Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I dress when I feel feminine but I can’t get my wife to go along with it so I have to hide myself when I’m doing it do you have any ideas what I can do to convince her to let me dress enemy or should I just keep on doing it when she’s not around love to hear back from you Jennifer
I have just come out of hiding and been going out crossed dressed and really loving it, i wear make up to work, i wear womens clothes around town with or with out a wig, trying to grow my hair as i hate my wig and wigs are carp and. Make your hrad itchy and also try to grow my nails and they are long and i would love to get then done, but a bit scared too, and i even trying to take it to next level and change into on on hormones, but i have see a physics to talk to him and get advice he like A councillor and i go every 2-3weeks and then when he siad i ready ill be see a doctor and then going from there, i just wish it would Harry up and not take so song as i really need this and i believe that i’m a girl trapped in men body and need to get out, i can’t put on make up right, and don’t pass as one when i have the wig on and really wolud like to pass any tips on all this, and am i doing it right?
I have just come out of hiding and been going out crossed dressed and really loving it, i wear make up to work, i wear womens clothes around town with or with out a wig, trying to grow my hair as i hate my wig and wigs are carp and. Make your hrad itchy and also try to grow my nails and they are long and i would love to get then done, but a bit scared too, and i even trying to take it to next level and change into on on hormones, but i have see a physics to talk to him and get advice he like A councillor and i go every 2-3weeks and then when he siad i ready ill be see a doctor and then going from there, i just wish it would Harry up and not take so song as i really need this and i believe that i’m a girl trapped in men body and need to get out, i can’t put on make up right, and don’t pass as one when i have the wig on and really wolud like to pass any tips on all this, and am i doing it right?
i am 59 and experiecing a resurgance of feelings long repressed. In my 20s I used to crossdress and thought of myself as reasonably attractive the handful of time I went to gay bars in a dress and heels. But each of those wonderful experiences was followed by shame, guilt and depression. I tried therapy but ultimately decided it was time to deny those feelings. I am now married for just under 30 years and have a great marriage and two wonderful kids. Somehow between the exhuastion of a career and kids and the feeling of guilt – I managed to keep all this repressed. But now – in part because of the political progrees on LGBT rights (trans in particular) – I find the old urges to wear eye liner and pantyhose returning.
but I am terrified – of hurting or losing my loved ones first and foremost – but also of looking like a fool (I looked much better in eyeliner in pantyhose 35 years ago – today – not so much)
I have not yet taken the step of heading to the drug store and shopping and claiming i am shopping for my wife – but i think about it often
i admire the courage of those who are free to be who they are, and I am thrilled that those that come after me face a better political envirnment than I did – but I still feel left in limbo
anyone else feel this way?
When I was younger I often felt guilty when I would crossdress because I would almost always end up satisfying my sexual desires. I found that instead of a feeling of fulfillment or pleasure I would be filled with the fear of being found out. As I got older I learned to focus more on the joy that crossdressing gave me and less on the negative feelings or concerns about what others might think or say. I became a very confident person and began buying my own feminine things rather then borrowing my older sisters things. Every now and then the demons of doubt and shame would reappear and I would find myself purging some of my girly things. I am now at a point in my life where I have no more doubt or shame. Those feelings have been replaced with an overwhelming sense of hopelessness that I will never truly be able to express myself the way that I have always wished that I could. I am stuck in a sexless marriage and my needs are not being met at home. She has known about my crossdressing ever since our first year together and I have never tried to push it onto her or make it part of our intimate time, but I think she always felt like she was competing with my other self and just gave up on me. I have never been unfaithful to my wife, but I need the love and acceptance that she is unwilling to provide. I honestly don’t believe that any woman could provide my with the pleasures that I find myself wanting. Am I a horrible person for entertaining the thought of betraying my marriage or do have the right to explore my options based on my current situation? I just want to be happy.
I read your post and think. I could have wrote this myself. How are you doing with your struggle, any updates?
Hi,
Today I tried my first wig. Last week I learned how to apply, or tried to learn how to apply makeup. I recieved my glittery gold pumps today as well as my new silicon push ups.
I have manufactured my own breast fillers and the work and feel so wonderful, bouncy like real boobs and soft and easily made in variety of sizes, and they feel very real. I am working on perfecting that.
I shopped at Ross and Target last year, and gave it all away to goodwill in a moment when I doubted who I am becoming. So, I shopped again recently. I even checked in at the dressing room with hand full of dresses and skirts. lol. I was so excited and I could care less if the girl there thought I was a freak, because I am freaky me, Daniella Prime, or Davina.
I am on my way to really being happy, even if it is only in the closet mostly for now. I plan on dressing to the nines tonight, and go out for a drive. Cant wait to put on my makeup and get dressed, and walk outside where I can be seen. So excited. So so excited. It has been 53 years in the waiting. Ever since I was a little boy and was fascinated and embarrassed about my desire to touch lace panties and soft garments. I am a masculine tall man, but have a female heart and soul. And I am loving the fact that we can see the light, there is light, we will be accepted sooner or later. Thanks to Caitlyn for passing the message to millions recently, but moreso to all the transgender folks that have struggled to do so with little help and much pain. They are the real heroes because they dont have such privelege as Caitlyn does. The heroes are the ones in the trenches, getting the word out that transgender people are people. Yay.
I have just come out of hiding and been going out crossed dressed and really loving it, i wear make up to work, i wear womens clothes around town with or with out a wig, trying to grow my hair as i hate my wig and wigs are carp and. Make your hrad itchy and also try to grow my nails and they are long and i would love to get then done, but a bit scared too, and i even trying to take it to next level and change into on on hormones, but i have see a physics to talk to him and get advice he like A councillor and i go every 2-3weeks and then when he siad i ready ill be see a doctor and then going from there, i just wish it would Harry up and not take so song as i really need this and i believe that i’m a girl trapped in men body and need to get out, i can’t put on make up right, and don’t pass as one when i have the wig on and really wolud like to pass any tips on all this, and am i doing it right?
I was the only male child in a large family, my father was a traveling salesman and was never home, so I had no strong male roll model. I didn’t learn to be a boy, but my mother was a very devout Christian, so any so called feminine traits were punished. I learned to hide who I was growing up to be. I’m now in my 50’s, and just trying to learn how to be myself. I still feel ashamed of my feminine attributes, but am going to counseling to try to integrate all of who I am. Still not sure who that is, but now I have the gift of being able to make the choices and become who I want to be.
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