Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I was shamed into feeling massive guilt at a young age, so much so that I stopped dressing for years. I recently started again and I feel wonderful. The person who shamed me is long gone from my life and my wife loves, accepts, and helps me. She buys me makeup, jewelry, and anything else that catches her eye while she’s shopping. She is a huge part of why I don’t feel guilty any more. She says I’m the best husband and girlfriend she’s ever had 🙂
Friends feeling guilty is a sign that you either have not found your true self or you are just having a fetish.
Dressing up completes me and having family support, acceptance and approval will finish my real self.
I am not fully done with my transitional objective, though I look forward everyday to feminize myself through the day. I am older and recently began going to bed dress up with woman’s sleep info clothes. I live with a woman, my partner she has not accepted my transition but we are slowly working on it. I am a female, this is how I feel, born with male parts. My upbringing was very rough and many tears were shed. I love every feminine aspect in a woman.
I feel free and comfortable when I am dressed in the outside because it matches my inside. So feel free to be who you really are. If you have doubts, help yourself and find professional help. Don’t hesitate help yourself.
Guilt about my crossdressing is always with me. Although this is the case I have no guilt about the time I spend as Diane – it’s more that my guilt is about the way it all began. Complex as no doubt you know but I feel able to live with the guilt as my Diane time has given me so much more. Happy to reply to any queries but too much to go into on this page – X.
I have been crossdressing for 40 years and am at the point in my life that I want to be a “normal” person before I die. I am all alone in this world and when my time comes I do not want strangers coming in to clean out my home and judging my life based on what’s in my closet.
You’re doing this 40 years. Why stop now? If you do, you’re suppressing that what you are. When you’re dead I don’t think you’ll be worried about what people say about you
At first used to feel very guilty after getting dressed up and then slowly as I accepted who I am I don’t feel guilty at all.
So I say to all that do while it is hard to change your feelings, accept yourself and how and who you are and wether you are closeted or out enjoy your feminine side….. I do
Only guilty pleasure
I definitely do not feel guilty about who I am. One should feel no more ashamed of their gender affiliation than having blue or hazel eyes-it is what you’re born with. You didn’t have an input in the formulation of your characteristics so you must play the cards you were dealt with. No one has an inborn predisposition to be criminal-that’s a result of societal conditioning and environment. Society does impose on us their own biased restrictions regarding gender presentation without regard to how nature has formed us. Years ago I remembering hearing a minister make the comment that what people are not up on, they’re down on. Truer words were never spoken. Our gender presentation does not give us license to live outside the norms of acceptable behavior i.e. treat others as we wish to be treated, use of common courtesy, respect for another’s space etc. Live and let live is a good rule to bear in mind. Whenever I encounter someone who is unfamiliar with us cross-dressers, I endeavor to offer factual insight as to who we really are and that we are not a threat to them or the society we all live in. Most effective shifts in public thinking will result by changing one mind at a time.
Sincerely, Vikki
Be brave
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Hi everybody. I as ı said many times ı am not feeling guilty to be cd or ts .I love to be aways,to feel as a pure lady,to feel the sense of wearing stockings, bras to feel him cover my titz and nipps. Well we are all beauty ladies. Hugs to everybody .Would love to hear from you too.PLease do not hesitate to fe-mail.me. Hot kisses Sarah