Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Until I was almost 40 I had a great deal of guilt. I was married and had 3 wonderful children. My (then) wife had known for almost 20 years where I needed to go. I finally went my own way, I lost my family. I began to really live again. That was over 20 years ago, I struggled for a long time to be myself and be alone. 15 years ago I married again, I gained a new family (they call me mom2) and have helped me be comfortable as myself and with myself.
I’m only 17 right now and have yet to start transitioning but I don’t feel guilty about wanting to be who I truly am inside I never really have felt guilty about it I even broke up with one of my ex’s well not at the time cause it felt wrong of me to go out with her in my current body it felt like I was lying but now I have my friends and some of my family supporting me and I feel real happy and I would like to give a big thanks to Lucille for this program cause it has been a big help on my confidence thanks.
After 60 years of suppressing the feelings, Feb. 19th Michelle was born. I have a few places that Michael has to be dominate (church, work and with brothers and sisters) but other than that, I have already topld my dr’s office to expect Michelle to be going to my appts., I even had one lady from church that was supportive enough that I told her about Michelle, then a couple of days later, She and I we to lunch and a movie together and had a blast. We plan to get together at least once a month. I have no guilt going out in public as a woman. And I have even been told by some of the friends that I look and pass totally as a woman. Biggest compliment I can get. I also have been told that Michelle is the happiest that anyone has seen me in a long while.
I have nothing to be guilty about. I’m proud to be transgender. However, in these days of bigotry and hatred towards being transgender, especially in places like GA and NC, it isn’t always easy. Thank God I’m in OH where things are a lot more tolerant.
At times I feel a little guilt usually after a round of questions by my wife who somehow still doesn’t get that I don’t do anything to deliberately hurt her or take anything away from her. but I still occasionally get the line you should have told me years ago this is how you wanted to be and my response is that I did let her know about my wanting to cross dress but only in recent years did I realize that I would like to be a woman
full time. I have let her know that I do understand she has to deal with a conflicting circumstance since she is not physically attracted to women but I am not attracted to men so I still feel the same way for her so maybe it’s not so much guilt I feel as it is conflicted? One thing I do know is how wonderful I feel when I can be my true female self.
Guilt, lack of self-acceptance, and perhaps the loneliness caused by never quite fitting in all have roles to play in my life. I am one of the lucky ones because my wife and family are generally accepting of me. Still, I am keenly aware of all the things I can’t ever expect to participate in. Whether I’m being excused by my wife to go hang out with the other husbands at a mixer for her women’s group or being invited to Tea with my granddaughter, there is so much I’ll never get to do or be a part of.
Once, when I tried to join a certain women’s group as a MTF transgender, I was told it was for women only and that I could come back after I had a sex change. Wow. There’s a reason half of us try to kill ourselves.
So for me, it isn’t the guilt so much as the isolation. I honestly don’t feel like I fit in anywhere and I get awful lonesome–even in crowded rooms.
All for a need to feel pretty and feel accepted into a group which apparently wants nothing to do with me. I did not ask to be this way. Nor am I ashamed of it. Where do I belong?
Even though I have begun transitioning , I still feel guilty and ashamed for lots of reasons . Firstly , over the years I have built up a strong defense system to hide my her , built a persona of the macho man , being a heck of a Marine , wrestler , martial artist , etc. . I lack the supportive social circle to flourish as a beautiful woman and still find myself hiding out in my apartment . I don’t feel shame in me as a transsexual woman , but in the fact that I won’t find a whole lot of acceptance from society in general . I KNOW this is who I am and have been all my life , so I move forward in hopes I will blossom into a pretty flower . It’s so damn hard when you are doing it alone , literally . Best of wishes to all my fellow sisters . Tonya
hi Lucille
as an transgender I have no guilt or shame about my transformation
into womanhood and as an woman in training I am very proud of
improving myself everyday by getting more woman’s clothing
and wig accessories to complete me en femme look and be proud
to be one of your girls.
Francine joanna smales
smales tv uk-host
No guilt, just wish I had done it sooner, missed out on a lot of fun
and a more vivacious and emotionally full life.
Today, because of my location, job,profession/other, I have to keep it under wraps for much of the time; do not get opportunity to mix/matchwith other TG’S, Crossdressers, other in the alternative community.