Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I don’t think guilty is the proper verbiage. Embarrassed may be a more closely related word. In a male prevalent world regardless of our thoughts people will make fun of males shaving their entire bodies, dressing in female lingerie, wearing breasts to look more like we feel. For decades now I wish I’d had grown up with gynomastia. It would have been less noticeable. The funny part is we aren’t accepted by our own any more then acceptance of the world.
Of course, no one in my life knows about my cross-dressing, except my wife who hates it. She thinks it makes her less of a woman and if she loved me more I wouldn’t want to dress up. I tried to tell her that’s not how it works to no avail.
I also think she is ashamed of me.
I feel nothing but shame about being transgender. I hate it, I fucking hate it so much. The worst thing a person can possibly be in this life is a giant man prancing around in a dress, acting a fool. I feel like a clown, like a sideshow freak. I never feel good about it, never have. I am depressed because of it, I am saturated in shame because of it, and the only way I can even bring myself to do it is if I am alone in my house with the windows drawn and I am high as a kite. Getting wasted is the only way I can deal with this, so I am fucked up all day every day. I have to be or I would be suicidal.
Who the fuck wants to be a tranny? Nobody!
Who wants to be something that authors the stares and ridicule of strangers, the loss of all of your friends, family, spouse and employment. I am not proud to be something the entirety of the rest of the world looks at in disgust. I hate being transgender and nothing can change that.
Please save all of your self love memes and bullshit. I have heard it all before. You can shove your positive affirmations and Brene Brown can go fuck her wholehearted self. All of that shit is great for everybody that isn’t a giant a man in a dress. There is no life for someone like me. There is only hiding, secrecy, and piles of shame.
Rachael – Maybe you can’t be a passable ‘tranny’, but I have seen a few drag queens that are quite tall and are accepted by those around them. Some lead two lives. The ones that work with the guy, don’t know about the girl. I know one personally that is over 6 feet in bare feet that is gorgeous. Hell, some drag queens don’t even TRY to look like gals and STILL are accepted AND get PAID for it! Think about it. Its one way to be in touch with the fem side and still be okay. You can be who you want to be and have fun.
Guilt I believe is a normal emotion to feel for as long as one holds the belief that you are your body, and deviating from it causes guilt.
It’s a form of the trying to be what your not message. The good news is we are not our body, but the person inside our body, and THAT is female. So, as I see it I’m being true to who I am, by representing to the world the true spirit of who I am, in terms of gender identity. Unfortunately, being a transsexual means I’ve missed out on growing up pdych- socialized as a girl to a woman, but that can be helped alot via fulltime living as a woman. hormones and even hypno- therapy.
God desires honesty in our inward most being, and transgenders just want to do just that…. be and live honestly from our inner most being. No guilt there.
As a person thinks within, so they are.
Where is hypnotic therapy found ?
Of course I did, for many years. But in my late 30’s I thought it through, and realized that as long as I wasn’t taking much time or spending much money crossdressing, that I shouldn’t feel guilty. Just saying or thinking that wasn’t enough. But what I did was make an extra effort to take care of my priorities, wife, kids, job, and use the time and resources that were left for my crossdressing.
Soon, I came to feel happy to celebrate this part of me, and treat it like many would treat their own hobbies and recreation. This side bonus, I was a little bit better husband, father, and employee.
Not guilty, but less opportunity, now that the Group I used to belong to no longer meets.
Looking for poll to give my vote – is it finished? Can’t see a link on here. Please inform.
I come from a country under ultracatholic dictatorship for the last 500 years. And to make things worse , my Catholic education made me feel guilty about all those things that were not normal. So of course I felt guilty.
Nevertheless , as time has gone by , I realized I couldn’t be happy if I made others happy while I wasn’t completely. So I started being happy myself in the first place and assuming not everyone will like me the way I am or the way I look. Now I cherish the friendship of those who stay with me, I don’t need anyone’s approval to rule my life as it keeps a smile on my face now more often.
Not afraid anymore.