Suzy
Hugs
wow and you do it soooooooo well babe!!!
Thanks Jessica! I really appreciate your comment! Hugs, Suzy
DEAR LUCILLE, I DIDN’T GET THE THINGS THAT YOU PROMISED TO SEND ME AND NOW I WOULD LIKE MY MONEY BACK. JUST LIKE YOU PROMISED ME THAT YOU WOULD DO FOR ME.
SINCERLY,
DAISY HEISE
Hi Daisy, so sorry to hear that. I see that you purchased one of Lucille’s programs, but we didn’t receive an email from you about having trouble or about not getting your access details. I’ll pop you a message to assist further.
A smile is the most important accessory. Walk into a place, smile at everyone and go about your business.
Hello. I have these, and more (forms, e. g.). With one exception… I use day cream under my makeup, but not consistently when I wear no makeup. Do you suggest that I get a big bottle of moisturiser from Amazon? 🙂 (I am the fluid-gender non-op no-hormone type.)
Beautiful
Hi. I hope this gets good response so I know I’m doing good and if not please let me know what it is that I need to change. Thank you ladies!
YOU LOOKS SO GOOD
Stephanie,
How nice. –Rich
Hi. Your attitude is great. Now… since you ask… Well… You are not fat, are you? Sorry… So, add [silicone] hips to match your breasts. Or, as an option, go with smaller breasts for a still younger look.
Hi. I hope this gets good response so I know I’m doing good and if not please let me know what it is that I need to change. Thank you ladies!
Don’t forget the handbag!
🙂 A good comment! For summer, I choose a cross-body bag (long strap) to have my hands free. Also, as a large lady, I carry a bigger shoulder-bag, and evade very small shoulder-bags when wearing a dress, or carry it in my hand, as a purse.
Dear Ladies,
Having at least one quality wig is a must for us gurlz with everyday short hair or are bald!
Tight Rope Hugs,
Mistress Luna Marie