Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I had issues with guilt for many years. On the conscious level I know that I am not doing anything wrong or hurtful. Some have said they were not doing anything illegal, however in my lifetime I have seen that change as there were laws outlawing cross dressing. Of course those were only enforced on male to female dressing. The last hurdle for me was that when dressed I felt that I might be infringing on other peoples enjoyment by not conforming to their stereotype of male behavior/dress. It has taken me a long time to get over that and realize that I am allowed to be my self without their permission. I don’t enter into their space and I could care less how they dress so I don’t believe they should control my space.
I am different as trans than anyone I know. In fact, I don’t get along with other trans persons at all but do get along with genetic women well but perhaps as a woman, I’m not sure. I don’t think of myself as feminine at all but every gender-of-the-brain test clearly contradicts this: it lists me as very feminine. I’m sure I don’t look feminine with my very masculine body although years ago while I was living in Italy I was called “faccia da donna”and moreover, I have been taken as a girl many times. I consider wearing women’s clothes just natural as men’s clothes are so dull and boring and furthermore I am very dependent on my clothes for my well-being. Onlookers automatically think that I think of myself as a woman but I don’t, however, I must be some kind of trans person but not a transvestite as I do not have a transvestic state of mind. I have had some cosmetic surgery.I certainly wish to be elegant and to have feminine curves if possible. One of the things which connects me with GGs is the way I can talk about clothes with them but perhaps because I am also so much more verbal than most men–if I am one! I also have Asperger’s Syndrome so dating is impossible for me and so is marriage at this point although I may look forward to having many more friends in the future!
I have to SO agree with u about men’s clothes being so dull and boring! Take mens shirts – apart from t shirts with pictures, 99.9% of shirts are either plain, striped, or checked, and that’s it. In the office where I work, all men wear suits, shirt, tie – to me they all look exactly the same apart from minimal colour variation; it’s like a uniform. But women have tonnes of clothing options and so many places to buy them – in a department store (at least in UK) it’d be amazing if the men’s department was as big as the lingerie section!
For these reasons alone, I can’t understand why more men don’t crossdress! But as another post said, maybe it’s all down to genes…
I feel a little intimidated.
I’m not prepared to go into public as a woman.
I’m looking for acceptance from my wife.
She has begun buying me closes, but only those that can pass as mens clothes or panties that no one else sees.
I’m hoping to dress for her in private.
Our next shopping spree is for heels and wigs.
Wish me luc.
What a wonderful discussion! I grew up Catholic in the 50’s and 60’s. Then it was all about guilt so I left the faith in my 20’s and for the next 3 decades the guilt of my actions completely faded away. I came back to the church for my daughter to have a religion and discovered they were still entrenched in guilt. I can now be a Catholic but don’t buy into the guilt. What are they going to do? Excommunicate me because I don’t acknowledge their guilt trip? lol I have come so far in my transgendered self with no turning back. I am a better person as a female than a male though I go through life as both. When dressed in male mode my brain and soul are female and that makes me a gentle soul. My daughter has never bought into the guilt either. That trip is so self-defeating.
I am 62 years old,and married with 2 grown children. I told my wife of my crossdressing, and even insisted that she see me dressed. She told me that she live with it, and accept it. I committed myself to her, because I loved her. A year later, she let me know in no uncertain term, that my dressing was no longer allowed. At the same time, she let me know that I was to be a father. I had made a commitment, and I honor my promises. When I was growing up, my dressing was considered a sin. So, I was wrong to dress. As you all know, dressing is not something you can stop, it is always with you. Yes, I feel guilty.
We’re about the same age, I’m 64, and I experienced the same thing. I guess there’s worse things we could be doing, Gambling the family food money away, drinking or drugging or fooling around. I told her she would have a nicer wardrobe with me crossdressing. Well I moved out, after my two grown children were married and gone and went south for the warm weather, and I’m still dressing, no guilt, just enjoyment.
I am not a religious person, even if I sometimes wonder if a few things in my life have happened at particular times for a reason.
Where does it say in the bible that cross dressing is a sin?
No I do not feel guilty, I have a loving, careing , and supportive wife. I am currently writing a book about what I have been through. And am currently working with two publishers in England, to help get my story out there. My wife and I have been married 17 years this passed June.
You are very lucky to have a loving, supportive wife.
Good luck with your book!
I do feel a little embarrassed but I have two people at work that I told and they have been very supported and they’re females..
I know for me there were years of guilt. I didn’t know why I felt this way or felt better in womens clothes, the public norm was it was wrong. Now at 45 I know I’m transgendered and have started HRT and feel so much better about myself but have found a new guilt.
I have been married to a loving and caring woman for 25 years and she has not always understood why I dressed, but accepted me for me. Now I tell her I’m transgendered and want and need to transition. We had a rough year and still struggle with the fact that this makes me a lesbian and she is not. So the guilt comes from how can I put her in that light of being lesbian when she’s not. She still loves me, we are still together and trying to weed through it as best we can. But it is hard to know I brought this upon our family, and wish I could make it all better.
Thank you for listening,
Melissa