Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I feel guilty for putting my wife and children in a tough spot. They all know I am a crossdresser, and they have to accept me in spite of how they feel about it, because they love me.
Unfortunately, Love and Acceptance are not the same thing.
That’s a fine line it really depends on who I’m with or what I am doing I only wish I was born female so I wouldn’t have to go threw this when I no who I really am
Do I feel guilty? Yes. Ashamed? More than I should be. Growing up when I did in the south is was indeed a rare thing for a boy to want to be a girl. I was that rare thing. The joy and pleasure I discovered as the female in me revealed herself were beyond incredible, but I was unwilling to let it be known to my wife and children. For many many years it festered until my wife began putting together the clues and realized she couldn’t remain married to me. From a financial standpoint, outing myself as a woman, would have been devastating in those days, more so as one that also loved being with men.
These days the woman controls and I have become brave about others knowing about me. Living alone I am able to confront and deal with many of the things that held me back 40 years ago. Times have changed, unfortunately the guilt remains.
No, I don’t feel guilty.
I feel sad/angry about not having access to the body I want.
About being born in the wrong time
And….. being more than a bit jealous of the new girls coming up. I’m happy that my struggles have helped to make your life better…. I just wish there was a “pay off” for me. Selfish? Probably. Honest? He’ll yeah
Yes I feel guilty but only for not discussing this with my wife before getting committed with her which she do not accept now & how to discuss with kids.
No I do not feel guilty as when I am dressed in I feel alive & dressing has nothing to do with sexual desires.
I know what you mean. I work hard all day and when I get home and put on my bra and panty I feel right and complete
Lucille
You defined the reality of transvestite in general
We live in a world with very defined roles of gender. these are even more rigid roles for men.
If a man looks or acts femininely, they label it as strange, weak, or gay.
Then there is only the Closet and enjoy it in privacy.
that is not only the label, unless there is violence and homophobia that is serious
Hi Girls.
Some guilt, sometimes yes, but not as bad as it used to be. At one time I tried to be a “real man” like society expected of me. It was more than difficult to say the least, lying to myself constantly.
What is worse, lying to one self or to others ?
Big B; sing in it’s lyrics – ” I am what I am, and thats all that I am….” shouldn’t we ne all that we are and thats all ? Easier said than done.
I too am one of those girls who wish life wasn’t as complicated and complex.
I am much more at peace with myself now than before but maybe also because I am older.
All I ever wanted to be since I can remember, is to be a real woman.
I personally see Women as the stronger sex.
Kisses,
Courtneigh.