Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I never bean felt guilt at all that I’m transgender I’m happy who I am and even more so the further I transition. I suggest be your self know matter what people think but go at it slowly over time and they will notice some things and not notice other things and they will get used to it over time just be your self know matter what. One quote I like is “How the hell can you love some one if you cant love your self” (Ru Paul)
I am not ashamed of myself being transgender, if people wish to dislike me for being myself. Then they miss out on having a great friend. I am caring, honest, and respectful of the way others choose to live their lives. I am not in any position to pass judgements onto others, as I wouldn’t want them past onto me. If you want to know just how special of a person I can be, just ask and I will tell you. 🙂
Passed onto new… So sorry
Dear Andrea,
I’m so glad that you can relate to at least part of what I wrote.
You know I don’t think of myself as cross-dressing, not really. Women have their own styles of dressing and I am no exception to this and it is an ongoing process and like so many women, however I go through phases of wearing this and that and also in not knowing what I want to wear for the day to the tune of taking an awful long time deciding what I want to wear. Fortunately for the most part no-one has to wait for me but then I do have to get to places on time like everyone does!
As for having Asperger’s syndrome, well, I think I am slowly learning how to relate to my contemporaries by hook and by crook.
Sometimes I feel a little ashamed when I dress alone at home. However im not ready to go out in public.
I’ve been “gender ambiguous” all of my life. When I was in my twenties I was pretty successful at projecting the “macho” image, but it wasn’t very long before I could no longer sustain the amount of necessary effort. That’s when I stopped the bodybuilding, the hanging out with the guys, all of that. I’ve worn mens’ clothing out of a sense of what felt was expected of me, but the clothes I continue to wear most of the time are very uncomfortable because of the disconnect between the image that is projected and the way I sense myself.
I’m currently married to a wonderful woman who accepts that I dress in women’s clothing at home, including lacy lingerie, panties, a bra and breast forms. I haven’t been able to ask her about make-up, because I’m afraid that would be a deal-breaker. When we go out I dress under the male clothing, usually nice panties and a camisole, but even under the masculine camouflage I’m still fearful of discovery. We’ve recently moved into a very conservative southern community with very narrow views on what’s “normal” and “acceptable”. There’s really nowhere to turn except for therapy to help me with the anxiety.
If I could find the nerve, I would live as a woman. It’s a very appealing thought, and if we were still living in the more metropolitan areas to the north, I might make the attempt. I’m 60 years old, and actually making this kind of change is more intimidating than anything I’ve ever encountered before.
I am not ashamed of dressing. I am afraid of losing my job.
I am an out and about girl,going on with my life in the mainstream world. Most people have no understanding of the “T mindset” so they are content to distance themselves from us as they are “normal”.lol [normal is a setting on a washing machine..] I interact with many people in the course of a week and do my best to answer any questions they have about my lifestyle…people that “get it”really do,but unfortunately,there are many that will just continue to view us as “strange”. I have a thick skin and go about my life no matter what people are thinking…it is the best way to be…confident in your right to be there.
hi every one
i think the feelling of the female personality must be mach in the in side and the out side
if you like to live like woman be a woman in evrey details that the normal woman cant tell if you a male.
so i refuse the photoes in this post.
the reale woman must stay in side us if you cant live like reale woman .