Are you ready to unleash your inner woman and discover a whole new world of self-expression?
Crossdressing can help you break free from gender norms and embrace your true self.
In this blog post, we’ll explore the top 10 benefits of crossdressing that can transform your life.
There’s a lot to be said for embracing your femininity and all the perks that come with it!
Top 10 Benefits of Crossdressing
1. Embracing both sides
Crossdressing lets you bring out the best of both genders and incorporate them into your own personality.
2. Motivation to look good
When you’re crossdressing, you naturally want to look great, right? That’s why it can inspire you to take better care of yourself, stay in shape, and prioritize self-care.
3. Better understanding of women
Crossdressing helps you see things from a woman’s perspective, which can make you more understanding and empathetic towards them.
4. Finding a community
When you embrace crossdressing, an added bonus is that you can tap into online or local communities. These communities can help you feel accepted and supported.
5. Fidelity and integrity
Now, I hope you’d never cheat on anyone, but there’s an interesting twist here. When YOU are “the other woman,” it can reinforce your commitment to being faithful.
6. Discovering your true self
Crossdressing is an amazing journey of self-discovery. It’s a chance to dig deep and uncover parts of yourself you may not have fully explored.
7. Unleashing your uniqueness
Normal is overrated, right? Crossdressing makes you stand out from the crowd and be an intriguing, fascinating individual.
8. Embracing differences
Crossdressing teaches you to accept and appreciate those who don’t fit into society’s norms. It broadens your perspective, promotes inclusivity, and shows you the beauty of diversity.
9. Stress relief
Crossdressing offers a fantastic and harmless way to relieve stress. It’s like stepping into a different role and enjoying a fulfilling activity that helps you unwind and take care of yourself.
10. Boosting creativity and courage
Crossdressing requires creativity, resourcefulness, and a dose of courage. It’s all about stepping out of your comfort zone, trying new things, and embracing the unexpected.
Final Thoughts
I hope you are now convinced that crossdressing can be a healthy and highly beneficial part of your life.
Do you agree with my list or have any other benefits of crossdressing to add? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
Oh ! You missed the ultimate privilege to know what both women and men restrooms looks like 😉
… Being on hormones for more than a year, I’ve lived full time as a girl for a long time now. So telling about the benefit of both world become kind of tricky for me… But nonetheless, my personality has been affected by this duality. So the girl I am today is built with parts of the boys I was yesterday.
I’ve never denied whoever I was, my ultimate goal is not to “pass” but to develop my own feminine personality, look, etc. And believe me, the ultimate paradox is that the less you try to pass the more you actually pass. Of course, for anyone who absolutely want to find some clue about my initial gender, be it physical or psychological, they will find for sure if that’s what they want to find. People like that have no interest to me even if sometimes I need to work for them (I’m a freelance graphic designer).
I do lots of ballet class (5 times a week and pretty proud of it ;p) with girls who have witnessed my transition. The greatest thing and the only one really important to me is all the support, affection and encouragement they are giving me every day 🙂 They accept me as I am, with my past.
Living what I live, both my girls and boys friends think of me as a very emphatic kind of person. I’m not pretentious, they told me so a number of times and I’m very proud of that ;p I don’t think I was as empathic as I am. I don’t know if it’s something innate, biological, psychological or due to my hormonal treatment, but I think living a transition makes oneself more open to others for sure ! So yes, being what we are make us more understandable to others. That’s for sure !
Lucille
I agree with all your 10 points. However, for me I must add one more. When my daughter was 5 yrs old her mother and my wife passed away. I made a conscious decision to raise my daughter myself…no stepmom. And so for the last 19 yrs I have played the role of mother and father. My daughter..who now has graduated from college and is living on her own…accepted my crossdressing very easily and I grew into the mother role. Now I live about 60% of the time dressed as a female and I absolutely love it!
Love you for all you have done for me
Dana
Thanks for taking the trouble to reply Dana.
Andrea
Yes, when she was 10/11 yrs old I dressed up to show her my femme self but not again until she was 22 this year. Whenever she was home from college I continued to dress every evening after coming home from work just to show her the different clothes I had purchased. She was always fine with that although I think she was hesitant to have friends over to the house…understandably.
Dana
Dana,
Thanks for your reply; it is good to hear that you still have a great relationship with your daughter.
Did you, or do you ever, dress as your preferred femme self in front of her, and if so what was/is her reaction?
Thanks,
Andrea
Andrea
My daughter was either 10 or 11 when I first prented in front of her. Her reply was “thats OK. I like wearing boys clothes”. She is a bit of a tomboy, but as she has grown older she has expressed the desire to be married and raise children. After that 1st pressentation to her I never brought up the subject again although my bedroom closets were full of lingerie and dresses and she could have seen those at any ntime. I revisited this with her again on Jan 1 this year and she said she has known that about me ever since that 1st time. My relationship with her is so so strong.
Dana
Dana,
Was it age 5 that u revealed ur cross dressing to ur daughter?
I am divorced, my daughter 11, I fear if I told her then my glorious relationship with her would be ruined and she would never want to see me again.
Andrea
your 10 points are very good and I think a lot of the girls who read it should may attention , As for myself I work and live as Charlie my long time dream that has at last come to me . Thank You for the informative site,if anyone would like to see what freedom is I am on facebook Charlie Reading
Charlie
Thank you Lucille for your correspondence and sense of friendship
Your list is good and sensible.
I have thought about our ‘way’ for all my life and have a few observations which have helped me to accept me and the many who are my sisters.
Perfect Top 10…describes in-part being ambigender. I plan to use this in my next book and the sequel to Tricks of the Trade — A Beginners Guide To Cross Dressing. For those of you unfamiliar with ambigender, here’s an explanation:
Ambingendered (from Latin, ambo = both+gender = masculine & feminine) Having two genders, one masculine and one feminine, being able to use both well and comfortably; able to think, talk, feel and act in both genders independent of each other. Double-gendered.
Love, Carollyn
Hi Lucille
I believe you are right. I know that I haven’t come out yet but when I dress under my male clothing I feel more confident as I know that underneath all the coverings I am a woman.
I wish that there were more places here in Melbourne Australia that cater for girls like me.
Thank you for your support and I know one day soon I will take the next step to becoming a woman.
Regards
Regina
Regina, Lets hope one day that the Zoe Belle gender
comes into being and T.G. Victoria get further ahead.
Since my wife of 37 years passed away I have been a lost sole. Dressing has brought me back to life. Being able to pass and enjoy a new life has made all the difference in the world to me. I can’t tell you how wonderful it is to be dressed in public and no one knows who I really am. All my life I have related to women more than men. It’s wonderful to be a part of the sisterhood, LOL.
Shirley
Thanks you story Shirley and my condolences on your loss. Your story resonated with me because I recently lost the man who was my loving partner of 15 years. I had left my wife of 14 years for him. Both of them knew about Niki. I was spending more and more time out with my CD/TG/TV gurl friends and my wife (understandably)could never really accept her. Interestingly, my husband was more like “don’t ask, don’t tell”, which I rationalized as step in the right direction since at least I was sexually much more comfortable with being married to a man. And he did buy me heels, jewelry, lingerie, and nail polish on occasion. I just could never wear it out. It was just for us or me to enjoy privately. Now that he’s gone, the rest of me is just exploding with the opportunity to be a “complete girl”. So many fascinating roads on here…..you nailed it with #7 Lucille! We will NEVER be boring darlin! Kisses!
I believe all of the reasons are very well put. I have no problem being the me I want to be. I think that all the reasons may help others understand what genetic girls think and and want….well at least we can hope anyway. I see things a bit more clearly when I think of the reasons Lucille has shared with us here. I can honestly say that I like who I am, the woman I so desire to be, and if nobody likes me for being the way I want to be, too bad for them. I am me, and very happy with myself! 🙂