There’s nothing like silky smooth skin to make a girl feel extra feminine!
For crossdressers and transgender women, hair removal plays a big role in creating a feminine appearance. But when you’re dealing with lots of face or body hair, things can easily go wrong.
The secret to a smooth, hair-free chest, soft feminine face, and silky smooth legs lies in avoiding some common mistakes.
Here are 5 MTF hair removal mistakes to avoid – and what to do instead!
Mistake #1: Not Exfoliating
All methods of hair removal can cause ingrown hairs, particularly in the beard, chest, and bikini area. You can reduce ingrown hairs by exfoliating your skin 2-3 times per week. This helps get rid of dead skin cells that can trap the hair.
To exfoliate, gently massage your skin with a washcloth, loofah, or exfoliating scrub. My favorite tool is The Body Shop’s exfoliating Body Polisher washcloth. You can find similar exfoliating clothes on Amazon.
It’s important to note that exfoliating immediately after hair removal can irritate the skin. Instead, it’s best to exfoliate either right before or a few days after the hair removal process.
Mistake #2: Forgetting to Moisturize
Dry skin is another cause of ingrown hairs, so it’s important to keep your skin hydrated. (Besides, you want the added benefit of soft, smooth skin, right?)
Pure aloe vera gel is a great moisturizer to use immediately after hair removal. Aloe vera is a natural moisturizer and skin soother.
Another option is to use an unscented lotion or body oil. Perfumed lotions can irritate freshly shaved, waxed, or lasered skin, so avoid them for the first 24 hours after hair removal.
Mistake #3: Not Treating Ingrown Hairs
Exfoliating and moisturizing your skin can help prevent future ingrown hairs. But what should you do about existing ingrown hair bumps?
First, let’s talk about what NOT to do. Resist the temptation of shaving over the ingrown hairs or attempting to extract them with a needle. These actions can lead to infections and scarring.
Instead, try using a specialized ingrown hair treatment like Tend Skin or PFB Vanish. These products are designed reduce razor bumps and ingrown hairs.
Mistake #4: DIY Hair Removal Gone Wrong
Professional waxing, electrolysis, and laser hair removal treatments are expensive, so it can be tempting to try to do them on your own.
However, be careful as some DIY hair removal techniques can lead to painful side effects if your technique isn’t perfect. Here are some pitfalls to watch out for:
Waxing – Mistakes to avoid
Newbie waxing mistakes – like waxing over the same area twice, pulling the hairs in different directions, or pulling too hard – can lead to rashes, bruises, and torn skin. Ouch!
If you still want to do it yourself, I recommend investing in a professional waxing treatment first, so you can observe and learn the proper techniques.
Laser hair removal – Mistakes to avoid
Home laser hair removal systems can save you a lot of money compared to professional treatments. However, it’s important to understand the risks (including burns, scars, and hyperpigmentation) if the devices are not used correctly.
Proceed with caution, take your time, and carefully follow the provided instructions.
Electrolysis – Mistakes to avoid
While there are some home electrolysis machines available, I do not recommend venturing down this path.
Performing electrolysis hair removal is a complex process, which is why professional electrologists are required to obtain licenses.
Not only are most home electrolysis machines unreliable, but there’s also a considerable risk of burning or scarring yourself. It’s best to consult a professional electrologist for this particular procedure.
Mistake #5: Going for the Biggest Bargain
I’m all for beauty bargains, but don’t let price be your sole criteria when choosing a provider for hair removal treatments.
Opting for an ultra-cheap price tag may result in a waxing service that leaves behind stray hairs or a laser treatment that yields patchy results. In the worst-case scenario, you could even end up with burns or scars.
Check the qualifications of the person treating you and read the reviews on any place you are considering. Yelp is your friend!
Also, keep in mind that upscale places tend to put more emphasis on comfortable treatments. If you’re a waxing or laser wimp like me, it’s worth spending a bit more for a less painful experience.
In conclusion
To achieve silky, soft, feminine skin, it’s crucial to avoid these common MTF hair removal mistakes. This is a major DO for any crossdresser or transgender woman.
Now that you’re aware of the don’ts to steer clear of, here are some articles that delve deeper into the topic of hair removal:
- Transgender Body Hair Removal – Which Method is Best for You?
- MTF Facial Hair Removal: Top 8 Ways To Remove Or Reduce Beard Hair
- Permanent Hair Removal: What Really Works? (Male to Female Transformation Tips)
- Bikini Hair Removal Tips for Your Male to Female Transformation
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts. What are your preferred hair removal methods, and do you have any additional tips to share?
Take my hair removal poll below and share your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I use a combination of several devices . If its been a while since I shaved, I use a beard trimmer to cut off my hair close to my skin. Then , I either use a razor with shave cream, or if i get it close to nubbies, i can use my electric razor, which works rather well. I can maintain my smooth body, if I use the electric every day. I haven’t tried waxing yet, but I wonder how long it takes the hair to regrow, and how often I would have to re-wax ? I love my smooth skin !!!
Krys
I would like to know if there is an easy way to remove the hair ? Is Nair some thing good to use ? I ask this because I’m 55 year old crossdresser and I don’t have a lot of hair to remove!
I also 50years but I have more hairs in face and body help me how to remove in easy and low-cost method
please tell me , how do you see my hair removal ; does it make me have a silky smooth skin ?
I voted other hair removal sugaring
Do products like Nair work? and are they safe?
For girls who shave, I would recommend shaving with a safety razor and a quality saving soap and/or cream instead of using disposables and the canned stuff. I used to get awful shave bumps on my neck until I started using a safety razor. It’s a lot better for your legs too and it saves money in the long run since you can buy a few years’ worth of razor blades for like $30.
I mostly shave using Aveeno Positively Smooth shaving gel. This product which does cost a bit more, gradually softens the hairs and slows regrowth. An additional benefit is that it seems to almost completely eliminate razor bumps.
I have tried the silk’n flash and go type IPL an found it does work with repeated use on any dark pigmented hair except on the face were it just produces irritated follicles. Anything that’s gone gray still has to be shaved no matter how many times it’s treated, so act before you go gray! It’s a bit pricey but cheaper than laser.
I tried the no no and found little to no results despite the expense. In my opinion it’s not for male bodied women with courser hair. That device also requires ongoing replacement of the heating elements as they burn out.
I found laser treatments the most effective, but they are expensive. So I have a shaver which extracts The hair from the roots.
Till me Jusie when u use your shave that axracts your body hairs does it take a few days before hairs grow bac
Josie I would like to know the name of it if you wouldnt mind. Lance