Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I feel so guilty. I’m keeping a big secret from my wife. And I so so want to hang out with another CD like me. The idea of hugging a girl like me and admiring each other is compelling. And I love, just love, the idea of helping a girlfriend dress and she doing the same for me. Yikes! What’s a girl to do?
Hi Bobbie
I have a very good GG friend named Bobbie of many years. Although I have never come out to her, I think she would accept me.
As for family, I am married, she knows of me, she does not approve of the way I am. She married a “man”. Most of the rest of the family would disown me. There is several GG’s who know only me (not him). One of those ladies comes out from behind the counter and hugs me every time I see her. Feels like heaven every time, just knowing someone likes me for who I am. Yes I would love having a CD/TG gurlfriend to talk to an do all the gurly stuff together. And for the same reason as you I feel guilty.
Much love ❤
Tina D. H.
I sometimes feel guilty because it seems to make others feel uncomfortable—I know—It’s their problem—but-I’m used to making others happy(not so much myself-
Jane–London ontario
I used to wonder if he raised a little boy from birth as a little girl what would be the effect, as a baby develops, the brain develops sometimes differently, the body develops either male or female in a few cases both male and female, hermaphrodite, The Brain develops either male or female never both. So if The brain develops male and the body develops female or the brain develops female and body develops male you have transgender, no matter how much you try to fight it you won’t winn if your brain is female and your body is male no matter how much you try to fight it you won’t Winn if your brain is female and your body is male it is natural to feel the way you do so don’t feel guilty!
I do feel guilty because of the expense I have a vast wardrobe of women’s clothes,I probably have the same amount of female clothes to men’s,I certainly have more shoes,if I had my time again I would definitely opt to become female permanent, as it is I have a wonderful wife who knows of my cross dressing ,but doesn’t know the extent of what I get up to when she’s not around ,I also have two beautiful daughters who don’t have a clue about my cross dressing ,which is a shame because I don’t like living a lie to them ,but if I told them I don’t know how they would take it.
So just for now I will carry on the way I am ,which is wearing panties for work ,always having painted toe nails ,have the occasional manicure at the local salon,when my kids leave home maybe I will dress more ,I may even dress 24 7 ,as I gradually introduce more female clothes to my male attire like female jeans and tops .
I don’t feel guilty about being a crossdresser. My wife not only supports it but encourages and assists. I’m very lucky. I do feel embarrassed at times. People I work with have teased me about my pierced ears, trimmed eyebrows, and other things. I brush it off but wish I could just be who I want to be
I used to feel guilty about my crossdressing. After a few years and I also think finding many other like-minded people in the Fetish Scene, I accepted this about myself. Tammy was not going away and I could not suppress these feelings and desires.
It’s acceptance of myself. I was never very masculine but not really fem. I was somewhere in between…(David Bowie fan here! lol) Now I just love to be myself.
i’m married and I have to sneek around,she hates it.
I used to feel guilty about my crossdressing. After a few years and I also think finding many other like-minded people in the Fetish Scene, I accepted this about myself. Tammy was not going away and I could not suppress these feelings and desires.
It’s acceptance of myself. I was never very masculine but not really fem. I was somewhere in between…(David Bowie fan here! lol) Now I just love to myself.