Are you ready to unleash your inner woman and discover a whole new world of self-expression?
Crossdressing can help you break free from gender norms and embrace your true self.
In this blog post, we’ll explore the top 10 benefits of crossdressing that can transform your life.
There’s a lot to be said for embracing your femininity and all the perks that come with it!
Top 10 Benefits of Crossdressing
1. Embracing both sides
Crossdressing lets you bring out the best of both genders and incorporate them into your own personality.
2. Motivation to look good
When you’re crossdressing, you naturally want to look great, right? That’s why it can inspire you to take better care of yourself, stay in shape, and prioritize self-care.
3. Better understanding of women
Crossdressing helps you see things from a woman’s perspective, which can make you more understanding and empathetic towards them.
4. Finding a community
When you embrace crossdressing, an added bonus is that you can tap into online or local communities. These communities can help you feel accepted and supported.
5. Fidelity and integrity
Now, I hope you’d never cheat on anyone, but there’s an interesting twist here. When YOU are “the other woman,” it can reinforce your commitment to being faithful.
6. Discovering your true self
Crossdressing is an amazing journey of self-discovery. It’s a chance to dig deep and uncover parts of yourself you may not have fully explored.
7. Unleashing your uniqueness
Normal is overrated, right? Crossdressing makes you stand out from the crowd and be an intriguing, fascinating individual.
8. Embracing differences
Crossdressing teaches you to accept and appreciate those who don’t fit into society’s norms. It broadens your perspective, promotes inclusivity, and shows you the beauty of diversity.
9. Stress relief
Crossdressing offers a fantastic and harmless way to relieve stress. It’s like stepping into a different role and enjoying a fulfilling activity that helps you unwind and take care of yourself.
10. Boosting creativity and courage
Crossdressing requires creativity, resourcefulness, and a dose of courage. It’s all about stepping out of your comfort zone, trying new things, and embracing the unexpected.
Final Thoughts
I hope you are now convinced that crossdressing can be a healthy and highly beneficial part of your life.
Do you agree with my list or have any other benefits of crossdressing to add? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
As a lifelong crossdresser, I have never had the opportunity to live as my desired half. While I am not passable, I enjoy being ‘en femme’ to the max. Though I am not experienced in receiving the pleasures of both sexes, I relieve myself with the fantasies of both…many with more graphic ’50 shades of gray’.
Always looking for a new friend to have some fun and enjoy life with, especially given a chance to be ‘en femme’.
These 10 benefits are very true and great reminders
This post is spot on! Much like many others, I was labeled a crossdresser at a young age because back then it wasn’t widely known what being transgender was. My parents spent thousands on sending me to psychiatric therapy to find the root of my crossdressing. The therapy didn’t help AT. ALL. I still felt urges to take my sisters clothing ranging from their underwear all the way to the point of trying on their wedding dresses. It wasn’t until 2011-12 that I came to grips and realized I am transgender. Since then, my love life has been non-existent because I figure no girl would ever want someone like me. Stupid thinking, yes? Yes.
I know now that I am actually gender fluid, comfortable as both male or female. For years I tried to repress my inner self and express an overly masculine facade, and it only made me angry. Angry at myself as well as at the world. Since I’ve started being more open about my being transgender/gender fluid, I find I am genuinely happier with my life, my relationships with people, and have a better outlook on life in general.
To my family I am still very much in the closet. I’m divorced, and my ex wife never took the time to figure out why I dressed in her clothing, but now that she is a leader of a local LGBT group, it is my hope that our daughter will be understanding and accepting when I finally tell her…(and that my ex won’t try and keep her from me).
As far as the being closer to those who support you, that is 1,000,000% accurate! I have cisfemale friends who know of both sides of me and are 100% accepting of it. No matter which path in life I take, they will be behind me completely. I consider them my closest friends and they consider me their sister; even to the point of wanting to send me some of their old clothing! It really gives a girl hope, ya know?
I’m pre-everything right now, but I hope to eventually start hormones someday; perhaps after my girlfriend and I get married and move in together.
I do agree with all points for years i ran away from the true me but excepted me and am so much happier with myself and life now, i am a single father/mother but now i am even closer to my son because my head is in the right place now (he dosent know) and when hes grown up i will start my journey and cant wait, 🙂 x
I was raised by a mother and father with middle class values. My father was a cop, my mother ran the family fast food place. My father was a ballistics teacher in the Army.
When I was very young, too young to know myself, I would walk around on my toes. My father would yell at me, to walk flat footed, heel, toe.
When I was in the cub scouts, there was going to be a group photo taken of all of us, I wore a pair light blue pants with the traditional dark blue scout shirt. When I brought the picture home to show my parents, the only comment that my father made was, that “You stick out like a sour thumb.”
When I was older, like 12 or 13, my father came into my room and said “You know you are going to make a good wife someday.” Reflexing on how clean I kept my room.
So I began trying to be tuff and mean. I really got into being bigger and stronger. I began lifting weights. In High School I could bench press 300 pounds, I went into wrestling and wrestled at 191 pound class, though I only weighted 178 pounds.
Then I went into Junior College, joined the wrestling team there. I felt that I needed to work, rather than go to school. Then I met a man who was a Power Lifter, and he talked me into joining him at the Y.M.C.A. I quickly in proved and was able to bench press 435 pounds, squat 525 pounds, dead lift 515 pounds. I felt I was on top of the world.
I got married (Worst thing I have ever done). Was working for the Railroad….. This story is getting too long.
Anyway years later, I divorced the bitch, Met a woman who was black and was gorgeous. We moved in together and have been for ten years. Then I had a stroke, it was like a lighting bolt hit right between my eyes, I knew I had being living a lie. I told my roommate from my hospital bed, that I think I am gay.
Well like so many of us, we don’t understand what involved in being gay. So I open myself up and listened to my body, a year later, I realized that I am not gay, but love to dress up in women’s clothes. As I explored the cross dressing issue, I realized that I am a transgender, a woman living inside a man’s body. Prior to my stroke, I had a very bad temper. I had got into many fights because of my temper, but now my temper is gone. I finally love myself.
This has been the greatest thing in my life.
i can see my story into your words with the only difference that am not maryed yet… am 24 years old and am weightlifting the last 4 years becouse i wanna proove to me to my parents and my friends that am a real male but i know thats a lie and i dont know how long i will be able to keep that lie inside me..
Thanx for sharing your story 🙂
Integrity and peace to a far greater degree than ever before possible.
Your points are spot on. 15 years ago I labeled myself as a cross dresser. Now I’m a full time woman with surgery planned later this year.
In the past I was always told by women I was so in tune with women and that was amazing. I loved to shop with them and they loved it. Little did they know my real motivation! Anyway I’m happy, you are right. I hope everyone here be they a cross dresser or Transgender has a happy life either way. We all thank you Lucielle for your programs and support.
I agree with all of your points Lucille. I wouldn’t want to be any other way. I don’t think we have a choice in being transgender- we just are.
But, if it was a matter of choice, I would gladly choose to be transgender. I think it makes me a better person than I would otherwise be.