If you’re like many of my transgender or crossdressing readers, you might not be able to present yourself as a woman each day.
That doesn’t mean you have to lose your female side when it’s time to put on the pants!
In this post, I share 5 ways to stay in touch with your femininity – even in male mode.
1. Wear Women’s Underwear
Let’s start with the most obvious tip, shall we? Wearing women’s underwear underneath your male clothing is the easiest way to connect with your feminine self on a daily basis.
Aside from that, women’s panties tend to be more comfortable than men’s boxers or briefs. Plus, they come in loads of cute and sexy styles to add some secret pizazz to your outfit.
2. Try Stealth Crossdressing
Wearing lingerie under your clothes is a classic, but why stop there? Sneaking a piece of women’s clothing into your daily outfit is a great way to feel girly.
A lot of women’s clothing can pass for unisex, so try wearing women’s:
- Basic tees
- Button-down shirts
- Jeans and pants
Don’t forget about accessories! You could also play with wearing women’s boots or using a tote bag as a laptop bag or briefcase.
3. Apply Incognito Makeup
There are lots of ways to incorporate makeup into your daily look, even when presenting as a male. Here are 4 must-have makeup items:
- Concealer or foundation – Apply a thin layer to cover under eye circles or blemishes.
- Setting powder – Apply to shiny spots on your face, like the nose or forehead.
- Clear mascara – Use it to make your eyelashes look subtly longer and fuller.
- Uncolored lipstick – Instead of boring Chapstick, care for your lips with a clear lipstick.
4. Use the Power of Scent
Scents have a powerful effect on your brain chemistry and mood, so this is a great way to connect with your feminine side.
Wear women’s perfume instead of cologne. Musky fragrances are the most unisex, so you can wear them without anybody knowing your secret. (Check out my article on perfume to learn more about choosing the right scent.)
Another option is to burn a scented candle with a feminine fragrance in your home or office.
5. Keep Reminders of Your Female Self
Another tip is to surround yourself with reminders of the woman within.
One way to do this is through photos. Keep photos of your femme self on your phone, in your wallet, or even framed and hung up so you can see them often.
You could also carry around items personalized with your feminine name, such as a necklace, keychain, or coffee mug.
6. Try Feminizing Hypnosis
Hypnosis is a powerful way to increase confidence, reprogram habits and behaviors, and improve the way you express yourself as a woman.
Best of all, it’s the ultimate mental escape – allowing you to connect with you female self regardless of your current situation.
Try it for yourself by signing up for my free Unleash Your Inner Woman hypnosis mini-session here.
How do YOU stay connected?
In an ideal world, you’d be free to present yourself as a woman whenever and wherever you wanted. Until then, I hope this gives you ideas for expressing your female side anytime you want!
How do YOU stay connected to your feminine self? I’d love to know, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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The only male clothing I wear are dress shirts for work (I need to earn a living)and in some public places and I usually wear a camisole underneath. All my other clothing (jeans, t-shirts, socks, panties etc.) are female and no one has noticed for over 20 years. As I have had laser hair removal on my face, I don’t always wear make up at home as most of my female friends don’t either but dressing correctly in feminine clothes always makes me fee like “Me” the way I should feel.
Hi when it comes to presenting myself in femm .. I do it everyday of my life. I don’t have any ind of male cloths left in my wardrobe at all. I live as a woman from the time i wake up to the time i go to bed at night. I am a woman in life and in all things i do. Since i have had the full grs no one can tell at all …
I enjoy reading all the ladies comments on what they do to feel girly. I also enjoy the same.
Being shaved from neck to toe, always in panties, bra, etc… I worked outdoors at my job with all male coworkers, wearing a corset every day for a year. Always wear polish, and pluck my brow, wear a little eye liner, mascara, and a subtle lip stick. I also wear a make up foundation every day. I love the feeling the gentle pull of the suspenders when I walk, so I prefer a garter and stockings. I have grow my hair to shoulder length so far. I wear my women’s jeans tight
while staying tucked. On occasion I’ll be plugged. Of course I am always in panties when I go to the doctor.
my wife is into forced feminization, but i cant be dressed like a woman all the time so she has bought me pointy flat shoes, cowgirl boots, different kinds of trousers, bootcut, wide leg, flared, trouser suits with elegant jackets that dont have lapels on them, plain blouses and tops, long blazers, loafers,low heeled boots, sweaters, coats, and i have a haircut thats like the late jill dandos.after a few years i have grown to love how i look and dress and i wouldnt change it for the world.
You are very luckey
Your wife is a dream!! ^^
You’re lucky, gal.
I keep fully shaved, except my head, all the time. Freshly shaved legs feel soooo good!
i like to be some MISTRESS and MASTER sissy male maid all the time and be ttie up be you and rent me out as a slut and gag and blindfold to well you take me to a place you have some body is rent me from you and you can stay to see if they cna do the things you like for me as a sissy male maid all the time and told them to turn me into sex slave to.
I always wear feminine foundation garments. Panties, camisole or chemise, pantyhose. If I ever get in a car accident that requires hospital care I’m going to have a lot to explain. I am shaved in all the places that matter and have spent more cash on hair removal products than most women I know do. I also use a women’s deoderant but keep the perfumes to at home only. I also keep my toe nails painted. So my enfemme self lives with me 24/7. Not that my enfemme self hasn’t been with me 24/7 for my entire life, it’s just that these days she needs to be supported as much as I can support her. Getting caught will be a night mare. I say will, because sooner or later I’m gonna get caught. C’est la vie.
dear Dorianne, I have been dressing the same as you for several years now and I too dread being caught but will face it when it happens.the wonderful girlie feeling when i go out makes up for the apprehension. As I now have wonderfull 38b boobs i always wear a bra and get really excited in outside the home situations wondering if people are trying to work out “has he or has’nt he”
Keep up the image!!!! Love, Pennyxxx
PS I just love the pink toes
I almost forgot, so I will say it now I wear a Nightie & Pants every Night to Sleep in that helps me to keep feeling Feminine every day. Julie