Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
I do feel guilt at times …and sometimes f=l I have to hide it … but my wife best friend is totally supportive and actually encourages me to do more as savannah …it’s just me.
I am not out to anyone other than Her she loves both sided of me. She always buys gifts for both sides of me on bday and holidays…. and most of the time when it’s just a gift for no special occasion she buys for Savannah.
Sometimes I think she would prefer me as savannah on daily other than intimate times. Where she needs a man. I would have never been so free to do without her support.
Although I am still growing and getting braver about public places and being seen. I do wish I could live more open and be free with other ppl in my life. Because I didn’t choose this it is who I am…and that’s what she tells me.
I have never felt as a woman trapped in man’s body… but do love all things female and would switch in a heart beat if there were a pill could take to go back and forth depending on life situations and acceptance.
As I get older I wish I could have explored more of my savannah side (female role) . But I am so blessed in my life and love it. And I am who God made me … would not be completely me if I wasn’t other of me…so with that …No guilt..
It took a long time. Purged many, many times over the years but finally realized this is who I am. Guilt no longer is my companion, thank god! These days I find dressing as the woman I so wish I was born a wonderful gift to myself. If only I could go back in time and let the little Robyn I was know that it was ok.
Ive always felt a bit of guilt, but i notice that the older i get the more i feel i dserve to be me!
I got to a point where I didn’t care what people thought, but I all so hit a point where I could not stand to change back to my male role and clothes.
It has turned my life upside down and not in a good way.
Now on the path to councelling, and help for my bypollar issues, with expectations of figuring out just who I am.
Yes, I have felt guilty when I cross dress and want to be feminine. I told my first wife after having cross dressed for the 11 years of our marriage. I felt selfish or felt it was a selfish act on my part. She did not really accept it as good or positive . I had been going to counseling when I told her. She and I then went to counseling together but it never seemed to help with her accepting my feminine feelings. I stopped for 9 months, but then started again. We divorced about 12 years later but not because of my cross dressing. I have been cross dressing over the last 18 years since then and enjoy it but still have not been public about it. I would like to dress in public but because of my work, I cannot do it. After I retire, I hope to dress as a woman full- time
I have some discomfort.. I get some negative feedback sometimes; but it is getting better.. Most people are accepting
I love to put my hair in curlers and do my eyes mascara and eyeshadow
I’m Transgender born a male but all female in side I’m happy, and proud to be a girl. I live full time as a girl, and it’s wonderful the world as become a buetifull place. I do feel a little robbed of the childhood I should of had