Are you ready to unleash your inner woman and discover a whole new world of self-expression?
Crossdressing can help you break free from gender norms and embrace your true self.
In this blog post, we’ll explore the top 10 benefits of crossdressing that can transform your life.
There’s a lot to be said for embracing your femininity and all the perks that come with it!
Top 10 Benefits of Crossdressing
1. Embracing both sides
Crossdressing lets you bring out the best of both genders and incorporate them into your own personality.
2. Motivation to look good
When you’re crossdressing, you naturally want to look great, right? That’s why it can inspire you to take better care of yourself, stay in shape, and prioritize self-care.
3. Better understanding of women
Crossdressing helps you see things from a woman’s perspective, which can make you more understanding and empathetic towards them.
4. Finding a community
When you embrace crossdressing, an added bonus is that you can tap into online or local communities. These communities can help you feel accepted and supported.
5. Fidelity and integrity
Now, I hope you’d never cheat on anyone, but there’s an interesting twist here. When YOU are “the other woman,” it can reinforce your commitment to being faithful.
6. Discovering your true self
Crossdressing is an amazing journey of self-discovery. It’s a chance to dig deep and uncover parts of yourself you may not have fully explored.
7. Unleashing your uniqueness
Normal is overrated, right? Crossdressing makes you stand out from the crowd and be an intriguing, fascinating individual.
8. Embracing differences
Crossdressing teaches you to accept and appreciate those who don’t fit into society’s norms. It broadens your perspective, promotes inclusivity, and shows you the beauty of diversity.
9. Stress relief
Crossdressing offers a fantastic and harmless way to relieve stress. It’s like stepping into a different role and enjoying a fulfilling activity that helps you unwind and take care of yourself.
10. Boosting creativity and courage
Crossdressing requires creativity, resourcefulness, and a dose of courage. It’s all about stepping out of your comfort zone, trying new things, and embracing the unexpected.
Final Thoughts
I hope you are now convinced that crossdressing can be a healthy and highly beneficial part of your life.
Do you agree with my list or have any other benefits of crossdressing to add? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
I don’t empathize much with these at all! I don’t feel I understand men better although I am treated as one. I don’t really feel as if I belong much in the macho world at all, yet I don’t feel that I am fully accepted as a female either. I guess if I have to figure out my top 10 I would list something similar to the top 20 reasons why it’s great being female. Maybe the last 5 work for me, though I find it less of a stress relief and more of a normalization.
Hi Lucille,
All great points you make and yes there are a couple that are not there, but those vary from person to person. For me, the greatest thing about being trans is that I feel so very alive unlike in my drab mode. I also have come to realize just what it is that took girls I used to date so long to get ready and now since I only date as a woman, I am so angry at myself for not understanding better when I was young. As for the “wife”, well she does not support me at all and she’s denied me all that marriage was supposed to bring for so long that we don’t even kiss – not even a peck so I have literally died inside from it. My femme side brings it back to life. I feel like someone again when I’m in my femme mode. It’s kinda complicated to talk about here in a few sentences, but that’s why it’s the biggest deal to me and I’m pretty good with all the choices I’ve made for my girl side. It’s more than crossdressing to me too so I consider myself trans looking for a way to happen so to speak.
Hello Joslin and Patti,
I can’t find your comments at the moment, but I want to thank you ladies for taking the time to write and for your encouraging words. Patti, I agree with you to become financially bullet proof and that my marriage is over and I’m just an income source. I wanted to cry when I read that but it is so very true. I will find a way sooner or later. Joslin, I agree with you Family matters most and though I am out to some officially, I am working on the courage to be out to all. BTW, you’re very pretty. Love your hair style!
Thank you both for the encouragement. I wish I could find your comments to thank you correctly…..
Forgot to add my picture .. sorry
Hi Kelly : your marriage situation is some thing I am somewhat familiar with,,My wife and I are going through a marriage annulment and by next month should be finalized by a judge,,I am fortunate enough to say that after our annulment she has promised to be like my best buddy,and step up her efforts to train me in the art of being female,We will continue to coexist under the same roof and share all the bills ,naturally it was tough breaking the news to her initially as well as our daughter who will turn 40 next month.I will be allowed to attend all family functions in the future as all in her family members realize what I am going through in my transition,,my part will be to take it nice and slow and let them all realize that the essence of me hasn’t changed,, I will still be the same person just look a little different that’s all,, and in my heart of hearts I will have entered my ultimate promised land ,that is to be fully accepted by the ones I love the most Family…
I wish you the best in your personal journey and wish nothing more than a smooth and happy transition for you.. and happiness always.. <3
Hello Kelli.. “Not even a peck on the cheek” When that exact same behaviour was happening in my marriage, I knew I had become nothing more than a source of income. You’re right that part of you has died and unfortunately, it’s your marriage. It’s gone.. You’re already divorced, you just haven’t filed the paperwork. Become financially bulletproof before you file. For when you do, the beast will rear it’s ugly head and begin to devour and consume everything possible. There is a woman out there that appreciates all aspects of you and may even like your femme side better!! Mine does—it’s awesome!
Best Wishes
Hello Lucille! Yes, I completely agree with your arguments about advantage to be the transvestite, all arguments correct and that else can be added. .?? to me the woman is present more than the man and I as the woman agrees with you! Sanny
I would describe these as very good points. Each one of the points could be expanded into a “how do” guide unto themselves. Most of us transwoman do not understand the why of this well enough to explain it…so we need all the help we can get.
My wife still isn’t quite sure about Dani but she is certainly enjoying the benefits of having her around…even before she knew who Dani was, she was enjoying the benefit of having a partner that enjoyed having their girl get her girl on.
Cross-dressing or being cross-dressed can be sexually exciting, but there is also another mode in which it can be very peaceful and spiritually uplifting. It’s fun to enjoy both!
All good solid reasons. For me the ever increasing reality of the girl, as she grew emotionally and became the dominant force eventually overwhelmed the ever weaker male shadow personality. He graciously let go and I was re-born full time to live out a dream I’d had since 5. Two-spirited for some of us is a passing phase, and not stable.
Very well put. I love the last sentence the best. The “Passing Phase” for many is “Do I pass as a woman?” Which in it’s self is a passing phase of being transgender.” When I got past the worry of “Do I pass” and moved to the “this is who I am, truly, I became liberated and became more accepting of myself.
In this picture, I am the woman on the left. I am with a wonderful friend at “The T-Girl Prom in Portland. We both enjoyed the chance to “Dress for the Occasion.”
Your Friend,
Bobbie Angel
Welll…good to know!
You look quite lovely, Bethany!
I LOVE your top 10 list!!! it’s right on the money hon (grin)
and I especially agree with #9…I stopped dressing for a while (about 2 years)and in that time frame my BP went up (145/95) and in the past year have had 2 heart attacks!
Since then I have started dressing again and lo and behold My BP has DROPPED to 110/75 to 125/80 NO MORE STRESS!! 🙂
Love your tips and tricks 🙂
Lisa
Hi Lucille,
Thank you for all you do for us first and foremost ! In regards to your question of top ten benefits, I would add it makes you less angry because you have less testosterone running through your vain,s and not so aggressive.
Myself personally I have noticed over
The years a big drop in aggressive behaviors 🙂
Live with Passion and Purpose
NIKKI The TG trainer
Hi Nikki! I’m loving this forum so much. I need to drop 25 to get back to a size 9, but I want an exercise program that will focus on losing fat weight (unless it’s from by belly to my hips!) and not adding muscle weight. What I’m really asking, are there exercises more designed to highlight my partially femme body, including more breast development of course. Not sure I can leave an email address here, but would love to talk to an expert like yourself. Maybe Lucille can facilitate that if you’re amenable.
Kisses, the “Niki” with one “k”
Sorry Lucille,
I neglected to leave my pic honey
Live with Passion and Purpose
Kisses Nikki
Hi, Lucille honey,
I am a certified athletic trainer and Former Pro Athlete and published writer both as a male and TG girl. I work during the Day right now in male mode due largely to financial and reputation limits. 🙁 Currently working with Glamour boutiques to help all our TG,TS girlfriends look and feel more feminine in there bodies and teaching Kardio Kickbox and Female Booty Camps.
Kisses Nikki
Hi Nikki,
That’s a great point – and a wonderful benefit.
What kind of training do you do?
Hugs,
Lucille