Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I have been dressing in secret since childhood. I tried to let an ex in on it, but she made me feel practically subhuman for having those desires.
Now I’m remarried to a woman who loves me for me and is completely OK (and even a little turned on by) me dressing! It is such an exciting time for me!!
I used to feel very guilty about crossdressing, and felt that I was basically a freak for wanting to. For many years. I started very lightly when I was 12 and found a pair of discarded pantyhose on the street. I know it was disgusting to actually pick those up and taking them home with me and putting them on. But… My mind wanted to. I wanted to dress femininely and it was my first chance. From them on and quite a lot of years from that I secretly got a hold of clothing. All of it found in one way or another. And I felt very guilty about wanting to dress in something that wasn’t for me, even if it was defining my sexuality.
But I met my partner about a year ago and she’s been making me feel good about being who I am. It’s not something I have a desire to go public with, but… I’ve been embracing the feminine sides of me and have started drawing again and taking care of my nails and shaving places where I don’t like having hair. (In the future hopefully my whole legs.)
And I don’t feel guilty about any of these. She made me realise that it’s okay and I’m currently looking at ordering my first own set of female clothes. I’m really happy.
When I was 12 I was scared of telling my friends and family about who I was so I basically did the same as you. Apart from picking clothes up off the street. Now I live a happy life with a partner who accepts me for who I am
No, I don’t feel guilty or ashamed when I get dressed love the feel of being as attractive as I can, I love the attention I get and all the wonderful comments I receive from people for me it is a part of me
I have a crossdresser since my childhood. About 45 years. I used to feel guilty, now I enjoy every minute of it. Life is short…be yourself. The only place I have to conform to gender roles is work. You gotta make a living.
I wish I could be more open there as well..but in reality…some folks will never change. I wish all of you well….enjoy life and love.
ENJOY
I have been dressing up for about 30 years . Iam a closet dresser I have only been going out now for a few times in a dressi am starting to feel better about it now.
I am so afraid. I cannot come out to my family. I have a son and I am married. My wife has made it clear that she does not want anything to do with me if I exhibit any type of feminine trait. She will take my son away so I will loose the two most important people in my life. O keep coming out to other people. They all accept me as a woman. I feel really validated. My wife can accept others as such but not her husband. When we met I identified feminine and even wore some feminine clothing. We met in ballet class. I also wore feminine underwear. But I never really said anything about it. We are from two very different cultures. If I had come out to my parents and siblings when I was a child everything would be different. Now as a middle aged person the only thing I can say is that if you are a child act and dress how you feel. If your a bit and you want to play dress up and wear dresses Do it! If you feel like a different gender you can be that girl or boy. Those that count will still love you.
I’m sorry. I am replying to my own comment, but I just wanted to that I have even another layer of shame about myself. I identify female but I am not attracted to men. I don’t like male sexuality. I don’t like myself as a man. I don’t relate well to men. For the last few years I haven’t had any sexual feelings. As a man I have had a lot of trouble with intimacy my whole life. We haven’t had any sexual contact in years but my wife has never been happy with the way I kissed or anything else. She had to tell me how I should be doing everything. I’m very soft and intimacy I have always really felt passionate giving soft kisses and caresses and slow and most of my relationships have demanded the opposite. Iya very upsetting that people tell me I am gay because I feel female. I don’t want to be with a man. All I really need is the strength to be how I am and maybe express my love to someone who cares and can accept me. So I feel so so bad if ai could just transition and then find a good man it would be easier but I don’t think it would work.
I’ve never been less than proud I’m transgender…Coming out is never as bad as one might think.. It’s my opinion, most use the term guilty for “shame.” This feeds the closet.(our enemy!
Girls we should all feel fortunate to live in this day & age where we can correct what went wrong! As a Christian I’ve struggled with this. But now realize that God gave us each a burden which we must overcome? All of us! We don’t share the same burdens but we (people) share this common trait!!! Guilt must just like hate not overcome us! I lived in guilt for many years and it didn’t add one thing positve for me. I have lived with this since very young… And now thankfully in therapy and on a hrt regimen!!! For the first time I feel whole! If your anything like me? I wish the same for you!!!