Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Heck yeah! Guilty!!! As Charged!!! Okay, I was slow to embrace my transgender me.
Truth? Who would rationally choose such a life? Really? I have always wanted a masculine brain to match my masculine body. I’m 53! Reality calling!! It hasn’t happened in 53 years! It won’t happen in the next 53 either!! I like my female brain. I like how it works. Being transgender is difficult at best and those that cross that threshold are brave people who aren’t afraid of the future. It isn’t a fad or a phase. Transgender men open themselves up to humiliation from friends and family. Who chooses that? I’m moving forward. I have been unashamed of who I am for years.
I have adopted the attitude, “It’s ME!! Get used to it!!” I no longer try to fit into someone else’s mold.
Have a great day being who you are!
i realized i was destined to crossdress for the last 5 years my wife an i recently got devorced over the fact that i want to enjoy my fem side .since then she has had a change of heart an wants to get back together an work on trying to enjoy my fem side with me .
No… Outside of work I almost exclusively present as my female self.
I got to a point that I don’t care what anyone thinks, I’m a woman and and I will dress like one.
Hi Lucille
Excellent blog , thanks to you advises and products that you sell, like the “magic makeup course” i feel more confident ,and i embrace my femininity and i decided to go ahead with my transition, after many years of struggling with myself ,and once again thank for recommend me to” Karen of femmefever “in the area of new york,she is very professional and caring, she treat me very nice, and by the way Lucille we have a gala March 9 of the 16 in the area of long Island of new York city, and a lot of girls from around the country are coming to this gala, and invite to all the girls who want to come to this gala ,we going to have a lot of fun.
Lucille thanks for everything you do for the transfender community, you are an angel and God bless you .
In this pictures i am with karen and some of the beautiful girls i meet in one of Karen activities.
Love Joanna xoxo ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡
The only thing I feel guilty about is allowing society to force me to live as a male for most of my life. Several years ago I said to hell with what they want. It’s time to allow myself to be myself. I came out to my wife and doctor. And since, my family and friends. The doctor checked with some specialists and put me on HRT. I love the new me, the person I was meant to be. I love having doors opened for me. I love going to get my hair done and experimenting styles. I love going to the spa. I love having manicures and pedicures. I love going shopping and having so many more options in clothing instead of drab and predictable. I feel more empowered than ever in my life. The ladies who does my massages and some other things for me do know who I am and embrace. To all that don’t know me, I do pass since I am an older lady. Guilty of being myself, never.
Jamie….I feel exactly as you. I am 66 and only started transitioning 3 years ago and fulltime 24/7/365 for 1 1/2 years and I couldn’t be happier! I don’t reject anything I did in my professional life as an exploration geologist – and as a man – but now I AM a woman and will be forever more to myself and all my friends/family.
I said No because I no longer care about what other people have to say. I have been crossdressing since childhood and on the occasions when I was caught by my mother she’s try to guilt me into stopping (I didn’t), but at that time I didn’t want to be labeled as queer, gay or whatever. Since then I resolved my identity crisis and accepted crossdressing as a part of my personality and stopped worrying about what other people think. While I dress up more in private, I wear pants and polo or tee shirts to work with lingerie underneath because I feel good wearing it. If someone comments on it, I tell them I’m a crossdresser and leave it at that.
I’m a crossdresser, I’m transgender, and I’m gay, and, hell no!!!!!!! I’m not ashamed of it. Being a tranny does not embarrass me in the slightest. As a matter of fact, I routinely check my closet, to see which clothes I either don’t want, or don’t fit anymore,, and I have only ONE male outfit in there, the rest of my closeted outfits, are FEMININE. And I now have EIGHT, PINK, shirts, four skirts, two pants, and ONE blouse.
I’m so proud of my collection, ever since I was five, and put on my first party dress, I knew that the male that I was born as was dead, and that this whole new, wonderful life as a girl, was
just waiting to blossom. And now, thirty-eight years later, This new life is continuing to blossom.
You asked me if I was embarrassed by crossdressing, Honey,
I’ve been this way for a very, very, long time, and I am not EVER going give this up. I’m not quitting because everytime I travel, dressed this way, I’m spreading the word that transgenderism is real, and that this lifestyle is a reality, so society had better learn to deal with it.
The whole Bruce-Caitlyn Jenner is a reality/non-reality joke. One cannot take this creature seriously because this glory-hound
hasn’t been heard from since last April, ( No, I’m sorry, there was that fifteen seconds of fame on the ESPY awards, in which she won a ” COURAGE award ” , FOR DOING NOTHING. the ten seconds of shame, when she posed on the cover of VANITY FAIR magazine, and of course, the five seconds of shame, when HE/SHe KILLED those two women on the L.A. Freeway that no one remembers, except those who watched the news ) . And how do we, as a nation, that Bruce represented, in the OLYMPICS, reward a MURDERER, why, we give this figment of Mr. Jenner’s imagination, HER own television show. I was so pissed off when my mother tried to compare me to this mythological creature, because I was trans a long time before this creature was even a fucking THOUGHT in Mr. Jenner’s mind.
I am so repulsed at the notion, that this creature, who looks nothing like a woman, is supposed to REPRESENT transgenderism. This deadbeat/ beachcomber did not tell the truth to everyone during ” THE INTERVIEW” with Diane Sawyer.
HE did not tell everyone how many millions he was getting paid for doing this. And HE did not tell everyone how much debt HE is in for, as a result of all that PLASTIC surgery HE has had just to TRY to look like a woman. Oh yeah, and then, of course, there is that little matter of MURDER. So, when I say that Bruce/Caitlyn
is a goddamn liar, I speak the truth. Do Not Believe this liar,
Do Not Idolize this liar because, like the bible says ” thou shalt not bear false witness for there is only one lord “.
I hold my head up high, when I say that I am transgender and SO DAMN PROUD OF IT. It takes guts, and confidence, to go OUTSIDE and face your fear of the unknown. But once people do this, they shatter their ” FEAR ” glass ceiling.
Here is a real confidence builder: President Hillary Clinton
Jayme Lynn
Since I’ve come to realize that I’ve been predestined to be a cross dresser, I’ve had these thoughts an practiced dressing since age 6. I’m no longer ashamed but having to hide is very illustrating. Today I enjoy every minute of my dressing time, an sometimes there is a bit of disappointment when I can’t enjoy my alter ego.