Do you aspire to be a beautiful MTF transgender woman or crossdresser? If so, you’re in the right place!
But first, what makes someone attractive? Is it just having a pretty face or the “perfect” body? Absolutely not.
Attractiveness goes beyond just the way you look. It’s also about how you carry yourself, how you engage with others, and the vibe you give off!
In this blog post, I’ll share 6 simple habits to help you boost your attractiveness when presenting as a woman. Let’s dive in!
Habit #1: Self-Care Matters
No amount of makeup, breast forms, or high heels can rival the allure that comes from a well-nourished body, regular exercise, and quality sleep.
Taking care of yourself not only enhances your looks but also signals self-respect, a highly attractive quality.
Habit #2: Show Some Skin, But Not Too Much
Beautiful women exude sensuality, so it’s natural to want to express your sexy side. Show off your best feminine assets – whether it’s a peek of skin here or a little leg there.
Just remember that balance is the key. Revealing too much looks desperate, rather than attractive.
Habit #3: Embrace Passion
Passionate women are attractive. If you’ve lost your lust for life, it’s time to break out of your rut.
Be somebody who tries new things and has interesting things to talk about. (Luckily, crossdressers and transgender women are some of the most interesting people in the world!)
The best way to get out of a rut? Do something scary every day. I recommend the book Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway for more on this topic.
Habit #4: Care For Your Hair
Hair has a huge impact on your appearance. Full, shiny hair projects youth, beauty, vitality, and femininity, so make this a priority when presenting yourself as a woman.
Whether it’s your own hair or a high-quality wig, gorgeous hair can take you from blah to beautiful.
Habit #5: Be Positive
Do you know anybody who is constantly complaining? It’s a huge turn off, isn’t it? There’s nothing appealing about drama and negativity.
People are naturally drawn towards positive, uplifting energy, so let your attitude do the attracting.
Habit #6: Exude Confidence
Attractive women share one universal trait: confidence. The good news is that you don’t have to wait until you feel confident to start exuding it.
Confident body language – standing tall, maintaining eye contact, and wearing a smile – will give you an allure that attracts others effortlessly.
What traits do you find attractive?
Becoming a beautiful MTF transgender woman or crossdresser goes beyond physical looks. Your presentation, attitude, and energy matter just as much.
Which traits do you consider essential for an attractive woman? Please share your thoughts in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
P.S. Looking for even more ways to enhance your feminine image? If so, you will love my FREE 3-part Male to Female Transformation Mini Course.
For me, fitness, confidence or positivity and some skin are main traits. I am a positive person with good manners, a smiling face and always maintain eye contact. I try keep myself fit. I cannot show my skin much but I do it occasionally by my low back and deep neck shirts. Also I love showing my body movements a lot when sitting, walking or standing.
The hardest part for me is the hair. I have the unfortunate male baldness and wigs have never been easy for me. I’ve some hair around the side but it is largely missing in the center. 🙁 The other part that is hard is the voice.
Having to wear a wig because of losing hair on top. I’m thinning, not bald, on top–just a bit too thin to go without a wig.
Around my house I can go wigless and it looks OK. I only see the thinning area on top if I hold a mirror at an an angle above my head.
Would be nice to get some ideas on this site as to how to handle one’s natural hair, when thin on top (not bald), that will enable one to go wigless by camourflage one’s thinning hair.
Dear Miranda,
I’ve had three hair transplants and no longer rely on wigs. I started with front to back, then back to front, then ‘all over density’. I’ve learned much about voice through several sessions of speech therapy, then worked with a ‘singing’ voice coach, and I continue daily voice exercises. I’ve purchased several of Lucille’s courses and always found them helpful. I occasionally will listen to one of the affirming subliminals. I am a woman. I act as a woman, treat myself as a woman and expect to be treated as a woman. I don’t mind if I am recognized as a ‘woman by choice’. I’ll accept that but please don’t call me ‘him’. Oh, you do look quite attractive in your photo. I’m way older.
In the area of exercising self-care, I believe dressing in ways that make one feel pretty/confident is HUGE. When I was growing up (I’ll be 70 this year), people dressed to impress and I believe that contributed to a sense of well being and self-confidence. Nowadays, people dress for comfort (which isn’t a bad thing; clothes should ALWAYS be comfortable), but SOOOO casually that there’s no way it contributes to feeling pretty or handsome. My girl wardrobe is replete with pretty bras (Temu has many under $10), soft fabrics and styles of outerwear and shoes that even the most casual make me think (in the words of Shania Twain), “Man, I feel like a woman!”
I love everything about being a female! I love the fashion, I love being treated as a woman and love how my boyfriend treats me! I am now a young 78 years of age and pretty much live my life 24/7 as a woman. My goal is just to blend in and be as confident as as I can when I am out. This is a photo of me this past Christmas at a local mall! Was so fun!
Hugs, Suzy
Suzy, I have Always loved your pics, but this one is absolutely incredible. You’ve never looked more feminine, and your breasts are so natural and full. I can see in your smile how you are completely a woman. Love, Amber
Dear Suzy,
I am with you, girl! About your age and have been living my feminine reality for several years (with Lucille’s help!).
Joelle
I just love being a girl and I hope it shows…
Lovely article. Thank you for sharing. I have found that femininity comes from within. At first being out in public was awkward and I tended to overdress and try to act feminine. After several years of feminization and the Flat 2 Femme Program that has changed. I have noticed lately that when I go out wearing casual clothing, stretchy jeans, a sweater and my 3 inch heel boots, wearing just light makeup, I am addressed as a woman. Just the other day I was casually dressed in jeans and a sweater with just light makeup, at the supermarket and when I was checking out the cashier said, “did you find everything you were looking for, girl?” Feels so good. Now the walk and feminine mannerism all come naturally, and people address me as a woman.
I will hang them on my wall and mirror and work on improving them. each one is So important.