It’s amazing how much our names shape our identities. Many of us grow into the names we are given at birth. Others never feel a connection to their name. But crossdressers and transgender women have the unique advantage of being able to choose their feminine names. There’s a unique story behind every great femme name…… Continue Reading
Top 10 Dos and Don’ts for Your Male to Female Transformation
So many things go into being a woman… makeup and clothing are just the beginning! To help you be the best version of yourself, here are my top 10 dos and don’ts for your male to female transformation. 1. DON’T compare yourself to cisgender women Comparing yourself to cisgender (genetic) women is a good way to… Continue Reading
Transgender / Crossdressing Poll: Do You Blend In or Stand Out?
Are you afraid to step out as a woman for fear of not passing? Or if you’re out, do you allow your happiness to be determined by how passable you are? If so, I think you’re making a mistake. Instead of worrying about passing vs. not passing, my advice has always been to try to… Continue Reading
Do You Care About “Passing” as a Woman? (Transgender / Crossdressing Poll)
“Passing as a woman” is an important goal for many crossdressers and transgender women. But is it a goal worth pursuing? I have my own opinion about whether or not it’s important to pass (read more here), but I’d really love to hear from YOU: Do you care about passing as a woman? Or are you… Continue Reading
How to Become a Sexy Woman: 4 Tips for Crossdressers and Transgender Women
Want to know the secret to becoming a sexy woman? Here’s what it’s NOT: Wearing super short skirts and stripper heels Putting on huge breast forms Pouting your lips and sticking your butt out True sexiness is a state of mind! There are lots of small things you can do to boost your feminine sex… Continue Reading
3 Words to Describe Yourself? (Male to Female Transformation Inspiration)
Want to know the #1 secret to creating an alluring feminine image? No, it’s not spending a bunch of money on breast forms, makeup, and clothes… The secret lies in deciding WHAT you want your image to communicate! A great way to do this is to choose 3 words that describe your ideal femme self. For… Continue Reading
3 Unexpected Ways to Be More Feminine (Male to Female Transformation Tips)
Putting on a dress and lipstick aren’t the only ways to express your femininity. (We women are more complex than that!) That’s why I wanted to go beyond the obvious and share some “unexpected” ways to be more feminine. Ready to boost your womanly allure? Try these 3 tips: 1. Buy a new perfume The… Continue Reading
When Did You First Know You Were a Girl? (For Crossdressers and MTF Transgender Women)
There’s a common theme I’ve noticed with most of “my girls”… It’s that they’ve known who they are from a very early age. What about you? When did YOU first know you were a girl – or had a feminine side? Have you known since you were young or did the realization blossom later in… Continue Reading
How Do You “Label” Yourself? (Gender Identity Q&A)
When I tell people about my work with the TG/CD community, I occasionally get responses like: “Oh, you mean drag queens?” Or… “You work with transvestites?” There’s a lot of ignorance out there and I get annoyed when people mislabel “my girls”. The fact that there are so many identities under the transgender umbrella only… Continue Reading
How to Look Hot in Your Femme Photos (MTF Transgender / Crossdressing Tips)
Photos are a great way to share your femme self with the world. But maybe you think you have to look like a model to take stunning photos? Guess again! Taking beautiful photos is all about SKILL. Here are my top 5 secrets for looking HOT in your femme photos: 1. Angle your body When… Continue Reading
