If you’re like many of my transgender or crossdressing readers, you might not be able to present yourself as a woman each day.
That doesn’t mean you have to lose your female side when it’s time to put on the pants!
In this post, I share 5 ways to stay in touch with your femininity – even in male mode.
1. Wear Women’s Underwear
Let’s start with the most obvious tip, shall we? Wearing women’s underwear underneath your male clothing is the easiest way to connect with your feminine self on a daily basis.
Aside from that, women’s panties tend to be more comfortable than men’s boxers or briefs. Plus, they come in loads of cute and sexy styles to add some secret pizazz to your outfit.
2. Try Stealth Crossdressing
Wearing lingerie under your clothes is a classic, but why stop there? Sneaking a piece of women’s clothing into your daily outfit is a great way to feel girly.
A lot of women’s clothing can pass for unisex, so try wearing women’s:
- Basic tees
- Button-down shirts
- Jeans and pants
Don’t forget about accessories! You could also play with wearing women’s boots or using a tote bag as a laptop bag or briefcase.
3. Apply Incognito Makeup
There are lots of ways to incorporate makeup into your daily look, even when presenting as a male. Here are 4 must-have makeup items:
- Concealer or foundation – Apply a thin layer to cover under eye circles or blemishes.
- Setting powder – Apply to shiny spots on your face, like the nose or forehead.
- Clear mascara – Use it to make your eyelashes look subtly longer and fuller.
- Uncolored lipstick – Instead of boring Chapstick, care for your lips with a clear lipstick.
4. Use the Power of Scent
Scents have a powerful effect on your brain chemistry and mood, so this is a great way to connect with your feminine side.
Wear women’s perfume instead of cologne. Musky fragrances are the most unisex, so you can wear them without anybody knowing your secret. (Check out my article on perfume to learn more about choosing the right scent.)
Another option is to burn a scented candle with a feminine fragrance in your home or office.
5. Keep Reminders of Your Female Self
Another tip is to surround yourself with reminders of the woman within.
One way to do this is through photos. Keep photos of your femme self on your phone, in your wallet, or even framed and hung up so you can see them often.
You could also carry around items personalized with your feminine name, such as a necklace, keychain, or coffee mug.
6. Try Feminizing Hypnosis
Hypnosis is a powerful way to increase confidence, reprogram habits and behaviors, and improve the way you express yourself as a woman.
Best of all, it’s the ultimate mental escape – allowing you to connect with you female self regardless of your current situation.
Try it for yourself by signing up for my free Unleash Your Inner Woman hypnosis mini-session here.
How do YOU stay connected?
In an ideal world, you’d be free to present yourself as a woman whenever and wherever you wanted. Until then, I hope this gives you ideas for expressing your female side anytime you want!
How do YOU stay connected to your feminine self? I’d love to know, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Hi, Lucille. thanks for great suggestions. i wear lingerie daily, and also pantyhose every day, all of my jeans and shorts come from woman within. during the summer i wear shorts and some time a skort, i live in a small, redneckish town in rural arkansas. i have not had any negative comments about wearing pantyhose over shaved legs and under shorts, i am retired with strong male features, i i can do it, any guy can, just suckit up and go for it, the only negative feedback i have received was a couple of teanage girls laughed and pointed, i told them that i was glad that a brought some fun to their lives
Great article. It’s been fun viewing my photos and other media on my phone. It gives a different feel (almost naughty), compared to just looking at my computer, plus I put everything I normally have in online storage as a backup so I can access everything while I’m away which is fun as well.
I’m still closeted. To express my girly self (and stay sane), I wear panties daily and, anytime I wear long pants, I wear a garter belt and stockings underneath. I sometimes wear mascara in public and whenever I’m at home (I live alone), I put on my breastplate and female attire. I also sleep in feminine attire nightly. Sometimes, when I have an overwhelming desire to go out in public en femme (every few months or so), I either wear a ski jacket over my breastplate and take a walk or go to a quiet park in my city in the wee hours of the morning in my girly garb.
I love wearing lingerie all the clothes I wear is women’s pants shirts t-shirts shoes and the funny thing is nobody has said anything I enjoy wearing lingerie my sister says I look good in lingerie she taught me how to wear lingerie when she comes over and her friends come with her and model the beautiful lingerie for them
These are the feminine things I do in guy mode everyday: I wear perfume everyday, I keep my skin super soft by keeping it moisturized, I get some of my body hair waxed regularly, I get a pedicure every month, and get colored polish on my toes. I also wear tinted lip balm/sheer lipstick… Pinterest is a new thing I’ve discovered. How can you not feel girly looking at cute dresses, shoes, and hairstyles?
I do 1-5 daily, #6 every once in a while.
Hi, Lucille, Many of the tips you suggest, which I’ve been doing over 20 years, now, since regularly from 2000. I love wearing panties or thing or both. I tend to buy from charity shops, whereby women donate alot if their apparels, so, I browse at these charity shops and find something sexy feminine to purchase. Because, the clothing were previously worn by women. And sometimes I even buy underwear worn by women that are sold sometimes. I wear a pink bra or any other, women crop shirt during summer and wear women jeans. I’m more skinny jeans wearer, slim and regular also. I wear both men and women jeans. I have skinny feminine type of body, so, can pass off as a super feminine TV lady, when dressed. And finally, all I want is breasts implants, that’s it. I prefer to stay male, but, have female breaststroke, as I’m taking ladyboy transgender feminine pills from Thailand. I would expect gradually grow natural breasts in 6 months or longer, but, will continue taking them for more than a year, upto 2 years. I want to be more male feminine mode, both modes are good for me.