Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I’ve always been a very independent-minded, do-my-own-thing, person. So when I started crossdressing, I didn’t feel guilty or that there was something wrong with me.
I have felt as a woman for a long time and feel like a woman. I am hopeful that I will be able to get my lower part fixed someday soon
From my perspective as an older cross dresser I have made my gender
blur less of a burden by just accepting it as a form of recreation. For me
it’s sort of a sport or hobbie. I have actually witnessed a change in the more “so called” straight community in recent years. Straight guys are increasingly meeting with and accepting trans people for who they are.
Gay people on the other hand sometimes seem more compartmentalized and usually just tolerate trans people as a necessary evil in the alternative lifestyle community. When in Palm Springs Calif. recently I noticed how many in the gay community often sneer and giggle about transgender people. I believe we do congregate together mainly because the one thing we have in common is that we are all to some degree outcasts from society. I believe the key to survival being trans is to not over-analyze yourself and try to lighten up.
Hi Marci! I like your outlook on things and I agree! I was also wondering…I live in SoCal and am interested in safe places to go en femme. Is there a certain part of Palm Springs where cross dressers can go and feel comfortable?
Kathy
Thanks to early childhood training against anything to do with physical pleasure I still do feel guilty, even if intellectually I know I don’t need to. But I manage to get over it!
The reason I am not guilty about being transgender since I was young i knew I was different i thought it was a phase kept deny to myself when I dress up the feeling inside me was great more happier and now hope to my operation this year and I can’t wait xxx
I feel no guilt when I cross-dress, and I can go out trough unknown people, but, I do feel afraid of being caught for the people I know.
I believe it must be because straight people don’t think it is normal and some of us don’t want to destroy a social structure as we know it around us as a male being.
Buffy.
Well the real answer is yes and no. Yes, that I can’t open up and live my life dressed as much as I would like to. I’m bit too tall 6′ and a bit too heavy 190 and losing, and self conscious about my looks. That being said I love to dress, I spent days dressed at home, and occasionally go out and drive around the neighborhood of pick up the mail late at night, of do the laundry en femme in the garage. I did recently come out to my daughter, and my female cousin recently, not what I expected, and I also came out to my son, in a fit of bad judgement, but what is done is done. At this point in life, I’m 66, and I’m tired of hiding and tired of being ashamed or feeling guilty. Now that the door is opened, I may go through it.
Sweetie…You look so “Pretty and Sexy”…I love your Nylons and Legs…”Very Girlish” !!!
I have absolutely no guilt about dressing En Femme or becoming as much of a woman as possible. I do how however have extreme regret and issues from not being born into the female body I should have been. All I ever wanted from life is to have been able to live my life as the lesbian woman I am inside.