Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Along time ago, I was so ashamed of myself for even thinking like that. I kept it a very tight secret from everyone. I was lucky to have met my wife back then. She knew that I was a Crossdresser, and didn’t have a problem with it. In fact she gave me so much support. That now I’m going out in public, while I’m wearing my bras and breasts forms. I’m not wearing any dresses or other outfits. I’m just being myself. I’m just wearing my shorts and teeshirts. No wigs. At the moment, I have a stomach thatis the size of a basketball. If I’m able to go out wearing my outfits. I have to make it look I’m pregnant and ready to give birth.
It took me about 2 months, just to get comfortable with my new body. Once I went out into the public by myself. I felt as though everybody was staring at me.now I could care less about what they think or say about me and the way I look. I hear them saying something of, that guy has medium to large size breasts.
I began to laugh when I saw this couple, he bent over to say something to his other half. She turned around to him and then slapped the crap out of him. I thought that was so funny. Now I think of that moment when I start to feel guilty. It’s made me proud to be the way I am. I’m going to be developingmy breasts. Then all the women that sees me. Will be jealous.
Good for me.
Thank You for the extra confidence.
Richard “Rochelle” Leach
You go girl!
Personally, I don’t feel guilty about being TS. Quite the opposite! I’m proud to be part of the more intelligent sector of human beings, of a group of people more concerned with the survival of the species as a whole (more-so than simple procreation).
What I feel is rage, having to hide myself in order to do and keep my job; rage that people in general make judgements without any basis in facts, projecting upon me some of the most negative attributes within society, some even respond with violence.
And that’s when I feel very, very sad.
Nicely written Myrissa.
I did not think about this myself until I read your post. I usually don’t feel guilty but I do get upset and very frustrated with the poor attitude of many other people.
I could not fully out myself now as that would cost me my job for sure and likely even my wife. She knows I dress but I have not been able to show her just how much this is a part of me. She still appears to think its more of a “hobby” or something. A few of my friends, I think, would accept me anyway but I fear that most would turn away.
I get so upset that at times I just want to scream!
Another possibility is that we somehow inherit dimly remembered fragmentary memories from our ancestors both male and female.
Well I used to feel something, but I don’t think guilty would be the phrase. Scared of being caught maybe. But my Mother knew I was wearing her clothes, how could she not, I could never put them back the same way. She also told my wife before we were married that I liked to dress, HELLO, she already knew, because I told her. She tolerated it for awhile. The need to dress, ebbed and flowed, and now that I’m living alone in another State, I’m enjoying dressing when ever I want. Typically it’s a winter hobby, as I can shave myself totally. But I still wear Women’s clothes year round, but shaved works better. I’m concentrating on makeup now, trying to get the best look and find that right concealer. I will say that the Stepping Out program, and the Hypnosis tapes have been GREAT. I should have jumped on the voice program, when it was on sale. Lucille has been a real plus to this adventure. Now I dress, don’t fell anything but happy when dressed, I shop for Woman’s clothes without fear, it’s wonderful THANKS !
There was a time when I did feel really guilty because of my parents sexist and highly prejudice brain washing about gender and sexuality, from age four right into my adult years. I have spent nearly my entire life living in ignorance, denial and fear of who I am and my real identity. I have become so sick of living a lie, not being true to myself, that I have grown to hate this world and the people in it, for being so prejudice and unaccepting. I do not try to force my views or existence on to others, I just want to be able to walk out the door without being laughed at, scorned at, like I am some kind of disease. We are all God’s creation, quantum physics, science, has proven we are all connected to one another. Human’s think they are so advanced because of their technology, yet they still treat each other in such primitive ways. What gives one human the right to rule over another? What gives one human the right to say I have to live a lie, and covet my true self? I have grown to dislike humanity so much for this, I no longer wish to be part of this world. If I could be removed, or reborn as a genetic woman, I would give up this life in a millisecond, just so I don’t have to live in shame.
Hi Myrissa,
I’m Hanna, Alecia’s youngest sister. Thank you for replying. Alecia said your words are thought provoking, and that you remind her of an old friend, who was a writer, baker, and a music maker.
You’re right, they, should have to learn, and accept, what has been known for three thousand years.
It’s nice of you to clarify, and point out that WE, have been sought out, as teachers, along with other things. We cannot deny, that our apparent lack of understanding, with regard to this higher purpose, has been a source of confusion for both of us. It can be upsetting to know you are being followed, when you don’t understand the reason/s why.
We didn’t know about the Geisha, and had to look up the meaning, in the same way we looked up Ken’s fake profile, and Kim Kardashian.
Of course, we do not want them to win, but here’s the thing. We can’t do this alone. We are out of our depth in many respects, because we only understand part of the picture. Also, we do not have all the knowledge and resources to pull everything together.
Take our minds for example. There are memories, hidden, trapped, deep within. Memories which can unlock the truth. Answers to important questions. That is why we need assistance. We feel like we have given it our all. We feel like we have been heard, but not listened to, just followed, that is all. How not to give up. You tell me.
So Myrissa, if you were our guide, what would you have us do to advance things to the next level, and how would you have us do it?
Hanna.
Totally been where you are at… I can offer only this, if you remove yourself, they win. ‘THEY won’t have to learn, grow, and finally accept what was known 3000 yrs ago.
WE are special
WE have been sought out as teachers, companions, thinkers, artists… WE began the tradition of the Geisha, WE have cured diseases, gifted the world with poetry that is still read and admired after a thousand years, taught the children of countless rules in history, were the advisory voice behind many a throne.
The Chinese, Japanese, Greeks, Romans, Native Americans, and countless other societies prized our existence. It wasn’t until Man began to misuse faith and deliberate twisting of religious doctrine to control others did we become a threat. THEY used fear and indoctrination to drown out our voice of reason.
Do you really want ‘THEM’ to win?
More that guilty, I feel disoriented, scared, worried During a couple of years and accidentally, I began to I discovered my secret attraction and admiration towards the persons tv/tg/cd/sissy, I was rejecting to recognize this but in this time I have felt increasingly attracted and now I am disoriented, insecurely, lost. Do not be where this can come. If I think what I write, I cannot stop believing that it is impossible, that I am mad, and nevertheless I cannot stop writing. I suppose, with the secret hope that someone me gives the return though only this is a brief affectionate greeting. Though only it has been in these minutes that I have spent in his web, for me already it has been very useful. Lauren, thank you very much for his precious web and enterteining. A cordial and grateful greeting.
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Myrissa,
thank you very much for his nice words of support and comprehension.
You receive a cordial greeting.
You have my support and prayers to help you on your journey of self discovery.
I feel no guilt or shame and I never have. I’m completely happy with myself and how I am. If there are those out there that would have a problem with that, and I’m sure there are, I carry a 45 caliber glock in my purse. Those people dont want to mess with me
I have never felt guilty about my love for womens fashions
or about cross-dressing. I have been a partial cross-dresser for many years, and I will continue to do so. I care nothing about people’s negative comments.
This society is so judgemental to guys dressing as women,
but if a woman dresses as a man, it’s a normal thing. Why
is this ? I’m happy being a cross-dressing fag, and my money is as green as the next womans. So, if people have
a problem with this, that’s their problem, not mine.
I don’t have a clue as to why I feel guilty about being undeniably female inside since age 7 though born male. Could it be that it was considered perverted and wrong in the area I was raised, especially by the church. Maybe it was the forced countless subliminal recordings I was exposed to shaming me or the psychologists telling me how wrong I was for the longest time. No, I think it was the forced steroids and staged peer pressure I was forced to endure so I would be “normal”,accepted and a be all you can be alpha male. NOT anymore! I fought this long and will never surrender who I am inside, a caring female. She will escape someday!