Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I never felt guilty….but the people around me try to make me feel, as I should feel that way.
You are beautiful Jessica! I’m glad you don’t feel guilty about looking like that!
Kathy
I’ve struggled with it my whole life and tried to
deny it until now. When able to move to a safer apt I’m definitely becoming a full time crossdresser. But I live in a bad neighborhood and I’m 100% sure my neighbors would take it as a sign of weakness and take advantage of me or even worse. And it would be a shame if I was finally find myself just for me to loose my life or get raped. But I can’t wait to be able to be the sexy woman I was born. I LOVE dressing up at home in my skirt painting my toes I LOVE my feet there so cute and pretty. I suppose I have a bit of a foot fetish. I’ve just recently started doing my makeup and found out that I’m pretty good at it. I’m gonna be a pretty girl I know that much. I really want to get my naval piercing I tried to do it myself but it was starting to get infected so I had to remove it. So for now and I know one day I’ll and I’ll have to make the best of it. I mean it’s what I’ve been forced this long. Right?
For many years growing up I felt guilt and shame for having these desires. The internet help me understand more and get in touch with other people that felt the same way. Then I got in touch with events, support groups and places that were friendly. Now I am comfortable in my own skin and enjoy the outside world when ever I can. My only issue is the fear of dealing with hateful people if I need to use the ladies room. All I want to do is pee !
OMG Tina! You look so beautiful! If I looked like you, I would go out all the time! 🙂
Hugs,
Marcy
Beautiful dress on a beautiful lady!
I will proud to be T.G. About 15 years before my breasts start growing and initially tickling and other sensation caused me some problem and I wanted to hide it from others but after some time I really loved my beautiful breasts with perky nipples. I am married and my wife really love my breasts. Initially she use to select and do the fitting of bras for me . As my breasts developed over the years and now I use 42″D cup bra. I wear T shirts and my breasts and clearly visible to everybody of its size and round shape. I use to wear tight shirts also and bra some times clearly visible and I am not ashmed of it. My wife fully support me. As size of my breasts and so big I need to wear bra always in private and public. People around me are well known about my breasts and even some ladies use to envy my beautiful breasts.
“Thomas”…I too, have “Big Breasts”…I wear a 46C/46D Cup bra everyday…”I LOVE TO WEAR MY BRAS and MATCHING PANTIES” !!!
Hi Lucille,
Yes as I voted above, I’m not a shame or guilt in dressing and behaving as a woman. Why because I knew that I’m a woman since when I was 13. I’m used to plaits my hair, nail fixing and dressing as a girl, so femininity is some thing that everybody knows about me. My beloved aunty take good care of me since at 13, and I love myself that way.
I’m now got ride of my very beautiful bouncy breast 38 c. My only challenge now is fund to have my srs.
I feel guilt and shame about it. I have struggled with the desire to express myself as female for about 30 years now and have never had it looked at as a positive thing: just something to be ashamed of, fear, feel abnormal about and that I just embarras myself and those around me. I have no trust in self or others and I have told my therapist that I am tired, because everything about me feels wrong and unwanted, and there is so much self-doubt and self-hate, and belief I’m alone that I am ressigning myself to just carrying on with only a superficial life and just running out the clock.
I feel guilt due to having had a family I am 47 y/o and have 3 kids and 3 grandkids it is going to be hardest on my youngest child a 10 y/o son who worships me as his dad but I hope he Will in time be able to accept it and still have a healthy relationship with me. I wouldn’t trade my kids for the world but I also feel the same about the woman in me and I can no longer deny her either .luckily my two girls are good with this decision and my wife had assured me she is staying with me because she loves me either way so I am at least more fortunate than many in this respect .
But in retrospect I wish it would have been possible to have came out thirty years ago but it was a different time and at least for me not possible I probably would have been badly beaten or even killed in the redneck area I grew up in.
The only guilt I have is that when I told my wife that I was transgender, she chose not to stay my spouse, she told me that she wasn’t a lesbian and therefore couldn’t be with me, I told her that I understood. But when you feel strongly that you should have been born a woman there is nothing you can do to change the fact.