Did you know you only have 7 seconds to make a first impression?
If you want to start crossdressing or presenting yourself as a woman, making a strong first impression is key!
In this blog post, I’ll share 7 easy ways to ensure you leave a feminine first impression that lasts. Let’s dive in!
1. Know What You Want to Project
Start by figuring out what image you want to project:
- Do you aim to blend in as an everyday girl?
- Or do you prefer to stand out as a gender-bending fashion diva?
- Do you want to be recognized for your style and sophistication?
- Or do you simply want people to notice your great legs? 🙂
Knowing your desired image helps you align your appearance and attitude with your goals.
2. Be Aware of Your Body Language
Body language is critical to first impressions. You never want to look nervous, shy, or on the opposite end of the spectrum, arrogant.
Instead, project the image of a classy, confident lady deserving of respect.Â
For more on this topic, check out these 27 MTF Body Language Mistakes to Avoid for a Flawless Feminine Image.
3. Wear The Right Color
Did you know that 50% of all non-verbal messages come from color? It’s true!
The colors you wear have a strong impact on how people perceive you, especially when presenting as a woman.
In this blog post, I share the meanings of different colors so you can choose shades that flatter you and boost your confidence.
4. Check your Grooming Habits
Physical attractiveness often boils down to self-care – grooming, neat hair, and stylish clothes.
Luckily, your presentation is within your control! Don’t underestimate the power of good grooming – it can make or break a first impression.Â
Here are 5 feminine grooming habits to incorporate into your routine.
5. Mind your Shapewear
The shape of your body powerfully broadcasts your gender expression in an instant. To appear as feminine as possible, consider investing in quality shapewear, such as:
- High-quality breast forms
- A waist cincher or corset
- Hip and butt padding
Shapewear helps create the right body proportions and feminine curves.
6. Dress for the Occasion
Have you ever found yourself overdressed or underdressed for a particular occasion? Not only do you feel awkward, but you stick out like a sore thumb!
Ensure a positive first impression by dressing appropriately for the occasion and adhering to local style norms.
7. Accessorize for Impact
Accessories can make or break an outfit and your first impression.
A high-quality handbag or beautiful shoes can elevate your look, while scuffed shoes or mismatched accessories can do the opposite.
Add the right touches, such as beautiful jewelry or a flattering pair of sunglasses, to enhance your feminine appearance.
What impression do YOU want to make?
There’s a lot to be said about this topic, but I’ve highlighted the most important areas you should consider.
Now I’d like to hear from you!
What’s the first impression that YOU want to make? Do you have any tips to add to this list?
I’d love to hear from you, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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When I was little about age 7 I was the neighborhood sissy girl. I played dolls and dress up with a neighbor girl and my name was Ginny, short for Virginia, where she was from. This continued until age 10 when she moved away. I took the name Michelle Eileen from two of my other BFF’s who knew I was really a girl inside. I was very honored by them at age 16 to be allowed to wear one of their prom gowns in a fashion show put on by their Girl Scout group when they had a joint project with my Scout Troop. Now at age 65 and retired I can be me mostly with my wife and we do outings as two women quite often. I am “him” when its necessary.
Isn’t there a certain way women walk that is different than men?
Women walk slightly pidgeoned toed
I would like suggestions on makeup foundations that cover, but don’t look too heavy. Besides 5 o’clock shadow, nothing gives a girl away like makeup (especially during the day that looks like three coats of housepaint.
MAC Studio Sculpt foundation and either of their great setting powders along with application lessons from one of their awesome techs and you will be able to look like a pro did your face everytime!I am just a believer and not a sales woman.
hi i have got the courage to post my picks what do you think
hi thanks for your nice comments & now i tell my age it is 62 going on 21 many thanks to Ross -Safi & Jerri Lynn such kind words i have more picks but i think Lucille would approve but they are my upper body (ie breast)
Pat if change back my self I date you
You have lovely body
YOUR BREASTS ARE SO NICE
Magnificent bustline. I would accept you as a genetic woman unquestioningly.
May I suggest that I have heard from many genetic women that we TGs tend to perfect our makeup and real women don’t. . . When we look perfect from eyes to perfectly created lips we are recognized as “not real women” because we look too good. . . Such a shame but perhaps we shouldn’t try to be perfect but only as realistic as the genetic women we are trying to mimic. . .
Marilyn in Dallas, Texas
I agree because I am guilty of going too “formal” with my make up when a little powder, mascara and lip gloss would have been more fitting.
Hi Lucille, Suggestion for a new topic : Make Up : Men’s skin is different from women’s skin, so for example in the area of moisturizers, for gals like me, who want to look as beautiful as possible, should we go for women’s moisturizers or go for moisturizers that have been specifically created for a man’s skin ?
Love,
Joanna
Hi Joanna
Nearly all doctors in Australia who are not working for a cosmetic company will tell you that all moisturisers have the same basic ingredients. The only difference is the colouring additives and perfumes. There is no difference in human skin, it depends on what you do and climate etc for how tough/rough/dry etc your skin gets. So the same moisturiser can be used for the whole body so you don’t need one for the face/hands/body/feet or either sex etc.
Cheers….Karly
Hi ya Lucille
You left out a very important trick. You have to feel the part. If you don’t feel and believe you are female you’ll give yourself away so fast. Have you ever gone somewhere your not suppost to be the trick was believing you belong and no one questions that fact. Believing your female is key to no one questioning that fact.
Be well and safe.
Chrissy
Very good point, Chrissy! Thank you! 🙂
Hi I’m on a cell phone so I’m not sure its compatable