Stepping out publicly as a woman is a powerful way to validate your female self.
In fact, I recently published a poll asking “How often do you go out in public as a woman?”
I was happy to see that the majority of my readers (transgender women and crossdressers) go out at least occasionally.
No matter how often you do it, I’m sure you can remember your first time presenting as a woman or crossdressing in public.
Since this is such an important gender-affirming step, I’d love to hear about it!
When was it? Where did you go? And what was your experience?
Please share with us in the comments below!
And if you’ve never been en femme in public, I’m sure you’ll find lots of inspiration in these stories.
As always, thank you for reading and participating!
Love,
Lucille
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My 1st time was amazing! My wife to me out full en femme to a pub movie theater! I was nervous but she helped me push my boundaries. I was a little self conscious when I had to order as I had not worked much on my feminine voice, but the waitress either didn’t notice (unlikely) or didn’t care. It was such a surreal experience! I was excited to be out and yet somehow not afraid. It helped that the theater was dark. The movie was A Star is Born. It was a great movie but I was struggling to focus on it as I was lost in the feeling of my outfit. Leggings, a soft clingy top, corset, bra with my forms, and pantyhose with my little black flats. I kept slipping my foot out of my shoe and enjoying the feeling. My wife was so supportive and encouraging! I also remember hearing the song The Shallows in the movie and thinking…” I AM far from the shallows now”
I didn’t go out fully dressed like a woman at first, I started small, I started wearing leggings after work, then my co-workers noticed, then I started to wear female tops, as well, and since then, moved up to makeup. I’m yet to go fully dressed, I have yet to go for a bra fitting and buy a wig.
If only counting going out in public in 2022. I went to Publix or a woman’s boutique. Which ever location was it. Both were great. That shopping for woman’s clothes and trying them on while dressed as my female self was fabulous.
How about getting caught crossdressed? When i was a teen and home alone, I was fully dressed, wig, makeup, nails. I was watching TV and fell asleep, only to wake abruptly and find my older brother standing there staring at me. There was moments of silence and then he said, “What the Hell?” :)Yeah good times!
I started to go out when I was a teenager and went out as often as I could and finally decided I want to be a woman and started HRT and now am a full time woman – waiting on the opportunity to have the final Operation – the Operation.
This post is so big I’m sure I’ve already done it, so I’m probably repeating myself. The first two times are no doubt familiar to many, in the neighborhood after dark. Both times I cheated and wore a long coat, especially as it was rainy for the second. Each time was at least 1/2 mile, and mostly deserted. The first time someone was behind me as I entered the park. I was scared, not from fear of violence, but that he might laugh at me. Fortunately, I could duck into the women’s restroom until he passed. It felt good after, to have faced the frightening prospect. The second time, in a different neighborhood, a car full of melanated youths, not normally seen in those parts, cruised by. In passing, I was hailed with “Hey, bitch!” It’s hard to describe the joy I felt on hearing that! Confirmation! They will never know what a favor they did. It kept getting much easier after that.
pour la première fois c’était la nuit j’ai fait le tour du patée d’immeuble, habiller d’une jupe léopard d’un chemisier champagne des bas accrochée a une guépière et des escarpins noir en velours talon de7cms . sa été fantastique j’ai même été klaxonner avec un petit sac noir porter sur l’épaule, sa été mémorable un bon souvenir .
lysa
My first time was funny but well deserved I was up my girlfriend sleeping and a guy I met while married hit me up and said come to the park I got all dolled up booty shorts heeled boots make up wig and snuck out walking across the lot my girl came running out and said what the fuck I said sorry I like men we stayed friends and even double dated to a movie where we both went down on our dates
I think one of the worst things anyone can do is deceive a woman by pretending to be straight. You are eliminating and depriving the woman you so call “love” a chance at real love , real happiness. I would never forgive someone for stealing my chance at love because you are hiding. It’s deplorable