Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Well Lucille ; you’ve hit that nerve again, Let me start at the beginning it was 1971 I was 10 years old Mom dressed me as a girl for Holloween and sent me off to school Lindsay was born, I fell in love with the way I looked, felt and the attention I got all day, I wanted to continue dressing like that but it was the seventy’s and boys did not dress like that, Now on to 1977 I let my hair grow long and began curling and styling it also wearing girls clothes in secret but there again it was the seventy’s and boys did not dress like that,
In 1978 my first son was born I got married and Lindsay got buried in the back of my mind but never forgotten, in 1984 the marriage ended so I started being Lindsay again but only going places none of my family or friends would go or see me, in 1988 my youngest of three children my daughter came to live with me but I continued to hide Lindsay from her, in 1990 my friends that knew about me said I had to be more discrete and be the father my daughter needed, so again Lindsay got buried in the back of my mind but never forgotten.
Fast forward 21 years, a second marriage of 16 years January 2011 and a totally different world, Lindsay came out in a big way, I told my wife, family and friends about Lindsay and did not care what they thought and for two years now, I absolutely love the way I look, feel and the attention I get no matter where I go out.
GUILTY ? guilty for not continuing to be who I am, guilty for not telling everybody who I truly am, most of all guilty for burying Lindsay in the back of my mind, guilty for not allowing her to be the person I am.
However I have never ever felt guilty for being transgender.
love ya OXOXOX
Lindsay
I Love dressing as a lady. The clothes are very comfortable to wear and to sleep in.
I used trick or treat night, just to get peoples reaction. Then I had a friend go out with me shopping to help me get used to being dressed in public. After that I just started dressing every day. And even though I knew I wasn’t passable,I still went out and did my shopping,and anything else I needed to do. And told myself I didn’t care what people thought,cause I wasn’t married,related,to them in any way. And learned to chock up their snickering,laughing and talking bout me behind my back,as their ignorance.
I feel less guilty about crossdressing because I when I act masculine and ‘man up’ to conform to society’s expectations of masculinity, I feel like it’s just a pretentious act. As if there is no substance to it. I think that it’s sad that society is still like this. I am a liberal and I dare say that conservatives (political viewpoint) hold us back, which has basically been my impression of them on social media sites. Well due to the fear of running into people with conservative viewpoints I try to express my femininity in subtle ways but I don’t care about putting on a masculine act anymore. I just want to be real and that honestly isn’t the real me.
OMG YES!! Since i was a little ‘girl’. Mommie really wanted a little girl and all her aunts and my grand-mother told her for SURE i would be a baby girl.
Till i was school age it worked fine, then my military Father expected me to be a “normal” boy. No sitting down to pee, no calling my underwear ‘panties’. Nothing that could get me labeled a Sissy.
(Out West, Texas upbringing in the 50s)
The only alternative to being a normal Boy, was being queer, a sissy, etc.
It took another 50 years before i was able to accept that i am really a woman (cliche–born in a male body.)
i never really fit in with gay people, although i had a very gentle and understanding boyfriend in college. Then again i never quite clicked with the Man-Jock mentality of sexuality. Not knowing
it at the time, i really preferred the role of a lesbian, although i only had one or two Women friends who understood and accepted this.
Only in the past few years did i really understand and accept my feminine nature with the help of a patient and understanding Woman therapist.
And yet…..
i still have to hide, sneak a day away in panties and bra, look at the she-of-me in the mirror and
regocnize: That is really ME.
Well, thanks to whomever read this.
theresa
No guilt whatsoever. Neither would I apologize for my sexual proclivities. This is enhanced gender, not gender dysphoria but gender euphoria.
Life is too short to care about what others want you to conform to. No apologies, no excuses, if someone doesn’t like you just because you’re genderqueer, then they’re better off out of your life.
growing up a boy treated like a girl and the world sticks their noses up at transgender in this area
I was once a closet crossdresser, only did it when nobody was around. I have broken that and go out as much as I can dressed. For me, I found out that there are two things I need to ‘pass’: women’s clothes and breasts; although my breasts are only fake. I haven’t heard any bad comment after I’ve walked past anybody nor any strange looks. My hair does come down a little past my neck and I keep it in a ponytail when I’m dressed and that helps. I also make sure I’m cleanly shaven in all the areas not covered by clothing.
I once wore a dress and somebody called me a ma’am. The biggest thing I think I’ve done while dressed was used the women’s restroom, I was scared out of my mind but in the end it was uneventful. The one thing I find funny is when I want to try on some clothes. If I look male, I either get sent to the men’s fitting rooms or I can’t try on the clothes at all. If I go to the same store and look female, I can use the fitting rooms that are meant for women.
It’s great that u seem to be passing well and uneventfully.
But how do u cope with the voice change? That’s where I fear embarrassment, if I went out and be forced to say something but it not sound at all feminine.