Did you know you only have 7 seconds to make a first impression?
If you want to start crossdressing or presenting yourself as a woman, making a strong first impression is key!
In this blog post, I’ll share 7 easy ways to ensure you leave a feminine first impression that lasts. Let’s dive in!
1. Know What You Want to Project
Start by figuring out what image you want to project:
- Do you aim to blend in as an everyday girl?
- Or do you prefer to stand out as a gender-bending fashion diva?
- Do you want to be recognized for your style and sophistication?
- Or do you simply want people to notice your great legs? 🙂
Knowing your desired image helps you align your appearance and attitude with your goals.
2. Be Aware of Your Body Language
Body language is critical to first impressions. You never want to look nervous, shy, or on the opposite end of the spectrum, arrogant.
Instead, project the image of a classy, confident lady deserving of respect.Â
For more on this topic, check out these 27 MTF Body Language Mistakes to Avoid for a Flawless Feminine Image.
3. Wear The Right Color
Did you know that 50% of all non-verbal messages come from color? It’s true!
The colors you wear have a strong impact on how people perceive you, especially when presenting as a woman.
In this blog post, I share the meanings of different colors so you can choose shades that flatter you and boost your confidence.
4. Check your Grooming Habits
Physical attractiveness often boils down to self-care – grooming, neat hair, and stylish clothes.
Luckily, your presentation is within your control! Don’t underestimate the power of good grooming – it can make or break a first impression.Â
Here are 5 feminine grooming habits to incorporate into your routine.
5. Mind your Shapewear
The shape of your body powerfully broadcasts your gender expression in an instant. To appear as feminine as possible, consider investing in quality shapewear, such as:
- High-quality breast forms
- A waist cincher or corset
- Hip and butt padding
Shapewear helps create the right body proportions and feminine curves.
6. Dress for the Occasion
Have you ever found yourself overdressed or underdressed for a particular occasion? Not only do you feel awkward, but you stick out like a sore thumb!
Ensure a positive first impression by dressing appropriately for the occasion and adhering to local style norms.
7. Accessorize for Impact
Accessories can make or break an outfit and your first impression.
A high-quality handbag or beautiful shoes can elevate your look, while scuffed shoes or mismatched accessories can do the opposite.
Add the right touches, such as beautiful jewelry or a flattering pair of sunglasses, to enhance your feminine appearance.
What impression do YOU want to make?
There’s a lot to be said about this topic, but I’ve highlighted the most important areas you should consider.
Now I’d like to hear from you!
What’s the first impression that YOU want to make? Do you have any tips to add to this list?
I’d love to hear from you, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I’m confident enough now to want to be noticed. The more people notice and chat, the more people can be educated that we are not freaks but just being who we should be.
Reading these comments almost 3 years after the original post is still inspiring to me but in a different way.
I’m the partner of a transgender woman now and I love to help her look her best when she’s out and about just as I want to look nice too.
She’s just your everyday woman but still can’t present herself as such in her career but she still likes to dress professionally and with class when she can.
She’s still early hrt but is developing quickly and I think she’s just beautiful already.
I always want to blend in as a girl forever.
I think I have nice legs.
I have an anecdote, illustrative, I think, of how first impressions work: At the supermarket checkout counter, the checker, myself, and another shopper got into a merry, spirited chat about a Sunday funnies comic strip from the old days. We had a really lovely time for maybe a minute, and of course had to stop so the other customers could be helped. As we separated, the other shopper said to me “You are a beautiful woman.” I didn’t say this to brag. I wasn’t dressed other than normal, with ordinary makeup. I think she said that because she recognized that I was trans, and wanted to show sisterly solidarity, and appreciation for a really fun few moments. Needless to say, I was touched to tears. So, attitude and friendliness go a long way!
Joan, thanks so much for sharing the story of your experience. I think you came across as really genuine and a great communicator. Those qualities, combined with your beauty, resulted in the compliment. I think you came across as much more than “ordinary”. You came across as a special woman!
Thank You, bobbie.
I enjoy getting out and about,so I can interact with all the great folks out there!
I enjoy being just an ordinary girl. 🙂 Although I do admit, I have FANTASTIC legs, and occasionally I like to show them off. Over the years I have put together a decent amount of outfits that allow for both. Finding deals on things like breast forms and wigs help immensely.
Also, if you just want to be an everyday girl, remember that the thrift store can be your best friend! You can find the most amazing things, often at prices that are a fraction of the retail.
I found a $150 wig once, and picked it up for $10. It’s still my go-to for everyday use. Just be faithful to yourself, and look for things that you like, and you think look nice, especially if you’ve spent time studying how other women dress. 🙂
It’s all about YOU, ladies.
Kisses,
Tracy Leigh
Hi Tracy Leigh, thanks for sharing your experiences and providing wonderful advice. I have a feeling that you are much more than an “ordinary girl.” Showing off shapely legs is a great example of how special you are. It’s nice to read your examples of those things that contribute to an attractive outfit. And your instance of finding such a perfect wig at the thrift store is great shopping. What I love most about your comments is when you say, “Just be faithful to yourself, and look for things that you like, and you think look nice….” Such a wise and important statement. Thanks for such insightful and informative writing.
I so agree with Wanda! A smile is so important when meeting people! It makes my day when I can say hit to someone I don’t know with a big smile. It is one of the most important things in my feminine life I think is great! I always get back great responses when I meet people. Here is me today trying on a dress at Macy’s! I bought it, what do you think?
The first bullet point is 100% me: Is your goal to blend in as an everyday girl? YES, absolutely. I have taken lots of photos of mid-to-late 50s women at malls, shopping plazas, restaurants, movie theaters, public library or bookstore, art gallery, or just walking in the city – and focused on gals who are slender in build with up-to-date fashion-style and hair. I want nothing to stand out/be out of the ordinary-average-everyday. Age-appropriate make-up, jewelry, and hair, with nicely coordinated clothes styles and colors – all the right fit for the venue, day, and time of day. If I can also show just a bit of cleavage “tastefully” in a cute clingy knit top with a low scoop- or V-neck, that is a very feminine first look for others to notice when I’m at a service counter or ordering in a restaurant. And YES Lucille, I always make eye contact and smile, because that’s what 90% of real women do out in public.
I agree 100%. Same with me I want to blend in and maybe stand out just a little